Sometimes, having a name that is too big has a real impact on the child:
We all know that children’s names usually contain the expectations of their parents. Some parents have high expectations for their children. They often tell their children that your name contains the characters "big" such as "dragon", "phoenix" and "tian". They hope that you can achieve great things in the future. A big achievement will create a lot of pressure on the child. Children who have been under pressure since childhood are at risk of becoming overwhelmed.
In addition to not naming your child too big, you also need to pay attention to the following points:
1. Pay attention to the homophony of the name to avoid ambiguity
There are so many Chinese characters in China, many of which have the same pronunciation but completely different meanings. Some parents may ignore this issue when naming their children, causing their children's names to have homophonic ambiguities and end up making a joke. Common homophones include "Liu Mang", "Xia Ren" and other common names.
2. Do not use insulting words
The older generation pays attention to having a nickname so that they can make a living, because in the past, the survival rate of children was relatively low and children often died young. Superstitious old people thought that the child's name was too big, so there was a saying that a cheap name would make a living. In rural areas in the 1960s and 1970s, there were many children named "Goudan" and "Ergou". If you still give your child such a name now, the child will become the object of ridicule by his classmates.
3. Do not use uncommon and traditional Chinese characters
In order to make their children more special among the crowd, many parents will use some difficult to understand rare characters or traditional Chinese characters. name. Many people don't know these words, which can lead to embarrassing situations in interpersonal interactions. In fact, in many areas, rare characters and traditional Chinese characters are no longer allowed to be used as names. If they are used, children will not even be able to register for household registration.
As the saying goes, "A person is like his name." Naming a child a nice and resounding name really requires parents to pay more attention. After all, your name will be your child’s calling card for life.