When I see my daughter playing with other children, I often compare my children with
When I see my daughter playing with other children, I often compare my children with others' children. There is a child whose parents have begun to teach them to write. The child who can write his own name is regarded as a particularly excellent "little genius". Once, my husband joked with me: "Look at you, why didn't you teach our children well?" I am a little unconvinced: "It is not necessarily a good thing to learn to write when you are less than 4 years old, because children grow up regularly!"
Indeed, children's growth is regular, which is said in almost every educational book. Children have their own nature and development rules. As parents, what we have to do is to observe our children more and help them study properly at the appropriate stage:
1 year-old to cultivate children's sense of security
Children's sense of security is mainly established before their first birthday. At this stage, parents (especially mothers) must be patient, tolerant and accompany their children. When their children cry, they must be comforted at the first time to make them feel safe enough.
Cultivating children's sense of humor at the age of 2
2-year-old children like to entertain themselves. They laugh when they see interesting things, and even put stickers on their heads and wear hats askew to make them happy. At this time, parents should remember to encourage more, and never be stingy with their smiles, otherwise it will dampen their children's enthusiasm.
Cultivate children's creativity at the age of 3.
Three-year-old children have shown enough wisdom, and they already know how to achieve high goals with small stools. At this time, parents remember to take their children to play educational games such as building blocks to cultivate their imagination and creativity.
Develop children's expressive ability at the age of 4.
The 4-year-old child is already a bitch, waiting for his parents with endless "why" and wonderful answers. At this time, parents should tell more stories to their children and let them learn more wonderful languages. At the same time, encouraging children to express themselves bravely and freely will have unexpected gains!
At the age of 5, I began to cultivate my children's writing ability.
5 years old is a sensitive period of children's written language, which is different from 3 years old graffiti and 4 years old line drawing. At this stage, parents should pay attention to cultivating their children's writing ability. Only by laying a good foundation can children practice good handwriting.
Cultivate children's good character when they are 6 years old.
6-year-old children begin to enter the stage of "self-centeredness", which is also a key stage in the formation of children's personality. At this time, the company of parents is very important. Of course, we should also give children enough personal space and do a good job of positive guidance.
Cultivate children's empathy ability at the age of 7.
Seven-year-olds have begun to think of others. They are eager to be recognized by their parents, teachers and classmates and try their best to do everything well. At this time, parents must communicate with their children and guide them to learn to put themselves in their shoes.
Cultivate children's independence at the age of 8.
8-year-old children are very willing to help others, have a clearer concept of good or bad, and are also very concerned about other people's evaluation of themselves. At this time, parents should consciously cultivate their children's independent ability and encourage them to establish their own circle of friends.
Raising children is not an easy task, Ma Bao. Let's make progress together!