Why do people fear not loneliness, but regret and confusion in their later years?

Why do people fear not loneliness, but regret and confusion in their later years? 1, guilt, should be the regret of unfinished business. Nine times out of ten, when we look back on life, there will always be feelings. If we had done it in a different way, would the conclusion have been much better? This confused mood is not reconciled to past experience, but also dissatisfied with present life. Grandma Yoko said in the book "Worthy of the World": "Pain and sadness are actually natural things. People need to experience suffering in this life. " When Grandma Yoko was young, the family suffered great changes. She had to come to the countryside to take part in labor and lost a good opportunity to study. After returning to China, she just entered the factory as an ordinary employee.

She didn't complain, but went on studying. When she got a good opportunity to study and train to study medicine, she studied hard and finally became a doctor. She has been a doctor for decades, and at the age of eighty, she is still helping others to see a doctor. When looking back on her life, Grandma Yoko was grateful for every opportunity she met and for setbacks. She thinks she's just helping him develop.

In this life, people will experience ups and downs and participate in fluctuations. If you don't pay enough attention to it, life will be full of guilt. Life is often precious because it can't be repeated. Now that it is over, there is no need to regret it. Regret will only make us lose the fun of the moment. A wise man once said, "We should cherish two things, one is a good family and the other is a good sleep." Family happiness and physical and mental health are the most precious things.

2. Being at a loss is a panic about the future. When I retired from my post, some old people were full of confusion. Having a lot of time, but lacking some strength to move forward, coupled with the fact that children get married and have no dependence on their parents, the elderly will feel frustrated and find no value in life. Sometimes, being at a loss is the uncertainty of future life, which makes people panic.

I will have such an aunt around me. In the first year of retirement, she was very depressed. She often passes the time by bus, but wherever she goes, she is not opposite. By chance, she saw a flower shop on the side of the road, where flowers were quietly placed, which gave her a great feeling. After coming back, she and a few like-minded friends formed a club team, named "Summer Half Life".

They will strengthen exercise together, write and draw together, and organize holiday trips together, so that a quiet life is fun for them. Life is meaningless. If you have a goal, give it practical meaning. Some old people always feel that they are getting older, their health is getting worse every day, their logical thinking is getting lower and lower, but their life is getting more and more depressed. In fact, from another angle, every day at this stage is the youngest day in the future. Why not cherish it?