In order to better educate their children, today's young parents will choose to have fewer and better children, so the only child and only daughter has become the status quo of most families.
When a child is born, the first thing the family does is to name the child. The child’s name will follow the child throughout his life, so it has always been valued by the elders in the family. Nowadays, there are fewer children in the family, so naming the children is particularly important.
Mr. Chen has a fifteen-year-old daughter. Recently, his daughter has been clamoring to change her name. Mr. Chen is depressed and has a headache about this. Why is this? It turned out that when Mr. Chen's wife gave birth to their daughter, the couple decided they would only have this one child. Because it was a girl, the couple wanted to give the child a nice name with a beautiful meaning, such as Tingting, Lili, Qiqi, etc., but Mr. Chen was not satisfied.
Later, Mr. Chen saw the idiom "Chen Yu Luo Yan" in the dictionary, and added his surname Chen, so he named his daughter Chen Yu Luo Yan, hoping that the child would be healthy and beautiful in the future.
However, what happened was counterproductive. Mr. Chen’s daughter became a little chubby as she grew older, and her facial features were not very good-looking, and she had nothing to do with Chen Yuluoyan. It's nothing when the children are in primary school, after all, children are very ignorant. Now that children have started school and have entered junior high school, there are discordant voices around them, making fun of the discrepancy between the child's name and appearance. Sometimes when the teacher calls the child's name during class or asks a question, laughter breaks out in the class.
Nowadays, when many parents name their children, most of the names contain some of their family members’ best wishes or their parents’ unrealized goals, such as Li Zhuangyuan, Wang Qinghua, Xu Qingcheng, etc. Of course, parents have good intentions and hope that their children will have a bright future, but when their children become more sensible, they will feel pressure.
When some children do not go well in study or life or suffer setbacks, they will feel pressured by their parents' ardent hopes, which is not conducive to the growth of the children.