Dealing with the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
1, you must be financially independent and don't rely on both parents.
If you can't live with your parents, don't live together.
Respect your wife, especially in front of your parents. Don't tell your wife what to do, let alone accuse her at will.
Your parents do their filial piety, and your wife helps you. Don't let your wife do filial piety instead of you.
Never quarrel with your wife in front of your parents.
6. Share housework with your wife and take care of your children with your wife. You must do what you do, or your wife and mother will do it for you, and conflicts will arise over time.
7. You can't double-label your wife and mother.
It is necessary to make it clear that you should show your position to your parents.
9. Don't ask your parents questions about small families. Tell them that the young couple can solve their own problems.
10, don't force your wife to meet her mother's requirements when she doesn't want to.
1 1. No matter what conflicts occur between wife and mother, both sides should hold back.
12, unreasonable will inevitably lead to contradictions, not "foolish filial piety."
13, from time to time in front of parents Xiu Xiu love, let parents know that you value your wife.
14, praise your wife in front of your parents, and praise your parents more in front of your wife.
15, the bad guys do it themselves, the good guys let their wives do it, and the credit for helping their mothers lies with their wives, making their mother-in-law happy.
16, don't spread the word on both sides, especially don't spread bad words, if you want to spread it, spread good words.
Dealing with the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
1. Reduce your expectations of your mother-in-law. Don't expect your mother-in-law to treat you as a daughter, and don't be as demanding of her mother-in-law as your own mother. Try to treat mother-in-law as an ordinary elder, maintain the necessary courtesy and respect, and stay at a respectful distance is the best way for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along.
2. Cherish your position and respect the position of others. If you agree to let your mother-in-law help, try not to interfere or criticize. 3. Don't let your mother-in-law say that her husband is wrong, let alone quarrel with her husband in front of her mother-in-law. They have conflicts to solve privately. Don't criticize your mother-in-law to her face, and don't quarrel with her. If there is a problem, let the husband communicate with her mother-in-law.
Try to seek common ground while reserving differences, and don't force mother-in-law to follow her own habits.
6. If you are really dissatisfied, bring it up with your husband in time and let him communicate. Don't put it in your heart and show it on your face, which will make both sides unhappy.
7. Think more about each other's good things in everything, and don't take it to heart occasionally.
8. Give more gifts to your mother-in-law during the Chinese New Year. There is absolutely no harm in boasting more about your mother-in-law. Doby's mother-in-law is happy.