As soon as the baby is born, parents and friends will start to name the child, and the child will also have a title of his own. My niece Xiaomin is a mother born in the 1990s. The couple originally lived in their own home, but her husband was busy with work. For the sake of the pregnant mother and the fetus, the couple moved to their hometown in the countryside to live with her parents-in-law. There is also care for the mother. Although mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live under the same roof, Xiao Min's mother-in-law has a gentle personality, and her father-in-law is considerate of her daughter-in-law in everything and never lets her do housework. Under the careful care of the family, the due date soon came and Xiao Min gave birth to a lovely baby boy. After the baby is born, the whole family starts to name the baby.
The couple initially thought of several names, but the rates of duplication of these names were particularly high, so they gave up. Finally, grandpa came up with a good idea and decided to name his grandson "Qingfeng".
Although Xiao Min thinks this name is too common, there is also a tissue called this name. But the old man had racked his brains to choose this name and had not slept well for several days and nights. In the end, the young couple agreed with the old man's opinion.
When Bao’s mother went to register for the birth certificate the next day, she didn’t expect that the nurse had missed one stroke, but her mother clapped her hands and applauded: she will be called “Qingfan”, and the old man The names are not very different and sound better. Many people think that a name is just a title, but in fact it is very important to children, and a good name will also have many positive effects on children. What are the benefits of a good name?
1. Easy for others to remember
When we get along with others and when we are looking for a job, we need to introduce When we are alone, our name is the most important way for others to understand us. A good name not only sounds good, but also has a certain meaning, which can leave a deep impression on people and bring more opportunities to the child.
2. Make children more confident
The name is not only a status symbol of the child, but also reflects the whole The literacy of the family and the literary background of the parents. If the child has a nice and meaningful name, it means that the parents attach special importance to the baby. For children, having such a unique name will also win praise from others, which will be of great help in building their self-confidence.
It can be seen that a good name will have a lot of profound impact on the child, and for parents, how to choose a good name for the child seems to be a problem. The following are This naming method may help you.
What are the naming methods?
①. Combining parents’ surnames
The method of using parents’ surnames to name is particularly popular nowadays. It can highlight It is out of the feelings of parents, but the vast majority of people choose names based on their parents' surnames, which eventually leads to an increasing rate of duplicate names. In the final analysis, parents do not treat them attentively.
Using this method of naming, both husband and wife can take advantage of the homophony of their own surnames. The neighbor girl is called "Li Sichen", her father's surname is "Li", and her mother's surname is "Chen", which is homophonic with "Chen". This not only gets rid of the common combination of most parents' surnames, but does not violate its original intention.
②. Start with the date
It is also a good idea to use the date to name the baby. The date can be the day of the baby. The day of birth can also be the time when the couple got married or the day of pregnancy. Whether for couples or children, these days are very important and absolutely unique, so the names chosen will generally not be repeated with others.
However, using this method of naming also requires parents to be careful. Do not use numbers instead. You can use the weather on a certain date or the mood of the couple at that time to choose the name. This will better highlight the uniqueness of the name.
In short, there are many methods that parents can learn from on how to choose a good name for their children, but at the same time, there are also many things that need to be paid attention to.
A good name must be catchy, simple and easy to write. However, many parents blindly pursue uniqueness and give their children names with too many strokes. This will cause trouble for the children's study and life, and affect the children's mental health. . Okay, that’s all we’ll talk about today. Goodbye