Introduction:
For parents, naming their baby is the most troublesome thing. Some parents start reading dictionaries, looking up information, and naming the baby when the baby is still in the belly. Some parents are more "Buddhist" and are applying for a birth certificate for the baby. It was at that moment that I started to think of a name for my baby, and the name was relatively easy to pick out. I chose it based on the name of my favorite star or the hero or heroine I was chasing recently, without thinking about whether it was suitable.
Xiao Zhu and his wife Xiao Xi went from school to marriage, and their relationship is very enviable. Shortly after the marriage, my wife became pregnant. After a long wait in October, the whole family finally welcomed a baby, and the whole family was very happy.
After her daughter was born, Xiao Xi was going to have a confinement period and needed more rest. The "burden" of naming the baby fell on Xiao Zhu. Xiao Zhu thought about it a lot. I don’t even know what to name my child. Either the word has a bad meaning or it just doesn’t sound good. Finally, Xiao Zhu thought: Why not name my daughter after her idol? The name "Ziyi" sounds very nice, and I feel that if a girl is called "Ziyi", she must be very gentle, beautiful and elegant.
Therefore, Xiao Zhu decided to name his daughter "Ziyi", but when he told his wife his idea, her wife suddenly said angrily: You don't Take a look at your surname. You only care about chasing stars, but you don’t care about your daughter.
When Xiao Zhu heard what his wife said, he said with great confidence: My surname is Zhu, what’s wrong with my daughter’s name being “Zhu Ziyi”? The wife explained in a particularly temperamental manner: You read it backwards, "Zhu Ziyi" and "a pig", and the child's name is pronounced in Cantonese, "Zhu Ziyi" and "pig piglet".
After listening to his wife’s explanation, Xiao Zhu also felt that the name he chose was not appropriate and could only think about it again. You cannot let your children become the object of "ridicule" by your classmates just because you like it.
1: Pay attention to homophony
When parents choose a name for their child, they must ask other members of the family to help them, especially if they add a name. Read your last name a few times to see if it sounds smooth to you? Are there homophones or not? Some names sound particularly "poetic" and "meaningful" when read alone, but if you add a surname, they belong to a completely different style.
Some homophones make the name more "meaningful", rather than turning the "homophonic" into an "evil sound".
Two: Don’t have too many strokes and don’t be too uncommon.
In order to pursue uniqueness and to show that the child’s name is “unique”, some parents give A child who has a name that even adults can't pronounce seems unique, but the child will "struggle" in the future.
Moreover, some words are too rare to be typed out on a computer. Nowadays, most words are electronic. In the future, it will be difficult for children to even take a train to travel far away.
I remember a netizen shared his experience before, saying that his name used to be uncommon. He couldn't even type on the computer, making it difficult for him to buy tickets.
Three: Don’t be too weird and random
Many parents name their children too "Buddhist" and feel that naming their children is like "playing" , not responsible at all. During that period of my life, I liked history, so I named my child "Spring and Autumn and Warring States". Even the surname didn't matter. It was clear that my parents' surnames were Li and Liu. Some parents even named their children "King of Glory".
One: Add your own blessings and expectations
When parents name their children, they can add their own wishes for their children. Blessings and expectations. This makes it easier for parents to name their children.
For example: Parents name their children "Jin Qiao", which means Huai Jin holding Yu, like a tree and a tree. They hope that the child will be a perseverant person in the future.
Two: Father’s surname plus mother’s surname
For parents, babies are witnesses of their parents’ love. It's crystallized. When parents name their children, they can name the baby with the surnames of both parties, which is more memorable. It is estimated that every time people call their children's names in the future, they will eat a handful of "dog food" from their parents.
For example: the father's surname is Shen, the mother's surname is Yuan, the child's name is Shen Shen Yuan, the father's surname is Zhou, the mother's surname is Yang, and the child's name is Zhou Heyang.
Three: Check out the "Book of Songs" and "Poetry"
Look through the "Book of Songs" and "Poetry", there are many nice and connotative names in it. You can browse through it and choose a name for your baby.
For example: Look at the mountains covered with red, and the forests all dyed. Named Lin Ran.
I look at the sky at dawn and the clouds at dusk. I miss you when I walk and I miss you when I sit. Named Sijun
From a mother’s self-statement:
I regret less when I use the book! When I was choosing a name for my baby, I realized that I had read too little and couldn't give my baby a nice, meaningful, and otherworldly name. And the name is sometimes a lifetime event, so don't be careless.
Therefore, parents must put more thought into naming their children. It doesn’t need to be too lofty, but at least it should be readable and smooth.