Any love that deviates from fairness is wrong love. Any doting that deviates from the bottom line of human ethics will harm the children, lose themselves, blind the eyes, and pollute the sincerity.
From the names of the two daughters, it can be seen that "Wang Ruoyu" and "Wang Ruofu" sound full of knowledge. It stands to reason that such a wise family should prosper. But there is no third generation. The reason lies in Mrs. Wang’s education of her children. Wang Ruoyu, this name sounds very elegant. At the same time, "和" also means giving and approving; while the word "Fu" of the eldest lady Wang Ruofu means "no" and "negative". "Wang Ruoyu" and "Wang Ruofu" can be said to be the exact names of the sisters. antonym. Chinese people often say: Cultivate oneself, manage one's family, govern the country and bring peace to the world. At first, I saw that Mrs. Wang and Mrs. Sheng were similar. They were both sensible and "hard-core" old ladies. The old Wang couple not only have problems educating their children, but their conduct is also "incorrect". I really don’t know how Mr. Wang was able to enjoy the Ancestral Temple? Extremely selfish, blindly protective of shortcomings, and arrogant.
In ancient times, concubines were considered property of the family, and the wife had the power to dispose of them, but she could not be killed casually. He never gives or shares, so being called "Wang Yuan" is not enough. In her natal family, she competed with other brothers and sisters for favor, and she acted willfully when things were not getting her way; in her husband's family, she was very aggressive and bullied concubines and concubines, resulting in several deaths. He even threatened Kang Zhaoer with the life of Kang Zhaoer's mother and asked her to die in the Gu family to harm Minglan. It was precisely because of her mother's insistence that she embarked on the path of poisoning Old Mrs. Sheng. The eldest daughter tolerates everything no matter how big or small her mistakes are. It also caused Aunt Kang's extremely selfish and domineering personality. From the initial petty quarrels to the last time she didn't care about human life, until she died, the reason was that Mrs. Wang had always been her solid backing.
Old Mrs. Wang always dotes on her daughter and doesn't want her to be wronged. When her daughter gets into trouble, she follows behind to clean up the mess. She raises her daughter to be confident, indifferent to right and wrong, selfish and unfilial. I thought that no matter how much trouble I got into, my mother could handle it. Things will be different when it comes to poisoning Mrs. Sheng. Mrs. Sheng is the legitimate daughter of the Hou family and the grandmother of an official family. Even at this level, Mrs. Wang still used all kinds of tactics, both soft and hard, and turned her back like a book, just to let Kang Wang escape punishment instead of sincerely apologizing to Mrs. Sheng. This kind of doting really harmed her daughter and made her suffer the consequences.
There is a sentence in the play called "Parents who love their children have far-reaching plans." This sentence is repeatedly interspersed in the plot. This drama is a family drama, but it is also a family education film. Take a look at the family education of Mrs. Wang and the Sheng family grandmother, look at Lin Xiaoniang's plans for her children, and look at the princess' cultivation of the young father-in-law. . Only then do we know how important "family education" is.