A pair of parents born in the 1990s posted their son’s name on the Internet, Mr. Zhang, and said they had named their second child “Mr. Yan.” Later, netizens joked that a family suddenly had two bosses. It would be better to have more children, so that the family would become richer and richer. The parents born in the 1990s said afterwards that they named their child "Mr. Zhang" because they hoped that the child would become a boss in the future and no longer need to work for others. Netizens said that the parents were really whimsical.
I don’t think the children’s feelings were considered at all in naming it this way. Although the parents' original intention is good, they want their children to have a prosperous life in the future. They no longer need to work for others. They are their own bosses and live a relatively relaxed and comfortable life. But he didn't think the name was good for a child. Because children will think that they will be joked about by others and given nicknames by others. And in the future when a child meets an elder, what should the elder call the child? Should he call the child Mr. Zhang? Then where should the elder’s face be placed? This is a very embarrassing thing and will also affect the child’s interpersonal relationships.
When parents name their children, they must have a very meaningful name. It can mean that the child is healthy and safe, or it can also mean that the child is rich and wealthy. There is no problem. But be sure to avoid homophones or the possibility of being easily nicknamed. Children's hearts are very fragile. They care particularly about interpersonal relationships and the opinions of others. If a child is teased because of his name, he will definitely hate his name very much. In the future, I will not dare to introduce myself confidently in front of outsiders, and at the same time, I will vent my dissatisfaction on my parents, because it was my parents who gave me such a name.
But then again, as long as the name does not violate the law or public order and good customs, then you should respect other people's decisions. After all, it is other people's family affairs. And what if? Mr. Zhang? Mr. Yan? These two names can really provide good guidance, then these two children may be very good at doing business in the future, and they may even become big bosses. Therefore, as netizens, we can criticize and provide suggestions, but we should not attack them personally. It is best to wish them well.