Is it important to name a child?
Is it important to name a child? We all know that our country is a big country with a very large population. When the population increases, naming becomes a problem. This poses a problem, because the rate of duplicate names is too high, so naming requires skill and attention. Let’s share whether there is anything special about naming a child? Is it important to pay attention to the naming of children? 1
(1): Names are fond of gods
Teacher Xie, through many years of research on numerology and namology, as well as summarizing the essence of ancient and modern experience, is A person who truly perfectly integrates the essence of the five elements and eight characters, "Yong Shen" and "Nameology"; because "Xi Yong Shen" is not only the "essence" of the eight character destiny, but also the "soul power" of each of us. " is the "stage of opportunity" where we can succeed in life. Teacher Xie Yong implants the powerful "xiyongshen" into your name, which is equivalent to the "spirit, spirit, soul power" that always accompanies you. It’s you!
Teacher Xie Yong has said many times that Yongshen is the "essence" and "soul" of a destiny, so Teacher Xie chose the name based on the five elements "Yongshen" at the core of the destiny. This is also the most authoritative naming method among all the current naming methods; because "Xi Yong Shen" is not only the "essence" of the eight-character horoscope, but also the "soul power" of each of us. It is the "stage of opportunity" where we can succeed in life, so Teacher Xie Yong quoted the "Yong Shen" of destiny to choose the name;
Once the name is successfully chosen, the name is equivalent to your new "source of motivation" ”, or where the new “spirit, spirit, soul” is, using names to artificially supplement the shortcomings and defects of one’s fate with gods is the essence of “naming with gods”, and it is also the strongest and best help to life. !
(2): Number of strokes in the name
For a good name, in addition to considering the five elements of your life, you must also consider the stroke configuration requirements of the surname, because such a name It will help the child's destiny more, strengthen the child's fortune, and make the child's future smoother.
The strokes in the name are actually numbers, which may not seem to mean much, but each of us has our own numerology, which will affect our life fortune, and there is also a theory of numerology in numerology. Different numbers have different energies, and these energies will subtly affect the child's numerology and fortune
Therefore, the number of strokes in the name will also affect the child's numerology to a certain extent. We should also use it when choosing a name. Take into account the number of strokes in the name. Just like many people care about "lucky numbers", it is more profound than "lucky numbers".
If you want to understand the child’s numerology clearly, you have to start with the child’s own surname. From the surname, we can clearly understand the child’s auspicious numerical configuration, and then analyze what the child’s surname is. Numbers have a strengthening effect on children's numerology. When choosing a name, you should pay attention to the matching of the number of strokes in the name.
Pay attention to (3) Taboo words
Everyone knows that in ancient times, taboos on names can be divided into national taboos, family taboos, constitutional taboos, and sacred taboos.
Among them, national taboos usually refer to the names of the emperor and his father and ancestors; family taboos are limited to within the family, and the names of ancestors within three generations are generally tabooed;
Constitutional taboos refer to subordinate officials tabooing the names of their superiors Name taboos, sacred taboos such as "Emperor", "Zhou Gong" and "Confucius".
Today in the 21st century, some of these taboos are still in use, such as the taboo of using the names of historical celebrities, the taboo of "following" great men and sages, etc. The reason for these taboos is mainly to express respect for them. Respect.
Pay attention to (4) Pay attention to the differences between men and women.
The "differentiation between men and women" mentioned here mainly refers to the fact that when parents name their children, they finally distinguish between boys' and girls' names.
Generally speaking, boys’ names are mainly about masculinity and grandeur, indicating that they will be successful in the future, including names that are auspicious and blessed, and names that can show morality, character, and conduct;
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Girls’ names mainly focus on quietness, beauty, generosity, virtuousness, gentleness, intelligence, wit, etc., which are in line with the girl’s personality characteristics.
Pay attention to (5) Taboo naming elders by the same name.
In fact, the taboo of having the same name as an elder has existed since ancient times. Since it is a taboo, it should be followed.
For example, if a newborn child has the same name as an elder, it can easily lead to suspicions of indifference and disrespect for the elders; moreover, some of the elders may be gone, while the new generation is growing up, which symbolizes the lack of respect for the elders. not good.
At the same time, even if the name is different from that of the elders, homophonic words and homophones should be avoided. Generally speaking, try to avoid having the same name as your elders within three generations. What do you have to say about this?
Names accompany people throughout their lives and are very important. Parents naming their children is like giving them a special mark, so many new parents attach great importance to how their children should be named. The child's name also reflects the culture or connotation of the parents. Below I will summarize the things you should pay attention to when choosing a name, hoping to bring some help to parents.
Pay attention to (6) Avoid bad names and common names
There has always been a saying among the older generation that "a bad reputation makes a living". Although they think this saying is ridiculous, some parents really believe it and believe that giving their children a "bad name" will help them have enough to eat in the future.
Words such as "poor", "egg", "sleepy", "bad" and "evil" are all very bad words and have a great impact on children; there was once a news report about a child's name He is called "Liu Erdan" because the name given by his parents made the child develop the habit of low self-esteem and was laughed at by his classmates. Therefore, choosing a good name can help the child grow up healthily.
And "common name" means choosing a very vulgar word to choose a name. Teacher Xie Yong generally recommends not to give your child a name that is too vulgar. You should make a decision based on some classic names, or consult some Ancient books, or dictionaries
Don’t give your children names such as “Chuanhou” or “Celebrating Wedding”. Not only are the names too tacky and have no practical meaning, they are also bad for the child’s future. Influence, so we carefully look for, search, and choose a name for our children that will never be too bad, because you choose a name for your child carefully. Is there any particularity in naming a child? 2
What is the particularity in naming a child?
1. First, we must analyze the absence or presence of the five elements in the horoscope of the child’s birth (year, month, day and time);
2. Be clear about your child’s zodiac sign. When naming, try to avoid some radicals that are not suitable for the zodiac sign;
3. The meaning of the name should be smooth and avoid ambiguity;
4. It is necessary to avoid words or homophonic words that have been used by parents and elders;
5. It is necessary to comprehensively analyze the general image, human image, geographical image and other patterns of name strokes;
6. Consider the usage area and pronunciation habits of this name to avoid any unlucky connotations.
The importance of a good name
The name is also a kind of five-element energy field, and as people call your name every day, this can Increase your five element energy, thereby playing a certain role in your destiny. A well-chosen name can bring good luck to your life. May you feel comfortable, have a successful career, make a lot of money, have a happy marriage, be healthy, have strong children, etc. And if your name is not chosen well, it will become a taboo god in your life, which will affect your destiny and bring you disaster. Therefore, people who understand numerology do not hesitate to pay a lot of money to ask a master to find a good name. Is it important to pay attention to the naming of children 3
1. Avoid naming with the word "evil"
Anything that expresses "evil" and is harmful to human beings should be classified as "evil" The category of "bad".
"Evil" and "bad" are people's enemies. We should do everything possible to eradicate them and defeat them. Naming with such words is against the will of people, is a perverse behavior, and should be stopped.
For example, Li Dongfu, Flood, Dark Clouds, Huang Tian, ??etc. Some of these names are "flood" and "ferocious beasts", which threaten people's lives and safety and are the enemy of mankind
2. Avoid using the word "bad" in naming
Here The word "bad" includes two meanings, one refers to the character, and the other refers to the "bad" consequences. Naming with these two meanings will cause upright and kind-hearted people to feel rebellious, so it is not advisable. Such as Shu Diao, Diao Xie (evil), Tang Ciao, Kuang Ciao, Xiong Yi, Zhao She, Tian Heng, Wu Jian'an, Li Hunzi, etc.
3. Avoid using the word "suspect" in naming
The so-called "suspect" words refer to some words that people are particularly sensitive to, such as turtle, tortoise, bald, donkey, vinegar, sour, smelly, green scarf, etc. There are almost no names that use such characters directly, but homophones that are converted into such characters occasionally still appear, and this should be avoided. Such as Wu (Wu) Jingui (turtle), Wang Ba (eight), Ye, Lu (green) Jin (jin) Rong, Xiang Shang (top) Tu (bald), Ban Na Lv (donkey), etc.
4. Avoid using the word "ugly" in naming.
"Ugly" is the opposite of "beautiful". What we want to give is a "good name". Of course, we must avoid using words that express the meaning of "ugly". . Due to the influence of unscientific, uncivilized stereotypes and backward consciousness, naming with the word "ugly" has a long history in our country and has been passed down to this day. This needs to be seriously eradicated. Name them with the word "ugly", such as Niulao and Fanli. Fanli refers to a bird cage, which is a metaphor for a situation where there is no freedom.
5. Avoid naming with the word "earning people"
The so-called "earning people" refers to the benefits of making money. Names are used for calling, and some words are used as names. When A calls, B responds. In each call and response, B takes advantage of A. This can easily cause unnecessary disputes or create psychological barriers, affecting correct social interactions. Such words should be avoided when naming.
6. Avoid naming with the word "disability"
It is painful to be injured or disabled. Naming a disease after a "disability" is tantamount to exposing a person's scars, which is unethical. If the name is named after a disability, both the caller and the owner will have an unpleasant feeling. However, the phenomenon of naming people with disability has existed in ancient and modern times. Sun Bin, a famous military strategist in the Warring States Period, was originally named Sun Bin. He had his kneecap (i.e. patella, also written as Bingu) removed due to torture, and later changed his name to Sun Bin.
There are two main types of words that are easy to "make money". One is the second predicate used for respecting elders, such as father, uncle, father, father, old, uncle, ancestor, ancestor, aunt. , mother, mother, milk, mother-in-law, etc. Examples of names that use these words that do not convey the meaning are Jiafu, Wen Shu, Cheng Bo, Shi Weng, Ji Gong, A Lao, Zheng Guangzu, Lie Zong, Li Fagu, Zhang Yuniang, Yun Sipo, etc.
If these names echo each other, it would be suspected of "making money". The other type is words used to express official titles, professional titles and honorific titles, such as prime minister, Yin, Ling, Gong, Hou, prime minister, minister, section chief, division commander, company commander, political commissar, professor, senior engineer, expert, Celebrities, managers, gentlemen, etc.
7. Avoid using "derogatory" words in naming.
As mentioned before, the name should have beautiful sounds, meanings and shapes. Naming with "derogatory" words does not meet the requirements of "righteousness and beauty", so it should be avoided. However, from ancient times to the present, the phenomenon of naming names with "derogatory" words has emerged one after another, which should be paid attention to.
Let us first take a look at typical examples of naming with "derogatory" words: Xibei, Shenke, Jique, Menghou Baijianu, Tang Shisha, Zheng Bacai, Zhang Luopo, Geda Fat, Yanguaiyu, etc. The "derogatory" connotations of these names are clear and obvious at a glance, and there is no need to explain. There is another category that needs a little comment, such as Shi (mis) Ce, Hu Du (confused)
8. Avoid using the word "rude" in naming
Coarse and fine are relative Yes, wildness and literature are relative.
The so-called "rude" words are rough, unprocessed words with a primitive flavor. The name of beauty should be an exquisite and exquisite work of art, and "rough" is incompatible with it. There are double-dealing manifestations in naming with the word "rude": First, the wording is rude, vulgar, and unprocessed. Such as Goudan, Wild Cat, Cowboy, Stone, Heihai, Maomei, etc.
Most of these are nicknames, and some are also used as nicknames. Second, although some text processing has been done, the words still reveal a kind of wildness, giving people the impression of being stubborn and unruly. Such as Lei Gong, Yong Jiu, Hu Ni, Li Fu, Tong Hoo, Pei Hong, Lei Yan, Xuan Xiao, Liu Shagui, Wu Dalie, Yu Leiwa, Ren Maoxiao, Ling Zhendian, Liu Heijiao, He Xianqi, etc.
9. Avoid using "tongue-twisting" names
Some names are difficult to pronounce and sound, and if you fail to do so, you may mispronounce or hear them incorrectly. What's the reason? The wording used in the name is difficult to pronounce, almost becoming a "tongue twister". Such as Lingzhoujiu, Shen Jiji, Sunzhouqiu, Xia Yayi, Jin Jingqing, Zhou Xiaochao, Hu Fufen, Geng Jingzhong, Jiang Jiaqiang, Zhang Changshang, Chen Zhenren, Hu Chufu, Chen Yunlin, Lu Lizhi, Fu Zhufu, etc.
10. Avoid using the word "arrogant" in naming.
Don't use words that are too arrogant or presumptuous when naming. Because arrogance and presumptuousness are manifestations of lack of self-cultivation. It is not only a kind of self-exposure, but also disrespectful to others, which can easily cause disgust.
In ancient times, those named with the word "arrogant" include Qiang Liang, Bawang, Emperor, Zhang Yuanxun, Li Cunba, Shi Wansui, Sun Wanshou, Ruan Wanling, etc.; in modern times, there are vibrating balls named with the word "arrogant". , Guanqiu, Guanxiong, Yuhuan, Zhenqiu, Zhenhuan, Zhenyu, Renjie, Guanying, Tianbao. Therefore, do not use arrogant and unbridled names as "beauty", which is actually a kind of "ugliness", this is Avoid using the word "arrogant" in your name.