Although many of these ideas have no scientific basis, they have also aroused the consensus of many people and have been preserved as traditions.
Among the many arguments about naming, one has been deeply rooted in people's hearts, that is, when naming children, it should not be too big. Many descendants think that children's names should not be too big, and they can take a lower name. Is that really the case?
Many post-80s and post-90s grew up listening to Jay Chou's songs. However, with the growth of these people's age, their interest in idolization has long disappeared, but their hearts still retain this feeling.
10 years ago, in order to commemorate his idol, Jay Chou fans were born to commemorate his idol after his child was born. It can be called Jay Li. No one would think of Jay Chou, but the father didn't know that the name was inappropriate until the child went to primary school.
On one occasion, the child came home from school depressed. When my father asked, he found that all the students knew that Jay Chou was a singer, so everyone asked Jay Chou to sing on stage, but the child was only five years old and his voice was incomplete. When he spoke, the whole class laughed at him. Some students even asked him to change his name to avoid humiliating Jay Chou.
The father listened to the child and knew that the name was not casually named. Choosing a name that is too big will not only affect the growth of children, but will add a lot of trouble and pressure to children.
The old man warned young people not to give their children too big names because they can support them. But most people don't know why there is such a statement. Is it pure superstition or is there some basis?
1. Too big a name will increase the burden on children.
The child's name is too big, and others will unconsciously associate it with it when they call it, which undoubtedly adds a lot of burden to the child. For example, some parents want their children to play basketball well in the future, so they give their children names. Kobe, the king of children. When others hear about it, they will naturally keep in touch with the late star Kobe Bryant. Isn't this putting pressure on children?
2. Too big a name is easy to be teased.
Too big a name is the most prominent name in this group. When parents give their children a name that is too big and the children are just ordinary, it is easy to make fun of this name. Over time, others will make children's hearts fragile.
be respectful of tradition
China's traditional culture teaches us to be modest. A name can best reflect a person's modesty. If a person's name has a dragon and tiger sky, many people may feel uncomfortable with the name, but if the name is kind, happy and modest, people will easily feel cordial.
You must not be superstitious about naming your child, but you can't just take it. After all, this name is not only a symbol of children, but also a business card that will accompany children all their lives. We must follow some basic principles. Don't use uncommon words or vulgar names.
It is best to choose simple and meaningful names, and try not to use some exaggerated names. Names should have parents' ardent expectations for their children and bring eternal blessings to their future lives.