I remember that there was a teacher in junior high school. When she was in class for the first time, she stood on the podium and took the roll call. After some inspections, she found that there were no students with strange names, and then casually said: The names of parents of this class are not avant-garde.
The students in the audience are glad that they were not asked by their names to answer questions, but the teacher's actions are fresh in my memory. There are indeed many teachers who like to ask questions to students with strange names, and there are countless scenes in which these students have been put in an awkward position since childhood.
After going to college, teachers and students don't know each other's names very well and are not interested. Some students even failed to recognize the names of the whole class after four years of college, because the teachers hardly call names in class, but if they go online for special reasons, the situation is different.
College students seem to be in the same state when they are online. They turn on the computer, enter the classroom, and turn off the microphone and camera in one go, which seems to be unified all over the country. When the teacher is giving a lecture, some students may be absent-minded, and some students are really bored, so they study their names.
A freshman and sophomore girl in Wuhan recently became popular because of her name. The reason was that she was repeatedly reminded by her teacher to change her group name in the study group when she was taking an online class, but every time the girl said that she had finished changing it, until the last teacher still had a question: Is this really your real name?
Netizens are also open-minded. Some people bluntly say: Fortunately, it is not Huo, otherwise it will become "Huo Lala". Others say that it seems that it will be difficult for Qu to want cut class in the future, because the teacher will definitely be curious to call the roll after seeing such a name.
From this point of view, Qu's parents were too avant-garde in naming. I wonder if they ever considered that when the students grow up, they will be very likely to be embarrassed when facing their classmates and teachers. It seems that this classmate has become a celebrity in the school.
Nowadays, with the rapid development of the Internet, students can not only learn more strange names from their classmates who usually get along with each other, but also find that many students are different in their names, such as Qin Shousheng and Du Qiyan. However, these names are dwarfed after seeing Shi Zhenxiang, who ranks first.
I believe that these students have also experienced many embarrassing situations in their academic career, and their own names will bring many similar troubles. They have signed thousands of times in notebooks and papers, and I don't know how they felt at that time.
However, it is very easy for students to spread strange names, and students will also take nicknames unscrupulously. Some students will still remember their previous school days when they grow up, and a lingering haze in their hearts is about the troubles caused by names.
Although a name with personality can show a unique personal charm, many students said that compared with the personality pursued by parents, students themselves did not want to be different in others' eyes, which would hurt students' minds to a greater or lesser extent.
A name will accompany a person's life, and how to name it has become a compulsory course for parents. As with students' study, we should be cautious in naming names, and parents should not do whatever they want, because if a name is different enough, it will really put students in an awkward position in the future.
Instead of focusing on how to be independent, we should focus on learning itself. Today, with the development of quality education, students can show themselves in more ways, but under the exam-oriented education, they can only get the opportunity to go to school by virtue of their grades.
Especially in senior high school, in the face of fierce competition, students have to give up their individuality temporarily and devote themselves to study, so that they can stand out in the cruel college entrance examination, enter their ideal university to sublimate their temperament and enrich their knowledge and cultivation.
the author's message: the unexpected popularity of girls is also because the name will give people a feeling of sprouting, which has a lot to do with parents. This name is just one of thousands of strange names. Fortunately, it has not brought many negative voices to this girl, so students should be themselves, but parents should pay attention to their discretion in naming.