Before discussing what a woman who has seen the world looks like, let's take a look at what a woman who has never seen the world looks like.
Spanish novelist Lavrette said:
For a woman, the whole meaning of life is to find her and let others find her in a refreshing way.
Therefore, at every class reunion, the people who like to talk the most are always people who have never seen the world.
The women crowded together and talked about what kind of life they lived in these years after graduation.
M shouted and said:
Guess what? Last time I went to Las Vegas with my husband, I found there were so many rich people, and tens of thousands of chips were always pushed out!
So everyone was curious to ask her if she and her husband had ever gambled. M was a little proud to put up with it but couldn't wait to let it go, saying, we, uh, bet 40 thousand to 50 thousand. My husband was unlucky and lost everything. ?
When everyone was sighing, she casually said:
But it's only 40 thousand or 50 thousand I tell you, don't think about winning money when you go to the casino. Consider it entertainment. Winning or losing is not important. Happiness is the most important thing!
So, in the envy of everyone, M went on to tell all the things he met in Las Vegas? Adventure? .
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But she only said one thing over and over again, that is, they went to the casino and repeated it many times.
Later, no one wanted to hear it, so everyone started talking about something else. One person said: I feel really cold this winter, colder than ever. ?
M immediately took the past and said:
Yes, but you haven't been to Las Vegas. The air conditioner in the casino there is so cold that I have goose bumps. You should really feel it when you are free, and so should the shopping mall. I think I will wear a cotton-padded jacket in summer.
Another person said:? I heard that XX has opened a duty-free shop, and the things in it are really cheap! ?
Micah took the topic at the speed of the ear and said:
Yes, it's very cheap, but I tell you, there are not only casinos but also outlets in Las Vegas, and the discount inside is really super low! Lu or something, you will fail if you go there!
Seeing that all the awesome power of the class reunion was going to be blown away by her alone, someone finally couldn't stand it and asked her: Did you buy anything there? ?
M a little embarrassed to say:
That's not true, but I'm just telling you that it's very cheap there. Actually, it doesn't matter where you buy it. Anyway, the price difference is not too much. Besides, I didn't have anything to buy at that time, so I didn't buy it.
Everyone was suddenly quiet for a while, and then someone raised a new topic, and M was not the first time to participate, so other students fell into a heated discussion again.
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In daily life, a person who has never seen the world is often more likely to be forgotten by people around him, because their experiences have nothing to talk about.
Therefore, they are often a neglected part of the crowd. Because they are insecure, they like to gain a sense of security by letting outsiders affirm themselves.
In the same way, people who have never seen the world are more willing to pretend that they have seen the world. They take out their only life experiences for fear that they will be forgotten by others carelessly.
As we all know, a woman who has seen the world is not afraid of being forgotten by the world, because her experience is enough to make her feel safe.
So, what will it be like for a woman who has really seen the world?
I think of a sentence that is most appropriate: light does not shine, still water depth? .
A woman who has seen the world has an eye. The broad vision makes her have thoughts, and thoughts make her get rid of narrowness and become bright and mature.
I thought that I used to be in a dormitory with us, and my food and clothing were not first-class. I like reading and am very self-disciplined in my studies. I regularly arrange myself to go out for two days every month, even if it's only to the surrounding small towns.
Perhaps it is these unique experiences that make L a thoughtful person. We all like her very much, and it will make people feel comfortable to get along with her.
She is humorous and considerate. She can just master humor and seriousness, and never jokes when she shouldn't.
She doesn't like arguing with others about unnecessary things, but if necessary, she will fight all the battles to the end.
When we graduated, we were surprised to find that the L family was very rich, and my parents actually made planes!
But I didn't see how extravagant she was in her daily life, and she was even laughed at by M several times:
Now, no girl can wear more clothes and shoes in buy buy. Why are you so few? Little change!
You've been carrying this bag since freshman year. Broken and rotten. Why not change it?
Finally, the L family severely hit M in the face. But I don't think there is anything to be proud of. She said that she valued what she did in her life more than what her parents did in their life.
M is too superficial to think that he is noble just by looking at his gorgeous appearance, but the real nobility is a kind of temperament, not piled up with jewels on his clothes;
You see, in ancient poems, it is said that beauty has a particularly good temperament, which means nothing more than that? Who is cuter than her? However, she lives alone in an empty valley? Hibiscus is not as beautiful as beauty, and the water temple is fragrant. Wait, don't compare beauty to pearls, emeralds and diamonds;
While emphasizing the beauty beyond pearl jade, there is often a kind of? Stay independent? The proud character is still among them. Otherwise, why are there so many beautiful women and only a few go down in history?
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There is a sentence in Liu Xiaoqing's autobiography "Life is not afraid of coming back" that reads:
Great women are like water. If you are at the bottom, I will come in, gently surround you, hug you and give you warmth; When you are tall, I will retire and let you shine alone.
And the woman like water must be herself? Light without luster, still water depth? Yes So I said that a woman who has really seen the world is not only mature, but also has light in her eyes.
This autobiography of Liu Xiaoqing mainly tells the story that she was arrested and imprisoned for tax problems and made a comeback after her release.
When she was caught for the first time and heard that she would be locked up for seven years, her first reaction was not despair, but hope:
As long as you don't die, everything will be easy. The key is to live. I was born zero. Although I built my country with my own hands, I just went to Vanity Fair, and now I'm back where I was? I want to create a different future with my own hands, which is the only fate I can control. Knowledge, health and affection are the only three things that belong to you.
So she started running in the prison. The cell was very small. She counted the squares and paced back and forth 8000 steps. Go to bed early and get up early every day, and eat corn flour.
Learn English, read famous books, and study why they are popular in the market, because she has always had an immortal hope that I want to continue filming and be a producer after I go out!
But it doesn't matter if I can't do it. There are many possibilities in life. As long as you are alive, you are not afraid to start all over again!
After she was released from prison, she took on the stage play The Last Night of Jin Daban directed by Xie Jin, which perfectly presented Jin's life and caused a sensation all over the world.
Many experiences in prison also taught her to be a soft woman, not tough, but soft and hard.
After storms and disasters, she is still a radiant Liu Xiaoqing.
For a long time, in the eyes of people seriously misled by entertainment reports, Liu Xiaoqing? It is a synonym for act young. He played the role of 18 at the age of 60.
But in fact, her heart is really only eighteen. This is not a young and ignorant 18-year-old, but an 18-year-old who is still young and active after wind and rain.
She knows that living is the process of experiencing life, so she puts herself down to experience the process of life and the free flow of emotions.
She lives clearly and simply in this world. She is still full of longing for everything and has learned to be humble about strange things.
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Isn't that what a woman who has really seen the world should do? I won't turn myself into an out-of-touch person because I have experienced too much.
They often know more about the beauty and vividness of life than ordinary people, and they also know more about the value of light because they have seen darkness.
They will laugh because of the sweetness of a candy, but they will not be cheated away because of a candy.
They have no serious class concept in their eyes, they will not laugh at the weak, and they can also consult a person who is stronger than themselves with a humble heart.
Da Vinci said: Simplicity is the most complicated. ?
The more experienced people are, the more they like to put away their stories and wait for a night with wine. Some old friends walked past the incense, thought it over carefully and read it slowly.