Choosing a friend means choosing a lifestyle. Self-cultivation is the premise of making good friends, which is equivalent to opening the friendliest world for yourself. Can make your life brilliant.
3, a person wants to be mediocre, and there are few obstacles; There are many obstacles for a person to be outstanding. Many mediocre people have a harmonious relationship with the people around them, and many excellent people have a tense relationship with them.
The carefree state of life is not that human life is above everything, but that our hearts are connected with everything in the world.
5. A person's life can be completely changed by attitude. A person's innate character, acquired opportunities and internal values will ultimately determine his own destiny.
6. A real hero is someone who can dominate his own heart.
7. When it's time to let go, let go. When you tolerate others, you actually leave yourself a large piece of land.
8. Think more, think more and see more; Less blame, less complaint, less regret.
9. The prouder people are, the more they hide, and the more painful things they are, the more they make a mountain out of a molehill.
We often say that fate is too objective and depends entirely on opportunity. In fact, what kind of values you have determines your choice.
12, I feel psychologically unbalanced, because the world is moving and you are not moving.
13. If your heart is bright and kind, and you are honest and brave, then you may gain a lot of unexpected things.
14, we often say today that life should take fewer detours. In fact, in a sense, there are no detours in life. If you didn't walk so far, how did you come here? If you don't stand now, why do you look back and say you took a detour?
15, a successful career is not necessarily your ideal.
16, true freedom is unrestrained.
17. This world is neither the world of the rich nor the world of the powerful. This is a world of volunteers.
18, in today's view, a new development is often not how high the ultimate ideal is, but what kind of starting point it has. We often don't lack lofty aspirations, but accumulate the practical road to that volunteer step by step.
20. A person's vision has two functions: one is to go out and expand the world infinitely; The other is to come inward and discover the heart infinitely and profoundly.
2 1, distance and independence are respect for personality and should be maintained between the closest people.
22. There is a kind of person who only does two things: you succeed and he is jealous of you; You failed and he laughed at you.
23, the level of vision, the size of the realm can change a person's destiny.
24. We can avoid everyone, but we can't avoid a fly. What makes us unhappy in life is often trivial things.
25. Every road in life is something you must measure with your own steps. In this process, let us find ourselves and get confirmation.
26. We need a clear reason. This rationality is a force to save lives in this noisy world. At the same time, we also need a pleasant feeling. This emotional heart can let us see spring, and everywhere we go is full of joy.
27. Everyone has the habit of judging a person by his first impression. He thinks that when a person is good, he will love me, love my dog, and when he thinks that a person is bad, he will totally deny it.
If we have such a big vision, we will seize every opportunity in front of us.
29. Secular standards may not really evaluate a person's true quality. Only our hearts can give accurate answers.
30. You want to be someone who is willing to communicate with you and can communicate with you. The most important thing is that you have an open mind.
3 1, the most suitable distance is: don't hurt each other, but keep warm.
Real wealth is a way of thinking, not a monthly income figure.
33. When doing things, a person should know what etiquette and honesty are, that is, he should restrain himself, have firm and uncompromising standards in his heart, be useful to society and do things for society.
34. Stupid man+stupid woman = marriage; Stupid man+smart woman = divorce; Smart man+stupid woman = extramarital affairs; Smart man+smart woman = romantic love.
Yu Dan's classic quotations and Yu Dan's classic sentences.
First, only by establishing one's own inner value system can pressure be transformed into the tension of life.
Second, always think of your lover, stand up to his lover's nagging, and be humble to his lover. A man should be the general manager.
Third, the ideal way is to give us some resources and reserve spiritual happiness.
Fourth, the fiercer the competition, the more it is necessary to adjust the mentality and the relationship with people.
5. Reporting complaints directly and repaying kindness with kindness advocate a kind of respect for the efficiency of life and personality.
6. The place where a person cares more is the place where he feels most inferior.
Seven, the word crisis, one is danger, one is opportunity, don't give up any efforts.
Eight, the premise of a person's luck is actually that he has the ability to change himself.
Nine, under the restriction of reason, he has a kind of confidence and calmness in his heart. This is because he is broad-minded and ambitious.
Ten, a person to do things, to know what is etiquette and shame, is to restrain themselves, to have firm and uncompromising standards in mind, to be useful to society, to do things for society.
11. Most of the confusion is because the vision is not big enough. How can a frog in the well know what a broad sky is?
Twelve. The Analects conveys an attitude, a simple and warm attitude towards life.
Real wealth is a way of thinking, not income figures.
Fourteen, China's philosophy advocates a solemn rationality and gentle beauty.
Fifteen, to increase learning, reduce pride, seize the opportunity to eliminate laziness.
Sixteen, invest love in a person and take risks; It is dangerous to put love into many people.
17. In my opinion, a person's development often lies not in how high his ultimate ideal is, but in what kind of starting point he has. We often don't lack lofty aspirations, but accumulate the practical road to that volunteer step by step.
18. Only people with virtue and benevolence can truly be brave in their hearts.
Nineteen, the enemy became a comrade-in-arms mostly for survival, and the comrades became enemies mostly for money.
Twenty, it is easy for China to learn from Americans, but it is difficult for China to learn from China.
Yu Dan's classic famous saying
1, what a person shows off shows what he lacks in his heart.
2. The place where a person cares more is the place where he feels most inferior.
Everyone has the habit of judging a person by his first impression. When he thinks a person is good, he will love me and my dog. When he thinks a person is bad, he will totally deny it.
The prouder people are, the more they hide, and the more painful things they are, the more they make a mountain out of a molehill.
This world is neither the world of the rich nor the world of the strong, but the world of the volunteers.
6. The killer of marriage is sometimes not an affair, but time.
7. When you have nothing, you start to gain something.
8. Learn more, be less proud, take advantage of opportunities and get rid of laziness.
9. Childhood ignorance is lovely, and juvenile ignorance is ridiculous; The ignorance of youth is pitiful; Ignorance in middle age is sad, and ignorance in old age is sad.
10, people allow a stranger to get rich, but they can't tolerate the promotion of people around them. Because there are conflicts of comparative interests between people at the same level, strangers do not have this problem.
1 1. Women like a man and want to listen to lies; When a woman hates men, she wants to hear the truth.
12, if you lend a person too much money, you will make that person a bad person.
13, modern marriage is the product of emotion and the crystallization of competition.
14, enemies become comrades-in-arms mostly for survival, and comrades-in-arms become enemies mostly for money.
15, you get low-level happiness, and you ask for high-level happiness.
16, a genius who fails is a fool!
17, 1% people are taking advantage of small things, while 99% people are taking advantage of small things and suffering big losses. Most successful people come from there 1%.
18, if people live by eating, that meal is not called rice, but called feed.
19, it is easy for China to learn from Americans, but it is difficult for China to learn from China.
20. The premise of a person's luck is actually that he has the ability to change himself.
2 1, people's growth should be educated by parents, teachers, books and society. Interestingly, the latter always seems to run counter to the first three.
22. Managing your strengths can add value to your life; Managing your shortcomings will devalue your life.
23, life is like a green leaf, with the passage of time, slowly turn yellow, but his context is still so clear.
24. It is simple to complicate things, but complicated to simplify them.
25. If it is a grass, no matter how good the enterprise is, it will not grow into a big tree. In that case, it is better to go through the storm and cultivate yourself into a valuable flower.
26.2 1 century The survival rule of work is to build a personal brand and turn your name into money.
27. I am afraid that my father is filial piety and my wife is love.
28. There are no unqualified students, only unqualified parents.
29. The earth is moving, and a person will not be in an unlucky position forever.
We can avoid everyone, but we can't avoid a fly. What makes us unhappy in life is often trivial things.
3 1, there is a kind of person who only does two things: you succeed and he is jealous of you; You failed and he laughed at you.
32. Stupid man+stupid woman = marriage; Stupid man+smart woman = divorce; Smart man+stupid woman = extramarital affairs; Smart man+smart woman = romantic love.
33. Any fool will seduce a girl; But only mature men know how to leave her.
34. People have two eyes, both of which are parallel, and they should look at people equally; People's ears are two-sided, so don't listen to one side of the story; Although people have only one heart, they have left and right atria, so they should not only think for themselves, but also for others.
35. Enterprises should have unique resources that cannot be stolen, bought, torn down, taken away or slipped away.
36. A slip of the tongue is telling the truth by accident.
37. Sincerity does not mean blaming others for their shortcomings, but not praising them.
38. Human nature is greedy, but without greed, society will not progress.
39. Love is missing a person's heart, marriage is tying a person's heart, and love is swallowing a person's heart.
40. The best attack is attacking yourself.
4 1, the meaning of life lies not in holding a good hand, but in playing a bad hand.
42. Success is an idea, getting rich is an obligation and happiness is a right.
43. Competition is actually a kind of friendship. With the help of your opponent, you can improve your intelligence. Those who are afraid of competition have lost to their opponents.
44. Money can help the poor solve problems, but it can also help the rich create problems.
45. Invest your love in one person and take risks; It is dangerous to put love into many people.
46. Only those who can't figure it out, there is no road that can't be taken.
Real wealth is a way of thinking, not a monthly income figure.
48, a person wants to be mediocre, and there are few obstacles; There are many obstacles for a person to be outstanding. Many mediocre people have a harmonious relationship with the people around them, and many excellent people have a tense relationship with them.
49. Married men and women are both "happy" and "outward looking".
50. Third-rate makeup is the makeup on the face; Second-rate makeup is spiritual makeup; First-class makeup is the makeup of life.
5 1, the word "crisis", one represents danger and the other represents opportunity, don't give up any efforts.
52, is a hero, is a talent, is a fool.
53. "Always" should be considerate of the lover, "classics" should resist the lover's nagging, "reason" should be humble to the lover, and men should be "general manager".
54, threesome, there must be my teacher, three musketeers, there must be a strong, love triangle, there must be a wound.
55. A person's eyesight has two functions: one is to go out and expand the world infinitely; The other is to come inward and discover the heart infinitely and profoundly.
56. When it's time to let go, let go. When you tolerate others, you actually leave yourself a large piece of land.
57. Admit the shortcomings in real life and make up for them through your own efforts.
58. In a sense, what a person sees is what he has in mind.
59. Most of the confusion is because the vision is not big enough. How does a frog in the well know what a broad sky is?
60, with an optimistic and positive attitude, grasp the discretion of communication with others, let yourself become a person who makes others happy, let your happy heart become the energy source of sunshine, radiate others, warm others, and let family, friends and even the wider society get some reasons for comfort from yourself.
6 1, the Analects conveys an attitude, a simple and warm attitude towards life.
62. "God is in the sky, holy in the earth" is the personality ideal of China people: there is an idealistic sky that can soar freely without compromising many rules and obstacles in the real world; He also has the ability to be down-to-earth and expand his behavior in this land.
63. China's philosophy advocates a solemn reason and gentle beauty.
64. True harmony is not only the harmony between neighbors in a community, but also the harmony between people, including the harmonious and happy growth of everything on earth; People have a reverence for all things in nature, a conformity and a tacit understanding.
65. A happy life in the material sense is only an indicator, and a true sense of stability and heartfelt recognition of political power comes from faith.
66. Only a true saint will not be burdened by material life and can always maintain inner peace and tranquility.
67. The fiercer the competition, the more necessary it is to adjust the mentality and the relationship with people.
68. To be tolerant is actually to leave yourself a vast land.
69. Caring for others is kind; It is wisdom to know people and be good at their duties.
70. The most important person in this world is the one who needs help most at this moment. The most important thing is to do it at once. The most important time is now, and there is no time to delay.
7 1, it is inevitable that each of us will have regrets and disappointments in our lives. Maybe we can't change this fact, but what we can change is our attitude towards these things. Treat the shortcomings and sufferings in life with a peaceful mind.
If you cry because you miss the sun, you will also miss the stars.
73. The benevolent is not worried, the wise is not confused, and the brave is not afraid. Inner strength can resolve many regrets in life.
74. To be strong inside, one prerequisite is to underestimate the gains and losses of things outside.
75. He has a kind of confidence and calmness under the control of reason. This is because he is broad-minded and ambitious.
76. Actually, it's like we have half a bottle of wine in front of us. Pessimists say: Why is there only half a bottle of such a good wine? The optimist said: there is still half a bottle of such a good wine!
77. If your mind is bright and kind, and you are honest and brave, then you may gain a lot of unexpected things.
If you want to be a person who is willing to communicate with you and can communicate with you, the most important thing is that you have an open mind.
79. Reporting complaints directly and repaying kindness with kindness advocate a kind of respect for the efficiency of life and personality.
80. Always follow the monarch (leader) when something happens. Although it is near, it is not far from bring disgrace to oneself. I'm always with my friends when I have something to do. Although it seems close, it is not far from your alienation.
8 1, respect everyone equally and rationally, and leave some discretion and space for each other. The flowers are not in full bloom and the moon is not round. This is the best state in the world. Once the flowers are in full bloom, they will soon wither. Once the moon is full, it will soon be incomplete. But not completely open, not completely round, or let your heart look forward to, look forward to.
82. How to govern, first of all, the principle of doing things, pay attention to morality, followed by the way of doing things, say less and do more; Caution means to be careful what you say. Don't say what you can't do.
83. Think more, listen more, read more and be cautious. The advantage of doing this is to make yourself less regretful. Before we do something, we should consider the consequences. When we do something, we should think far and be cautious again, so as to avoid hurting others and reduce future regrets. It's important to use your head when you speak and consider the consequences when you do things.
84. "Cultivate yourself with respect" and maintain a serious and respectful attitude. "Cultivate yourself with respect" on the premise of cultivating yourself, and then try to make others happy. "Self-cultivation" is the first premise of being responsible to the country and society. It is a belief, a feeling and a social responsibility to "worry about the world first and enjoy it later", but the premise is very simple, starting from the foot. Self-cultivation and self-improvement are the starting points.
85. With an optimistic and positive attitude, grasp the discretion of interacting with others, make yourself a person who makes others happy, make your happy heart an energy source of sunshine, radiate others and warm others.
86. Without "worry", "confusion" and "fear" in one's heart, it will naturally reduce complaints and accusations to the outside world and enhance one's ability to grasp happiness, which is the ultimate goal of learning.
87. A villain is a person who has no big vision and grasps the petty gain in front of him.
88. Building a harmonious society is to harmoniously integrate everyone's different voices into the existing collective voices. True harmony is a kind of tolerance and integration of others on the premise of adhering to different voices and different viewpoints.
89. The power of a gentleman is always the power of action, not the power of words.
90. Make friends with people who can improve their moral character, self-cultivation and enrich your connotation. Make friends who are happy, can enjoy life and can live in poverty.
9 1, the real happiness in life is the happiness of the soul, which is sometimes not necessarily closely related to the external material life. The power of true happiness comes from the richness of the soul, from an education, from the ideal expectation, and from the communication and communication with good friends.
92. Every adult has his glory and hidden pain in his life. A true good friend should not touch his hidden pain easily.
93. When people are young, they all live by addition, but at a certain level, they must learn to live by subtraction. If your mind is full of income, you will eventually get tired of it.
94. Choosing a friend means choosing a lifestyle. Self-cultivation is the premise of making good friends, which is equivalent to opening the friendliest world for yourself. Can make your life brilliant.
95. A person's ambition is very important, which determines the development direction of his life.
96. Today, a new development often lies not in how high the ultimate ideal is, but in what kind of starting point it has. We often don't lack lofty aspirations, but accumulate the practical road to that volunteer step by step.
97. A successful career is not necessarily your ideal.
98. When doing things, a person should know what etiquette and honesty are, that is, he should restrain himself, have firm and uncompromising standards in his heart, be useful to society and do things for society.
99. The ideal way is to give us some resources and reserve spiritual happiness.
100, learn to integrate limited knowledge into life. While studying, thinking and applying.
10 1 30, the word "Li" is an internal position first, and then finds its place in social coordinates. Standing at the age of 30 is to build the confidence of the soul. Standing at the age of 30 is not an external social coordinate to measure whether you are successful, but an internal spiritual standard to measure whether you have a clear introspection in your life, whether you are leisurely, and begin to have a kind of confidence and firmness in what you are doing.
102, the more material things, the easier it is to get confused.
103, growth is an inner strength gradually gained through experience, and the so-called return of life is to turn external things into inner strength.
104, knowing destiny means that there is a determination to deal with the outside world inside.
105. Only by establishing your own inner value system can pressure be transformed into the tension of life.
106, "Where does a person's confidence come from? It comes from inner peace and calmness "; "People who suffer from loss will not have an open mind, a calm mind and real courage"; "If a person has some constraints in his mind, he will reduce mistakes in his behavior"; "Being able to reflect on your own mistakes and be brave in correcting them is the real courage advocated by Confucianism."
107, our eyes look too much at the outside world and too little at the inside.
108. Courage is sometimes a kind of calmness and self-confidence under rational constraints.
109, only people with virtue and benevolence can truly be brave in their hearts.
1 10, the arrogance of a gentleman, the arrogance is inside.
Yu Dan's classic sentences
1, a person's vision has two functions: one is to go out and expand the world infinitely; The other is to come inward and discover the heart infinitely and profoundly.
Everyone has a garden hidden in his heart, which is nothing more than an invisible door. If you really open this door, although it may be a creaking door, you haven't been here for a long time, but just open a crack and have a look, you will see many things that you haven't noticed before, many things that really fit your heart, and many things that belong to your dreams.
There are many people who don't lack the will to love, but we really lack the ability to love. Ability is about details, ability is about process, and ability is actually about a person's values. When we even care about the gains and losses and the final result when we are in love, we really lose our affectionate instinct.
Dreams may not be productive forces in reality, nor can they bring material results, but they bring us a kind of excavation of our own souls. Today, we are not only far away from a classical era, but more importantly, we have lost a feeling of compassion and a state of mind that dreams calmly.
Everyone is holding his own story, and many people will think that he is an alien hidden in the crowd. We have similar smiles, are gentle, and can exchange words. We have our own careers and make-up, but how many people really know their worries?
6. Desolation is a complex feeling of life, which is as tragic and high as sadness and makes people generous; Desolate and helpless, with a profound aftertaste. Desolation can arouse our endless restlessness, because it shows a helplessness in the depths of fate.