We often say that people are like their names. For us, names are the first label for everyone after they are born, and this label often stays with us throughout our lives. How to make the name catchy and meaningful is a great challenge for parents. So many new parents around us have trouble naming their babies. What should we do?
In China, many children’s names are obtained by grandparents or grandparents, and the elderly also go through a lot of trouble when naming their children. They have to bring out family trees and quote scriptures. It takes no effort, but They are willing to work so hard for their children's future happiness. Moreover, in some places, a child's name must be combined with the birth date and birth date, so there is a lot of knowledge involved in choosing a name.
There was a mother who gave birth to triplets, which made the elders extremely happy. They were very happy, but it was difficult to choose a name when they thought of it. Three came all at once. Not a good job. But I never expected that the child's grandfather casually mentioned three names, and everyone present praised the names for being so good and so domineering!
If you get a good name, you will have “no worries” in life
Chen’s mother lives in Guangzhou and stayed at home full-time after she became pregnant. What surprised many people was that she was pregnant with triplets. So it suddenly became a treasure in the family. On the day of delivery, when the doctor told the family that they were three fat boys, the child's grandfather was so happy that he immediately started thinking of names. We all know that in many people's minds, the child's name affects the child's future fortune, so we cannot neglect it. Because the child's surname was "Gong", everyone racked their brains and couldn't figure it out. When grandpa said it, he simply said "Gong Ping, Gong Zheng, Gong Kai". It was simple, clear, catchy and very recognizable. .
Others all agreed after hearing this. These three names are homophonic, fair, just and open. The child’s grandfather joined the army when he was young and is an old party member. His style is very rigorous, so these three names are fair, just and open. The name is simple and gives hope to the elders. It’s really great!
If your child’s name is not chosen well, will he easily have these troubles?
1. The repetition rate is too high and there is no recognition.
In recent years, many Internet celebrity names have become popular, and the repetition rate of these names is very high. In some classes, there are even If 2 to 3 children have the same name, it will make the child's name look very mediocre and featureless, and it is not conducive to the teacher's daily management, and it will also be very annoying for the child.
2. It is easy to be nicknamed, and the children are unhappy
Some parents like to give their children a weird name, such as "Wang Wangwang". People like to have a sense of joy and let people think about it. When children enter kindergarten, many students are immature and will give others nicknames by their names. Names like Wang Wangwang will be called "Dog Wang Wang" by their classmates. , if a child is relatively introverted, he will be under pressure and close his heart.
So, what issues should we pay attention to when naming our children?
1. Avoid using names that are neither male nor female
A person’s name will accompany the child throughout his life, so you must be very careful when choosing a name. In China, a boy's name can be more masculine and upright, so that people know he is a boy. If he is a girl, he can be more elegant and ladylike, so that others can intuitively determine his gender through his name.
A friend of mine gave a very feminine name to his baby boy, Wang Bingbing. Many people think of "Bai Bing" and "Fan Bingbing" when they hear Bingbing, and they always think it is a girl. , it was not until they met that they realized that the misunderstanding was too big. As the children grew older, the probability of such misunderstandings became higher and higher. The children also disliked this name very much, so after a family discussion, they Give the child a new name.
2. Be careful not to be too non-mainstream and take advantage of celebrity popularity
There are many star-chasing people in life, and there are also many drama-chasing people. Because they are too star-chasing, they will hope that their children will The names are similar, so there are a lot of "Yang Ying" and "Lu Han". Too many names and celebrities collide, which can easily cause many problems. Because celebrities will go out of style, and this is a celebrity that the parents like, not the children. The color of the parents is imposed on the name, and the children will feel that the name has lost their own personality.
And similar to celebrities, classmates and friends around them will also like to tease and become the subject of jokes, which will also add a lot of troubles to children.
3. Don’t use words that are too “sad”
Children are the hope and future of a family. As parents, we all hope that our children can be healthy, cheerful and smart. No one will Children are negative, pessimistic and depraved. Therefore, you must choose a sunny word when choosing a name. I remember that I hated some people’s names in the past. Some parents were very quick-thinking and would call their children Wu Chi. Although there is nothing wrong with the name, it always feels weird when you pronounce it. It is easy to associate it with "hateful and ugly". In the long run, this name has also been easily used as a talking point, making children unhappy. A name often indicates a child's personality, so it's best not to associate it with mourning culture.
So, if the name is chosen well, parents will have less worries. Parents must pay attention to the issue of naming their children!