What should we do if we find out? I did some research on the child and communicated with the parents. In fact, we found that this child was very unique and talented. His mother told me two things abou

What should we do if we find out? I did some research on the child and communicated with the parents. In fact, we found that this child was very unique and talented. His mother told me two things about him. She said that this child loved monuments when he was a child. She said that when her mother took the child to travel outside and saw the words engraved on the stone tablets, he loved to touch them and couldn't put them down. He didn't want to leave. He also mentioned a phenomenon. As soon as the family bought a map, the child would lay it on the ground and lie down on it to look around. In our psychology, this talent we call spatial perception is very strong, but we parents and children may have ignored it and ignored this natural advantage because it was just for the exam, so we forgot everything. In order to get admitted to Tsinghua University, I gave up everything and squeezed in first. When the child was in his freshman year, he obviously felt that he should study architecture. Of course, we implemented our scientific psychological methods. After the test, it was indeed obvious that he had a future in the architecture department, but he did not think about it seriously, just for the sake of it. Let’s talk about it if you want to pass the exam. This example clearly emphasizes school and neglects majors. Of course, parents include their children, including current parents. When I gave a lecture in the auditorium the day before yesterday, a child of a professor at the Chinese Academy of Sciences still had this view. I will take the exam at Peking University. As for what major I am in, I don’t care. I will go on first. Parents are extremely anxious. There is no other way. Children can understand that Tsinghua University and Peking University have such good brands. Why would they sometimes get admitted to these schools? It is for others to see. With this kind of honor, but without considering professional issues, it is easy to end up focusing on school and neglecting majors. Why does another type of student value school over major? Perhaps because of the students with average grades, he thinks it is difficult to find a job in a poor school, or even say it is difficult to become a talent. I said, this is related to our education and our family education. We consulted a student. Just because he went to Fudan University, and because he was not admitted to Tsinghua University or Peking University, he didn’t want to study after going to university and gave up. He said that his admission to Fudan University was not as loud as Tsinghua University and Peking University. When we were in our junior year of college, our parents told me that our children were very depressed because of this. They had been depressed for several years. They didn’t want to study hard and just wanted to hang out until they graduated. This is what we call education, because we pay too much attention to children’s scores and exams. We all know that schools are good and glorious, right? If we educate our children correctly, we actually say that even those who go to poor schools can become talented. We all know what school the typical Mao Zedong went to, what school the contemporary Liu Chuanzhi and Yang Yuanqing went to, let alone Niu Gensheng, who graduated from junior high school. Of course, it’s not that we would be bad if we didn’t go to school, we can all become talents. Ms. Wu Shihong of Microsoft China actually took the self-study exam and became the general manager of Microsoft China. This concept of talent development has not been instilled in him in our family or our school. Once he fails in the exam, he will feel that he is incompetent. A candidate consulted me last year. He is doing well now. He was admitted to a joint university and was very average. They found me and asked me what to do with my school in the future? I also want to become a talented person. Can this school help me become a talented person? I said you can become a talented person. He said that Union University does not have any polytechnics because those who could have been admitted failed to get admitted. What will happen in the future? I say that success lies in oneself. In many cases, education in universities is self-study. Teachers are of course very important. In many cases, you rely on yourself. Moreover, after entering university, the university is now open. If you feel that the teacher’s lectures are not good, you can attend some lectures. You can even go to the Peking University campus to attend more lectures in this area, and you can learn. As long as you want to learn, you can learn well. He said that he is very confident. He is developing very well now. Now he has set up a studio. In addition to studying, he also runs a studio and is developing well. Therefore, the concept of success must be established in children, otherwise they will not go to college. This is a common concept we encounter.