A good name should show the gender of men and women
The purpose of naming is to facilitate people’s communication, work and life, but in life there are many people with names that are neither fish nor fowl, neither male nor male. female. Regardless of the original intention, this kind of "neutral" naming method will objectively have a negative impact on interpersonal communication. The natural attributes of both sexes in terms of temperament and character make women mostly named with characters that reflect gentleness, beauty, and virtuousness, while men are mostly named with characters that reflect vigor, broad-mindedness, and majesty. But this does not mean denying the strong side of women and the gentle side of men. This is a generalized overall impression.
The name should be personalized, but it should be moderate, and it should not be completely "alienated" or "neither male nor female." Otherwise, this is unrealistic, harmful and unhelpful, and should be suppressed and transformed.
Men and women are inherently different and need to be differentiated in many aspects, and the same is naturally true for the use of names. Names, as a special symbol that represents a person, tend to give people the effect of "priority comes first", so male and female names should be gender-distinct.
Generally speaking, men should be given male names and women should be given female names. There should be no mismatch. Try to imagine: If a strong man is named "Liu Xiaoli", how ridiculous it would be. If a delicate woman is named "Wang Tiezhu", how nondescript it would be. Use female names for men or male names for women. Not only is it easy to cause misunderstandings, but it can also sometimes give people a bad impression. There is an example that illustrates the problem: It is said that there is a young man named Zhang Xiaoying. His parents gave him this name, which means that he will become a "little hero". The intention was not bad. Unexpectedly, when he grew up, this name would bring him a lot of troubles and troubles. For example, when the unit held youth gatherings, he was assigned to the female youth group. , enthusiastic people introduced him to a partner, and the girl's conditions were very good. But when the girl heard his name, she thought to herself: "Why would a young man choose a girl's name? It's so awkward." People say that Chinese men lack masculinity, and if you add a female name
, wouldn’t that make it even worse? If you talk to him about a partner, others will do the same. Just kidding yourself. "So, the girl didn't even want to meet him, and the matter fell through.
Men should have masculine beauty, and their names should also use masculine words, or words that can express masculine temperament. To sum up, the commonly used characters for male names are as follows:
Big, wide, high, deep, far, majestic, majestic, grand, Hong, strong, strong, solid, bright, Brave, fierce, victorious, advance, reach, fly, rise, develop, gain, succeed, build, establish, do, give, rule, control, virtue, benevolence, righteousness, propriety, wisdom, trust in the virtuous, modest, benefit, good, Li, He, Wen, Xue, Zhang, Poetry, Wu, Jianbin, Jun, Bing, Ke, Jia, Tiger, Leopard, Dragon, Biao, Bear, Peng, Fu