It is a good thing, at least it shows a kind of social progress. From the perspective of a small family, it is a fashion. As long as the police station thinks that the name does not use any uncommon characters that are difficult to type when settling in, such as Fang Cuan. Or illegal words, such as the man's surname is Li and the woman's surname is Yang. In terms of existence, there is a clan concept message. There are random names, and most of the names are a combination of 4 characters, which also reflects the equality between men and women in New China! For example, the author has seen many such random names: Li Min, Yang Wen, Li, and Yang both worked as armed police, Li was in the police, and Yang was in the cultural and tourism department. The couple chose this unique name for her, their son who was born in the year of the Ox. Name! Like the name of Hong Kong Chief Executive Carrie Lam Cheng Yuet-ngor, she is still famous!
It must be a bad thing. How can I know this clearly? Come for living water from a source. Water will dry up if there is no source; trees will die if their roots are cut off; people will lose their blood if they forget their ancestors. Fortunately, now that culture is returning and family values ??are strengthening, we believe everything will get better and better.
It turns out that when giving birth to a child, the name must be based on the clan generation. The famous elders in the clan will first arrange the "characters", and the boy of which generation should be fixed with one The word for the name. However, naming it this way is very limiting and restrictive. Nowadays, with the "reform and opening up", you can choose your name as you please, and you can imagine whatever you want. As long as the "surname" is not lost, it is not considered a disgrace to the ancestors.
1. There is no more seniority, which makes it easier to talk about marriage.
2. Do not care about seniority. Except for your own family, others cannot tell whether they are father and son or brothers. The relationship is confusing.
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The indifference of clan concept is caused by the rapid development of the times. In ancient times, it was due to the acceptance of tradition. With Confucian education, it has become a tradition to govern the world with filial piety, and the basis of filial piety is the family. Therefore, under the influence of the general environment, everyone can only revolve around the family system, and the person with the highest power in the family It is the elder who is old, because at that time the spread of information was extremely slow, and being old not only means that he has too much knowledge, but also means that he has enough connections, and the younger generations of the clan need more support, and the old A generation of people could help him more.
Nowadays, with the rapid development of science and technology, the education we receive is more modern, and the pace of life is accelerating rapidly, resulting in everyone's life being more independent, but the elderly are still While adhering to past ideas, this creates a huge contradiction with the ideas of young people, and it is difficult for both parties to unify. Therefore, it naturally leads to a weak concept of family. For young people who pursue freedom, the concept of family is weak. Being indifferent is obviously a good thing.