The ancients attached great importance to naming. There is also a saying that "men do not have heaven, and women do not have immortals". However, this statement is wrong. Tian has a very broad meaning and is a choice. The auspicious character for the name. However, there are still many taboos that need to be paid attention to. For example, the name cannot be matched with uncommon words, and the name cannot contain fierce words.
The phrase "If a man does not bring heaven," is actually a common saying in naming, "A man does not bring heaven, and a woman does not bring fairy." If we understand it literally, it is actually easy to understand that naming a boy cannot It contains the word "天", but the girl's name cannot contain the word "仙". There are three reasons:
1. "Heaven" and "immortal" are things that belong to heaven, like God, etc., everyone is more in awe of them, and even worship them. If you give your child something like this, If the name is "the following is guilty of the superior", it will be considered bad.
2. The two words "Heaven" and "Xian" represent a relatively large meaning. Ordinary people cannot bear the meaning of such a big name and can easily make a living. As the saying goes, "A cheap name is good." "Food", so names like "Goudan" and "Cuihua" are more favored by the older generation.
3. "Heaven" and "Xian" belong to the upper class. If ordinary people use such names, they may have bad luck for themselves.
Should we listen to what the older generation said in the past?
Of course, this kind of statement is just a way of saying it in the past, and there is no specific and accurate statement. With the development of the times, now the name can be said to be "arbitrary", and you can use whatever word you want. , as long as it can be typed on the computer system and the account can be registered.
It can be seen that the common sayings that have been passed down in the past are no longer applicable now. There are even some rice noodles. Many boys with "天" in their names are living very well, like "Louis Koo" and " Ma Tianyu" and so on.
In fact, as long as it is in line with the baby's temperament and full of parents' expectations, it can be used as a child's name. However, it should be noted that if you insist on giving your son a middle name, If it contains "天", it is best not to add the word "Peng" or similar pronunciation at the end, otherwise the child will easily be nicknamed, which will easily cause psychological shadow.
Be careful about naming your children. How to avoid some taboos when naming?
1. If there are too many strokes and the words are too unfamiliar, do not use them
Those educated parents will deliberately choose a word that is difficult to write and unfamiliar when naming their children. , for example, Zhang Taiyan previously gave each of his four daughters extremely difficult names, and announced to the outside world that only those who pronounced their daughters' names correctly would be qualified to be his son-in-law.
The final result was that several daughters almost never got married. It’s not that everyone is uneducated, it’s just that these words are rare and difficult to understand. Characters that are too uncommon will not only make it difficult for children to learn to write for the first time, but will also make it awkward for others to read because they cannot pronounce the words accurately, which is not conducive to future interpersonal relationships.
2. Pay attention to the problem of homophony
Compared with writing, names are often called out, just like "Tianpeng" above. From a literal meaning, parents It is hoped that the children will be as successful as the flying Dapeng, but the homophone is "canopy", and the children are often called "Zhu Bajie".
3. Don’t follow the crowd
It is very common for children to have the same name, and sometimes they even have the same name as the “pet” at home, especially in the early years of Qiong Yao dramas and Korean dramas. Popularity has given rise to a large number of similar names. If you hear these repetitive names too often, you will feel bad about them.
It is important to have a unique name, but don’t ignore the ultimate meaning of the name. When choosing a name, parents still need to take care of their children’s future feelings and choose the name carefully!