Education is a top priority for all families, and parents attach great importance to it. When to receive early childhood education, and what type of kindergarten or supplementary class to attend, detailed planning is required. But before that, the involution of education had already begun. As "involution" intensifies, parents' "anxiety" is also increasing. In order to prevent students from losing at the starting line and not falling behind others, many parents have high hopes for their students.
Names accompany us throughout our lives, and from the names, we can see the importance and expectations that parents attach to them, such as Jianguo, Jianguo, and Xiu, which are characteristic of the times. Hong, Zhaodi, etc., as well as Zixuan, Haoxuan, Yuxin, Zihan, etc. from "Bad Street".
The name of the student expresses the full love of the parents. A name is not only a title, but also contains profound content. Parents hope that their sons will become successful and their daughters will become phoenixes, and they incorporate their own expectations into them. A name can have multiple meanings.
In order to highlight the differences of their students, parents spend a lot of thought on naming them. It needs to sound catchy but also have a special meaning. You cannot have the same name as too many students, otherwise the original meaning will be lost. Names like Jianguo, Yajuan, and Liping represent an era. Zixuan, Kexin, Meiqi, etc. are on the list of those born in the 10s with the highest duplication rate. In order to give their students a famous name, parents have come up with another way of naming them.
In the opinion of parents, it is necessary to give students a unique enough name. Becoming the brightest among the crowd can help students build up their self-confidence and become more powerful in their studies. Parents' demands are very unanimous, and if they don't complain, they will become a blockbuster.
After reading a lot of books and dictionaries, parents still feel dissatisfied. So, they began to research a four-letter name. Generally speaking, only people with compound surnames can have four-character names. Sima, Ouyang, Shangguan, etc. are all compound surnames.
There are fewer and fewer families with compound surnames. Adhering to the principle that rare things are valuable, compound surnames give people a sense of nobility. However, elementary and junior high school teachers often find students with four-letter names, but upon closer inspection, they don’t really have compound surnames. This kind of pseudo compound surname usually combines the parents' surnames, with the father's surname first and the mother's surname last, followed by a two-character exclusive name. There is no need to worry about duplicate names, and it can reflect the students' high level. Parents feel like they have discovered a new world.
Parents feel good about themselves, but students are very distressed
There are more and more pseudo-complex surnames, and the types are gradually becoming richer. The most common surnames are the surnames of two parents. Combinations such as Cao Zhenghaoxuan and Wang Limuzi are currently the most popular.
Of course, many parents are worried that people with multiple surnames will have the same first name. After all, the probability of two surnames overlapping is relatively high. So they came up with more creative pseudo-duplicate names, which they thought were very noble.
For example, names like Ni Luo Piaoxue and Shi Zhehaonan sound more unique and elegant. Basically, there is no need to worry about the duplicate name. Everyone's eyes will light up when they hear it for the first time.
Parents will also be proud of their ability to name names, but they do not know that this will cause greater trouble to their students. Primary school students write very slowly, and it takes some time to write fake names with many strokes.
When the students finally finished writing their four-letter names, other students whose names had fewer strokes had already answered a quarter of the paper. This is likely to result in students not having enough time to check the test questions, which will affect test scores.
Parents may only consider the uniqueness of the name, but they do not care about how much impact the duplication of names will have on the students. It would be okay if it was a normal compound surname. This kind of pseudo compound surname is really unnecessary.
A name that is too special will have a negative effect
In school, a name is the biggest symbol of a person.
The teacher may not know a student, but he can definitely remember his name. The same is true among classmates. Those students with special names will be treated specially.
Some parents place their hopes on their students, so they give their students names that are basically consistent with scientists or celebrities. Edison is known as the world's inventor and a famous physicist.
A parent named his student Yue Aidi Sheng, giving him high expectations. This name has other meanings in the eyes of classmates, who often use this homophone to tease students and give them nicknames.
The students are still young and cannot master how to make jokes. The students who were teased did not want to tell their teachers and parents, and they silently shouldered everything. Over time, it is not good for students' physical and mental health.
Compared with naming, family education is more important
It is understandable that parents want their students to be better, but it is not that necessary. , focus entirely on naming. Unique doesn't mean it's the best, a simple name is great.
Instead of racking their brains to think about names, parents should focus their attention on educating students. Education received at school is indeed important, but family education is also an essential part.
If parents still want to give students their names, it is best to choose characters with relatively simple strokes. Allowing students to save some time in the exam is equivalent to winning at the starting line.
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