Suo Yang was born in Xinyang City, Henan Province. He is the only precious son in his family, and his parents' doting on him is even more unacceptable. Suo Yang can't take care of herself. He needs his mother to help him dress and wash his face, and needs to feed him. Other hands-on work does not require Suo Yang's intervention. He is 23 years old and can't do anything! After his parents died, Suo Yang starved to death at home soon, which is comparable to the story of lazy people eating cakes in ancient times, so Suo Yang was named the first lazy person in China.
According to local villagers, after his parents died, Suo Yang moved to his cousin's house for a few days, but because he was too lazy to do anything, he went back to his home to live alone. I have no money in my hand, so I have to sell everything at home. When I have money, I go to a restaurant to eat. When you have no money, you go to your neighbor's house to beg. Although I am lazy, I still know that I am hungry!
When the villagers saw Suo Yang's pity, they all extended a helping hand to him. They often give him some food, food, meat and so on, but Suo Yang never cooks, even if the food rots and stinks, which shows that he is extremely lazy. Needless to say, I haven't changed my clothes since my parents died! Suo Yang is now 23 years old, flexible and sane. He can support himself by doing something. He is really lazy!
In the winter of 2009, there was a heavy snow in the village, and the weather was particularly cold. My cousin, worried that Suo Yang could not take care of himself, went to see him with a quilt and food. When my cousin saw Suoyang, he found that his body was frozen and he hadn't breathed for a long time. A normal 23-year-old boy is missing. In the final analysis, Suo Yang didn't succeed because he was lazy. Suo Yang also taught all parents a lesson not to spoil their children too much.
Reasons for laziness:
1, which is highly dependent. Nowadays, the only child is seriously dependent. Everything depends on parents or other people, who have no opinions and lack independence. They rely on their parents at home, teachers at school and others in society. This dependence is the main reason for laziness.
2. Lack of self-motivation
Self-motivation is the driving force for progress. Students who lack self-motivation are easy to satisfy, have low demands on themselves, and have a serious thought of muddling along: they are not seeking truth, quality and speed, and often hold an attitude of "coping" and an irresponsible attitude of "muddling along". And this lack of self-motivation will inevitably lead to laziness.
For example, every children's art exhibition in our school requires every student in the class to create an art work and show it in the class. Some students relaxed their requirements and thought: There are so many works in the class that there is no shortage of this one. Just deal with the past, so they are too lazy to think carefully, too lazy to paint, and finish it hastily. This lack of self-motivation is the root cause of laziness.
3. The influence of family relations
Objectively speaking, parents' doting is also a factor that causes students to be lazy. Parents' excessive doting on their children will only make them develop the bad habit of "reaching for clothes and begging for food" from an early age.
In addition, some parents themselves lack the concept of time, diligent habits and resolute style. Teaching by example is more important than teaching by words, which seriously affects the formation of children's good hygiene habits and good behavior, and promotes the occurrence of laziness.