A good name reflects parents' cultural background. In interpersonal communication, it can deepen the impression and make people unforgettable. However, there are hundreds of surnames, besides Qiansun Zhao Li, which we often see, there are many special surnames, some of which are very pleasant to listen to, such as Ouyang, Shangguan, etc., and some of which are special. We should think carefully about choosing names.
A father's surname is "Yin", which was originally a very good surname, but what name should he give his child? I want my children to be rich and live a rich life in the future, and I also want the family to spread branches and leaves, and my children will be full of children. I have racked my brains for a long time and finally gave my children a very personal name called "Yinduo", which is the best of both worlds, and the child's birth certificate also has its own name.
However, this name has filled many netizens with worries. They said that it is not as good as dad's name, and there will be good prospects in the future. If not, people will laugh at your name.
Some people say that children may be jokes in the class when they grow up. Especially when the teacher calls the roll, they will burst into laughter. I wonder if the children will also object when they know the meaning of their names. I have to say that the father's name for the child is too purposeful. Although the moral is good, we should also consider the public's acceptance. After all, the name is too personal. Many netizens have made suggestions for this. Some people say that the child is called "Yinhe", others say that it is called "Yinman", while others say that it is better to call "Yinduo" than "Yinduo". Some people even ridicule it and simply call it "Yinduo".
Choosing a name is very particular. To sum up, it can be divided into the following categories:
① The name is too big. For example, there is a child named "Zhang Dingtian". Comparing the child to a person like Pangu, who can carry the world on his shoulders, is too great a responsibility for the child and gives people a sense of immodesty.
② If the name is too small, the name should be consistent with the child. It is not good to be too big or too small.
③ The repetition rate is too high, and some names are very popular in a certain period of time. For example, Qiong Yao drama was popular in the past, and the names such as "Han" and "Xuan" were popular in it, which parents thought was pleasant to hear, but now it is very vulgar, because the repetition rate is too high, the teacher shouted "Mohan" in class, and several children looked up.
④ If there is ambiguity, the child's name should be considered repeatedly. Read it backwards and forwards. Only when there is no problem can you register. If there is ambiguity in the name, for example, a child named "Du Ziteng" is nicknamed "stomachache" and a child named "Shi Zhenxiang", which is a tasteful name.
⑤ It's too complicated, the simpler the strokes of the name, the better. Generally, it's controlled within 3 strokes. Names with too many strokes are difficult to write, which is easy to arouse children's disgust. There are really a few children who cry because of writing their names in every exam.
⑥ There is a contrast. Many parents give their children names and attach their own expectations to them, resulting in a strong contrast between themselves and their names. When children grow up, they will also be embarrassed by their names.
There are quite a few examples of me being cute with my name.
For example, I have a classmate named "Gao Fushuai". As a result, I am ugly and short, which doesn't match my name at all. Every time I call his name, someone always laughs. Fortunately, he is humorous. Later, he worked, but because of this, he was appreciated by the leaders and was promoted.
Example 2: I have a friend named Gentle, and as a result, there is a female man. Every time we quarrel, her husband will say, I was cheated by your name, and you are not gentle at all, haha.
in the third example, there was a man named Wen. Grandpa hoped that he could be admitted to a good university, so he was called Wen Quxing. As a result, he dropped out of middle school. He didn't allow others to call him by his real name, so everyone called him Xiaowen, but when he knew his name, he would make fun of him in good faith. This contrast was not great.