A brief introduction to Zhao Benshan’s wife Ma Lijuan’s age, place of birth, family photos (pictures) 2009-05-26 21:10 One day in the late autumn of 1965, when he woke up in the morning, Zhao Deren pushed his wife beside him, but there was no movement; I shouted twice but saw no movement. When I touched it again, it was cold. The mother who gave birth to Zhao Benshan passed away silently (as I later learned, this day was October 28, 1965). On the same day, in an ordinary family in Chifeng City, at the border of the Greater Khingan Mountains and the Mongolian Plateau, thousands of miles away, a fat and dignified little girl was born. This little girl was well-behaved and smart, with a well-proportioned figure and a golden voice. Later, she became Zhao Benshan's girlfriend, his second wife, Ma Lijuan. In 1991, after Zhao Benshan divorced his ex-wife Ge Shuzhen, with whom the gap was getting wider and wider, he met Ma Lijuan, a teacher at the Liaoning Provincial Opera School, at work. Their similar hobbies and interests made the two gradually become the most intimate friends.
In early 1992, when Benshan suffered a car accident and was hospitalized, Ma Lijuan stayed by his side, which deepened their mutual understanding and deepened their relationship. The conditions for falling in love and getting married were ripe.
On August 8, 1992, the lobby of the hotel in Shenyang, the provincial capital, was decorated with lanterns and colors, resplendent and magnificent, making it a joyful scene. In the center of the front of the hall, a huge double "happiness" character with the ceiling touching the ground shines with golden light. Directly above the word "Happiness" are inlaid several eye-catching large characters "Wedding Joy of Zhao Benshan and Ma Lijuan". Huge couplets hang on both sides of the word "Happiness" made of neon lights:
First couplet: The lotus blooms in Lotus Mountain and the phoenix tree attracts the phoenix
Second line: There is a descendant of Longtan Dragon in Longtan Temple
The horizontal comment is; the dragon and phoenix are auspicious
Zhao Benshan’s father Zhao Deren and stepmother Zhang Yuqin Sitting upright on the left side of the lobby, Ma Lijuan's parents sat on the right side of the lobby. After the drumming, the host and playwright Zhang Chao announced: "The wedding ceremony of the famous comedy performing artist and sketch master Mr. Zhao Benshan and the famous actor, Liaoning Provincial Drama School teacher and talented girl Ms. Ma Lijuan will now begin!" The audience burst into thunderous applause.
In the beautiful melody of a beautiful Northeastern local folk song "The Fifth Watch of the Crescent Moon", the bride Ma Lijuan, dressed in a gorgeous wedding dress, slowly walked into the wedding hall with Benshan on her arm. At this time, two little girls in festive costumes each held a bouquet of graceful and gorgeous peonies and presented them to the groom and the bride to symbolize that their married life would lead to wealth step by step like these peonies. At this time, a middle-aged woman led a pair of little girls to Zhao Benshan and Ma Lijuan. The little girls each held a bouquet of bright orchids and presented them to them. After laying flowers, the two little girls said, "I wish Uncle Zhao and Aunt Ma Lan a happy marriage and a happy marriage." In the marriage customs of northern Liaoning, this is called good things coming in pairs. Benshan and Lijuan recognized them at a glance. It turned out that these three people were the little girl they were treating who had cataracts and had no money for treatment, her sister and mother. The wedding was held grandly and enthusiastically in an atmosphere full of local customs.
“One bow to heaven and earth, and a husband and wife will hold hands together forever.”
“Two bows to the high hall, and the high hall will be full of happiness and longevity.”
“When a husband and wife bow to each other, they are as affectionate as each other. The sea, dragon and phoenix are auspicious.”
According to the wedding customs in northern Liaoning, tents are also spread. The so-called tent spreading means that the whole life person selected by the husband's family puts the red sorghum, chestnuts, dates, peanuts, sugar, etc. prepared in advance in a rice measuring bucket covered with red cloth, and scatters them everywhere in the new house. It indicates a happy marriage with children.
After seeing off the last group of guests, it was almost late at night, and Zhao Benshan and Ma Lijuan returned home arm in arm. This is their wedding room, which is full of romance and warmth under the warm night lights. After Benshan took off his wedding clothes and helped Ma Lijuan take off her cheongsam made of pure cotton wool, he turned over and lay on his back on the bed, shouting happily like a child: "I have a family, I have a family." !”
Now, Zhao Benshan has not only found true love, but his wife has also given him twins, a dragon and a phoenix, which he never dreamed of. It was an auspicious double happiness on the first day of the Lunar New Year that year, and Zhao Benshan was very happy. Mouth from ear to ear.
"God has given me so much! I'm really sorry. The country is so vigorously promoting family planning, and I justifiably set two quotas at once. This is not the case with household guarantees. God loves me so much, so I have to cherish it. Be a good person and do something worthy of your fellow villagers."
Zhao Benshan feels that "marriage is a tiring thing, but it is also a responsibility. As long as you enter, you have to be responsible to the end. Sometimes when you are busy with performances, you can't take care of your family. "In the past few years, Lijuan'er has had a hard time raising two children. At least she has gradually gotten used to it. Although I have not reached the level of a five-star man, I should be considered a relatively passable man." The reason why I dropped the star rating is. "I don't take the little things at home too seriously, and they are quite careless. As soon as I come home, I am not clean, and my wife has to follow behind to clean up." It is rare that Zhao Benshan even dissected himself humbly.
My Wife is My Wife
The reporter noticed that when Zhao Benshan performed "Selling Cars" on New Year's Eve, he specifically noted: Director Ma Lijuan, Zhao Benshan explained: "Years ago, our whole family was together At CCTV, in addition to taking care of my life, my lover Ma Lijuan also made a temporary guest appearance as a director. In fact, she participated in every work I made and we worked together. She is my good wife, not only in life. , also in career." Speaking of his golden partner, Zhao Benshan praised He Qingkui: "Lao He has two irreplaceable advantages. It’s never too troublesome to rewrite it again; secondly, he has excellent language skills, he understands the essence of Northeastern dialect and the characteristics of our language.”
Wife: Ma Lijuan, a teacher at the Liaoning Provincial Drama School. They have a pair of twins: Zhao Yinan and Zhao Yihan.
Zhao Benshan’s current wife, Ma Lijuan, is a teacher at the Liaoning Opera School. Zhao Benshan commented that Ma Lijuan is a “very educated, well-educated, and beautiful person.” Zhao Benshan said, “The best thing about Ma Lijuan is that she is kind to me. She understands and supports everything she does to her ex-wife, her parents, relatives, and friends in the countryside. She often buys gifts for my eldest daughter and is also very concerned about my father.”
Of course, having been married once, Zhao Benshan cherishes his current family very much. Zhao Benshan said: "It is true that there are many divorces in the entertainment industry, but it is impossible for me to get divorced again. If I get divorced again, people will have to say that I, Zhao Benshan, are bad: 'Look at this Zhao Benshan, he is divorced again.' I am also a public figure. What bad things I am going to do, people all over the country have to know...
On the eve of the Spring Festival in 1997, Zhao Benshan's wife Ma Lijuan gave birth to a pair of twins named Niu Niu and Niu Niu. , Li Zhongtang came specially to congratulate him. There were many distinguished guests and friends at the wedding banquet, but Zhao Benshan solemnly asked Li Zhongtang to "open the wine" on behalf of his father.
Once, Li Zhongtang went to Shenyang for business and stopped by to visit Zhao Benshan. One family. After entering the door, Ma Lijuan was coaxing the child. She had already greeted Li Zhongtang and was ready to come out to greet him, but Zhao Benshan was too concerned to hear him, so Zhao Benshan turned his anger into a smile. , asked his wife to make tea and water, took the child over, and asked the child to call him grandpa. That night, Zhao Benshan also put down all the affairs and invited Li Zhongtang to a famous hotel. During the dinner, Zhao Benshan not only gave Li Zhongtang a meal. He introduced the names of the dishes and kept picking them up, for fear that he would not be able to eat well. When Li Zhongtang learned that this meal would cost a lot of money, he said it was too wasteful, but Zhao Benshan smiled and said: "Why did you forget? I am now. I have some money. I am usually busy all day, and I haven't had a meal with you for a long time. Your health is not good. As long as you eat more, I will feel at ease. ”
On Li Zhongtang’s 66th birthday, Zhao Benshan, who had already prepared for it, came with his father, eldest daughter and Ma Lijuan holding Niu Niu and Niu Niu. Zhao Benshan not only brought valuable gifts to Li Zhongtang For the birthday ceremony, Zhao Benshan and other students also personally lit the beautiful red candles to pay tribute to Li Zhongtang, and carefully wrote a plaque for Li Zhongtang, which said: "To my mentor, Mr. Zhongtang." Pen, congratulations on your sixty-sixth birthday, and may you live a long life! ”
The reason why Li Zhongtang won Zhao Benshan’s love and respect is not only because he discovered and cultivated Zhao Benshan. On the other hand, as an opera writer, Li Zhongtang’s personality over the decades Zhao Benshan was infected by his charm and tireless pursuit of theater arts.
Li Zhongtang has worked in the cultural department for more than 40 years. He not only selflessly helped and cultivated many artistic talents and made them famous, but also used his spare time to write a large number of artistic works and publish opera collections. After Li Zhongtang retired, he suffered from diabetes and high blood pressure, but still continued to write, helping and supporting new authors.
On the banks of the Yalu River, Zhao Benshan and Ma Lijuan, a teacher at the Provincial Opera School, walked side by side. On the river embankment, weeping willow trees swayed slightly in the river breeze. Several fishing boats were moored in the middle of the river, and fishermen were casting nets to catch fish. The river flows quietly to the south, and the mountains on the shore turn into colorful purple and dark colors in the sunset.
Ma Lijuan spoke first: "Benshan, you did a great job, and there was laughter everywhere."
Zhao Benshan: "Your sister-in-law Aqing also acted well, and her skills are very good. Wow!"
Ma Lijuan: "I heard that you came from the mountains?"
Zhao Benshan: "Yes, I heard that you are also a child of the mountains."
Zhao Benshan then asked: "Is it better to teach in school or to be an actor?"
Ma Lijuan: "Each has its own merits. Teaching students in school can study performance theory. But when it comes to actual performances by literary and art groups, You can experience life, enrich your performance practice, make achievements in performing arts, and try to explore some new opera performance techniques and forms of expression."
Zhao Benshan: "Teacher Ma, students will benefit from your words. It's very interesting. Please give me more advice in the future."
Ma Lijuan: "Don't be serious."
In front of a residential building in Shenhe District, Shenyang City, Zhao Benshan knocked on the door. Opening it, Ma Lijuan came out.
"What kind of wind brought you here?"
Zhao Benshan: "It's the east wind."
Ma Lijuan let Zhao Benshan into the house and sat down. , said to Benshan: "Please tell me if you have anything."
Zhao Benshan: "That's what happened. Guangdong Pacific Audio and Video Company and Beijing Audiovisual Publishing House invited me to record cassette tapes." Ma Lijuan: " What's the title?" Benshan: "The full name is "Happy Comedian". There are many programs that require male and female collaborations.
Ma Lijuan said thoughtfully: "I don't know. If you can't take on this responsibility, give it a try. "
A week later, Zhao Benshan and Ma Lijuan arrived in Guangzhou by plane and cooperated with Guangdong Pacific Audio and Video Department to complete the recording of the "Happy Comedian" tape. In this tape, many arias are from Northeastern local operas The two-person singing section and Northeastern folk singing section fully demonstrated Ma Lijuan's professional expertise. This tape was once widely popular in the society, but the majority of the audience only knew Zhao Benshan, but they never knew who this heroine with a smooth accent was. It is not clear what the friendship between Zhao Benshan and Ma Lijuan is. After more than two years of performance cooperation, Zhao Benshan and Ma Lijuan have gradually communicated more. Their similar hobbies and interests have made the two the most intimate friends (To be continued. ) This website is specially authorized by the author and publisher of "The Oriental Laughing God Zhao Benshan"
" The first quarrel my wife (Ma Lijuan) and I had was over our eldest daughter. After remarrying, my child from the countryside came to my house for the first time, and my wife didn’t say a word to her. After sending the child away, I lost my temper. I asked her why you don't talk to your child. Do you love me? My daughter has my blood in her body. If you love me, you must love her! Otherwise, we will divorce. My daughter-in-law listened to my words, and from then on she was very kind to my eldest daughter. Now if my daughter doesn't tell me anything, I always tell her. They get along really well. ”
Now, Zhao Benshan’s eldest daughter has graduated from college. Zhao Benshan took his daughter to work in Shenyang. These days, he is planning what kind of car to buy for his daughter. Zhao Benshan said that the child has suffered a lot since childhood. , I feel sorry for her. Now as long as I can, I will try my best to meet my daughter's requirements.
Jin Bingchang is a great matchmaker
Zhao Benshan and his current daughter-in-law Ma Lijuan met, and they were introduced by Jin Bingchang, a famous cross talk actor in Liaoning. In order to conceal the truth from others, the two of them were secretive at first and rented a house. But one day, the truth finally came out. Not long after Benshan returned home, there was a fire downstairs. He went downstairs to put out the fire while wearing slippers. After the fire was extinguished, the neighbor realized that this was not Zhao Benshan. He asked him, "Why are you here?" Zhao Benshan also lied and said, "I was visiting a friend's house."
"Why do you still wear slippers when you visit?" "Slowly, the neighbors came to know that Zhao Benshan lived upstairs. As a result, as soon as the lights in his house came on, the neighbors stood downstairs and shouted: "Zhao Benshan, Zhao Benshan." ”
Olympic champion Wang Junxia and sketch actor Zhao Benshan both live in Xinmeng Garden in Shenyang. There is only a corridor between the two families. Standing on the balcony of their home, they can see each other as long as they raise their heads. As the saying goes, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors. The Wang Junxia family and Zhao Benshan and his family naturally became close to each other. Later, Zhao Benshan and I became friends without looking up. I got along very well with Zhao Benshan’s wife Ma Lijuan. She was a cheerful, smart, virtuous and generous woman. She gave birth to a pair of lovely twins - Niu Niu and Niu Niu. She must be deep and unobtrusive, just standing silently behind her husband and shouldering the burden of raising two young children.
Zhao Benshan’s two children are very cute, especially little Niuniu, with her big eyes twinkling. The ground is full of aura, her curved eyelashes are long and naturally upturned, and her supple skin is white with a hint of carmine. As soon as she sees me, she shouts in a sweet voice from a distance: "Jun." Hello Aunt Xia. "I liked it so much that I wanted to have a child immediately. Later, I got my wish and gave birth to a healthy and beautiful son. My role in life also changed from a middle-distance runner to a wife and mother. I manage the family and educate my children. , became my top priority. But I lacked experience in this area. When I took my children to play in the community, I often saw Ma Lijuan who always kept herself clean and beautiful, and managed her patiently. The "Heart Sutra" about housekeeping and educating children was taught to me, which benefited me a lot.
Ma Lijuan and I always have endless "private" conversations between women, and we talk about our respective husbands. They all feel very happy and satisfied. Although Zhao Benshan often performs outside, Ma Lijuan knows that her husband is a responsible man, "No matter where I am, I can guarantee that my heart is always at home." Men's hearts are sometimes very fragile. Who can withstand the constant torment? I've been divorced once, and I can't let my family have any more problems. "This is a simple and heart-to-heart talk that Zhao Benshan said to his wife.
Zhao Benshan loves his family very much, but he has to leave home often to perform outside. The children can't always see it. My father was very unfamiliar with him as a "father". There were several times when he wanted to take his children out to play, but he couldn't.
Once, when Zhao Benshan was about to go out, the children said to him: "You have to leave." Already? Come and visit our house when you have time! "This makes Zhao Benshan very sad and helpless, because he is not only the husband of his wife and the father of his children, he also belongs to the hundreds of millions of viewers who love him.
Last year, Ma Lijuan and I went to Hong Kong together . Every day we went to the department store, shopping was so overwhelming that we had to go shopping until we could no longer walk before returning to the hotel. Ma Lijuan bought a lot of clothes and toys for the children, but most of them were clothes for Zhao Benshan. No one knows that Zhao Benshan is actually very well-dressed and fashionable in real life. He doesn't look like him at all on the screen - wearing a washed-out hat and very "old-fashioned" clothes and shoes. His wife dressed up carefully for him. We returned from the trip to Hong Kong with a full load. Before getting on the plane, Zhao Benshan called his wife and told her that he would come to pick her up in person. My husband Zhan Yu also said that he would come to pick me up. When we landed in Shenyang, we were all very happy because we were about to see our relatives. Suddenly, Ma Lijuan's cell phone rang. I saw that the smile that had been on her face disappeared instantly. I quickly asked: "What's wrong?" ? " "I originally agreed on the phone that your eldest brother would pick me up. But now it's said that he has important things to do and can't come. "Ma Lijuan said frustratedly. At the exit of the airport, suddenly, I saw Ma Lijuan's surprised but extremely happy expression. "Didn't you say you couldn't come? How do you..." It turned out that when she looked up, she saw Zhao Benshan, who seemed to be falling from the sky with a smile on his face. It turned out that this was a surprise deliberately created by Zhao Benshan. Our comedian is like this. He always tries his best to provide for his loved ones in life. Sending surprises and humor.
Now, Zhao Benshan has a new family. Talking about his current wife, Zhao Benshan said that he is a happy man and he is very content with his wife Ma Lijuan. He is a teacher at the Liaoning Provincial Drama School.
Lu Yu: Is it free love this time?
Zhao Benshan: This is. This should be said, I have known this wife since we were not divorced. It’s not that I can leave because of her. Maybe I can leave without her in the future. It will be someone else, because I have been performing in the theater and I know her in our troupe. She is a very well-educated person. She is an art school teacher. Our personalities are very different. She is wilted, and she is the kind of person who has a hundred mistakes gathered together and said once every hundred years. I am the one who said that you must finish everything in the past five minutes. They are two personalities. Sometimes she is unhappy and I may Forget about it right away. If I say let it go, let it go. If you say it, let it go. Then she won't be upset. She will put everything together and talk to you. This is quite fatal. This is quite urgent.
On the 30th day of the year in 1997, Zhao Benshan led the "Red Sorghum Model Team" to once again enter the Spring Festival Gala of CCTV. That night, his wife Ma Lijuan gave birth to twins, a boy and a girl.
Lu Yu: Then you basically didn’t take care of this child?
Zhao Benshan: What the hell, I don’t have time to care. Now he can send messages. If you have nothing to do, just send me a message.
Lu Yu: That kid can send messages.
Zhao Benshan: I didn’t get up in the morning so you called me into this room and reported. This one reported that and that one reported this. They reported to me first, you talk about him, you talk about him, girl Bier Can you say, tell me something, after answering my call, turn off your phone immediately and don’t answer his call.
Lu Yu: How old is the child? He is only six years old.
Zhao Benshan: Oh, I can always talk. I have her picture on this phone. The son didn't rush when he spoke, and the little girl spoke too quickly, so she might have said something.
Lu Yu: It seems that the girl may follow her father.
Zhao Benshan: Maybe.
Lu Yu: The boy may be like his mother in the future, who keeps things bottled up for half a year before telling you more.
Zhao Benshan: The boy is honest and honest.
Lu Yu: Do they know what dad does?
Zhao Benshan: Now I understand. I didn’t understand at first. Why did he ask him to take photos and sign autographs? Now he knows how to show off, he talks to me on the phone at school, my classmate wants to talk to you. I'll wait as soon as I go back. If you don't come to pick me up, I won't come back and let my classmates see. Whenever she has an event, I have to attend it and help me record it, so I know how to show off. Normally when I perform in Shenyang, she has to rush up to the stage, lay flowers and say a few words. The little girl is particularly lovable.
Lu Yu: Do you want your children to do this in the future?
Zhao Benshan: When it comes to my child, I don’t think about what he will do. I think my wife and I sometimes have different opinions about the child. My wife is very afraid that the child will not learn well because the child is under too much pressure now. When she is older, I have different views from her. Let me tell you, let’s tell the teacher that if he doesn’t do his homework, he won’t do it. Don’t force the child. Let him be in a happy mood first. I was anxious last time when I went back and the child complained. I said 24 points on the test.
Lu Yu: Is it a son or a daughter?
Zhao Benshan: My son. I said you want to take the test with 24 points, and he said, Dad, I think 24 points is good? I said what is your full score? The full score is 20 points. 24 points was too much. He said that the full score was 100. I said that 24 points was a bit low. I took the test again the next day and got 90 points. There was progress. He didn’t get distracted and didn’t get distracted by anything. But This time in the final exam, my daughter got three 100s. My son sent me a message, one was 98 and the other was 100, and they all improved. He is quite smart. He doesn’t get distracted and he always plays. I asked him what is eight plus four. How many, six. I just came here casually, I said, if you calculate eight plus four, how about adding less, six. I said you add it up. He said that eight plus four equals ten, so he deceived you. He didn't have to pay attention. In fact, he knew how to be careful. I think about this child. I didn't want him to carry the boss's schoolbag when he was young. He was so terrible at learning. Maybe I could make him more relaxed. When you are older, you will be able to do it easily. Children wear their eyes like that, like old gentlemen. They turn around in fear and their eyes are straight. This is not good. There are piano lessons and you have to learn some English. Make up this and that. Busier than me all day.
Lu Yu: Does your family like to watch the movies you film?
Zhao Benshan: I like watching it. Sometimes my children remember the words and memorize them.
When the child was the youngest, in order to let him get to know me, my mother would often play his father's skits from an early age when I was not at home.
Lu Yu: Because I can’t see my dad all the time.
Zhao Benshan: I always miss you. For a while, my child didn’t think that I belonged to this family. He knew how to call me “Dad” and asked, “When will you come to our house?” Well, you keep talking like this. Come and stay at our house for a few days, that's all.
Lu Yu: Do you play Erhu every day?
Zhao Benshan: Sometimes I play, and sometimes I just sit there and play a little bit when I have nothing else to do.
Lu Yu: Is that your erhu?
Zhao Benshan: Yes.
Lu Yu: That one is yours, please drag it out.
Zhao Benshan: Pull a paragraph.
Lu Yu: The most relaxing time for you every year is when the Spring Festival Gala is over. After the reunion dinner with everyone, and on the way home in the car, you feel that all the tasks for this year have been handed over.
Zhao Benshan: Yes, this year has passed. I may not sleep all night and get home the next day. I get home for a drink and put some flowers in the evening. Every year, I give my son the next day after I get home. Happy birthday, girl. New Year's Day.