The girl was admitted to a prestigious university and secretly met her biological father without telling her adoptive father. When the adoptive father found out, he was greatly disappointed: he had raised this baby for nothing.
Zhao Zhiguo is an upright middle-aged man who adopted an abandoned baby 19 years ago and named him Zhao Liying. The couple loved their children very much. Zhao Liying always thought that she was the biological daughter of her adoptive parents until she was six years old. When she was six years old, from the villagers' intentional or unintentional conversations, the precocious Zhao Liying knew that she was not the biological daughter of Zhao Zhiguo and his wife. , for this reason, she is resentful towards her biological parents who abandoned her.
Zhao Zhiguo and his wife were infertile for several years after their marriage, so they adopted infant Zhao Liying through the introduction of relatives. In fact, even after the couple had their own daughter, they still treated Zhao Liying as their own. Zhao Zhiguo’s monthly income from work was about 1,500 yuan. The family of four lived a tight life. The younger daughter saw this Under such circumstances, he took the initiative to drop out of school and go out to work to earn money to supplement his family's income. Zhao Liying was also very successful and was admitted to a university in Hainan. This year, she is 19 years old. You know, there are very few college students there. Just when the family was beaming with joy, Zhao Zhiguo discovered something that made him very uncomfortable.
What happened?
It turned out that Zhao Liying secretly recognized her biological parents without telling the couple. Not only did they recognize each other, she also held a grand feast at their home to celebrate and accepted congratulations from relatives and friends. Zhao Liying's biological father's surname is Tang, named Tang Xianghua. She is a businessman and her family is very wealthy. Since she met her biological parents, Zhao Liying has basically not returned to her adoptive parents' home. Zhao Zhiguo was very angry. He felt that his adopted daughter was a vain person. After knowing that her biological father was rich, he abandoned the couple. Zhao Liying disagreed with this. She felt that her adoptive parents were too hard and could not afford to pay for her college education. Her biological father The conditions are good, and with their support, the pressure on adoptive parents will be much less.
Zhao Zhiguo and his wife were disappointed and disappointed. They thought that Zhao Liying had a serious illness when she was young. If the couple hadn't spent money to save the baby, the baby might have died. Where were the biological parents at that time? Now that their daughter has been admitted to college and looks good, her biological parents have started to think about it. It is simply Sima Zhao's heart, and everyone on the road knows it. Tang Xianghua said that his daughter came to them for help because she had no other choice. Because the family is too poor.
The father-in-law is right, and the mother-in-law is right
Now, Zhao Liying has become the first college student in the old Tang family. Tang Xianghua feels proud of his face, so he is determined to get rid of the long-lost family. His daughter was recognized. At first, when they found Zhao Liying, Zhao Liying ignored them, mainly out of resentment. Later, with their persistent efforts, Zhao Liying wavered. It was natural for them to recognize their relatives. Of course, the identification process was kept hidden from the adoptive parents. Zhao Liying's explanation was that she was afraid that her adoptive parents would be sad. In fact, Zhao Zhiguo and his wife were indeed very sad. What should I do if I am very sad?
Spending money to buy out family ties
What makes Zhao Zhiguo and his wife even more sad is that Zhao Liying has already started to transfer her household registration and wants to move her household registration out of the Zhao family's household registration book. Zhao Zhiguo and his wife thought that not only were they not qualified to celebrate the gold medal with their daughter, but their adopted daughter was actually making small moves behind her back. Regarding the transfer of household registration, Zhao Liying explained that it was necessary for college. Moreover, my biological parents have computers at home, which helps me have better contact with the world.
Zhao Zhiguo is a straight-tempered man. In a fit of anger, he ran to the Tang family and demanded that Tang Xianghua pay alimony for 19 years, and then they broke up with each other. Seeing Zhao Zhiguo's determination, Zhao Liying hurried home to explain. She said that when she first entered her biological father's house, she was stunned by their luxurious decoration. She had never seen such a nice house. In addition, her biological father repeatedly emphasized that he had the ability to send her to college. Zhao Liying was moved. . So I came here behind the back of my adoptive parents. Zhao Zhiguo was still angry. Zhao Liying apologized, saying that she was not thoughtful and hurt her adoptive parents, but she always regarded him as her biological father.
She spoke her mind. She knew she was an adopted daughter when she was five or six years old, but she had remained silent for so many years. First, she didn’t want her adoptive parents to feel sad, and second, she wanted to treat her biological parents There is resentment. Third, she really wanted to know what kind of people her biological parents were, so she recognized them without hesitation. But she didn't expect that she would unintentionally break the hearts of her adoptive parents.
For this reason, she was in a dilemma. After Zhao Liying apologized, Tang Xianghua also came to apologize in person. She said that she was definitely not competing for his daughter, and Zhao Liying would always be Zhao Zhiguo's daughter. No one can take it away. Zhao Liying also quickly expressed her position that no matter what happens in the future, she will definitely support her adoptive parents in their old age. In this regard, Zhao Zhiguo and his wife were relieved. We started walking around like relatives with the Tang family.
It is said that the most chilling thing in the world is the betrayal from your loved ones. Often the person who gives you the fatal blow is also your loved ones. They are sad because you care about them. Because I care, I feel cold.
You can put on more clothes when the weather gets cold, but what if you feel cold?
Just like the little girl in the article, she made her own decisions regardless of her adoptive parents' opinions. She thought she was doing something good for others. It is precisely this kind of thing that I find most frustrating. The child who worked hard and raised a lot of shit secretly got to know his biological parents who abandoned him. The twists and turns of the family recognition process between Zhao Zhiguo, Zhao Liying, his daughter, and the Tang family would indeed be difficult to believe if there was no selfishness involved.
The reason why Zhao Zhiguo has been unwilling to tell his daughter about her life experience is that, first, the Tang family is too rich and he is too poor, so he does not dare to challenge the bottom line of human nature. Second, the child he worked so hard to raise was picked by others. He flatly rejected Tang Xianghua's buyout proposal. Although this suggestion was made by him, he spoke out of anger at the time.
Zhao Liying not only has the love of two sets of parents, but her biological parents and adoptive parents have also become friends. Fortunately, the ending is happy and everyone is happy.
In our hometown, there is a very famous woman. Almost no one in our area does not know her. Her name is Cui Gaihong, which is very suitable for the era in which she lived.
Cui Gaihong became famous because she got pregnant out of wedlock in the early 1990s. According to her parents, Cui Gaihong was only about twenty years old at the time. Her family had found a partner, but she was only engaged. , not yet married, but I don’t know how it turned out, Cui Gaihong became pregnant. The family didn’t know it at first, but as days passed, Cui Gaihong’s belly got bigger and bigger. They couldn’t hide the matter. At that time, the family thought it was Cui Gaihong who was with her. Her fiancé couldn't help being lonely and secretly ate the forbidden fruit. As a result, when Cui Gaihong's fiancé found out, he immediately made a fuss about breaking off the engagement, saying that he no longer wanted to marry Cui Gaihong.
This made the Cui family very angry. They thought that the fiancé had made their daughter pregnant and was irresponsible, so they gathered their people to go to Cui Gaihong's fiancé's house to make a fuss. Cui Gaihong's fiancé couldn't bear the fuss anymore, so he told the truth. It turned out that Cui Gaihong's fiancé had nothing to do with Cui Gaihong. The two were innocent, and the child in her belly did not belong to her fiancé. But after Cui Gaihong found out that she was pregnant , I went to see my fiancé and wanted him to bear the consequences. The fiancé agreed at the time, but who would have thought that Cui Gaihong’s fiancé became more and more uncomfortable and felt aggrieved, so he regretted it and wanted to break off the engagement.
This suddenly made the Cui family feel shameless. In that era, it was shameful for a woman to get pregnant before marriage. What was even more shameful was that she was not pregnant with her husband's child, so the Cui family went back. The person behind this must be found out, and they want to know who this man is. In the end, no matter how the Cui family interrogated them, using soft and hard methods, Cui Gaihong just refused to speak, and would rather die than tell who the man was. This gave the Cui family He was so angry that he had no choice but to drive Cui Gaihong out of his home and was never allowed to set foot in Cui's village again.
Although Cui Gaihong left home alone and was still pregnant with her child, because Cui Gaihong graduated from a technical secondary school at the time and worked as a teacher in the primary school in the next village after graduation, even though she left home, she did not have food and accommodation. But it wasn't a problem. Just like that, Cui Gaihong was pregnant with the child and lived in the school all day long. Although he had a bad reputation, it was not easy to find an educated person to replace Cui Gaihong in the countryside at that time, so he stayed like this. Although everyone didn't I am willing, but I have to let Cui Gaihong stay in school. Parents at that time would always tell their children that it is good to learn the knowledge Cui Gaihong teaches in school, but they must not learn from Cui Gaihong's life.
It was even more painful for Cui Gaihong to give birth. I heard from the old man that it was winter and all the students were on winter vacation. Cui Gaihong was the only one living in the school. She was going to give birth so late at night that it hurt. He was yelling in the house, but there was no one around him. It happened that that night, a few gamblers from the village were hiding in a broken room next to the school, lighting candles and gambling. They wanted to go to the toilet while having fun. , there was no one around at night, so I just went to pee behind the wall of the school teacher’s dormitory. While I was peeing, I heard Cui Gaihong’s cry, so I quickly climbed over the wall and went in to take a look. I was shocked when I saw it, and hurriedly told my accomplices, A few rural gamblers, although they are not very good people, but their character is still good. I thought that no matter what kind of character Mr. Cui is, he will still save his life. I will save the person first, but a few grown men can't To deliver the baby, I had no choice but to knock on the door of the village chief's house overnight and tell her the situation. The village chief knew how to deliver the baby, and he just cursed and said, "You need a midwife to give birth to your baby. Why are you looking for me?" Although the village chief cursed, he still got up and followed a few gamblers to find a midwife. Fortunately, there was a midwife in the village. After finding the midwife, he took the village elder's wife and two other women to deliver the baby.
Although the delivery process was dangerous, and I heard that there was heavy bleeding at the time, fortunately, the mother and daughter were safe in the end. After the child was born, the villagers notified the Cui family, saying that no matter what happens now, The child has been born, and we want to see if we can take him back and let him rest at home for a while, but no one expected that the men in the Cui family were so heartless, saying that they would never accept Cui Gaihong's return unless Cui Gaihong told who the man was. The village chief and others saw that they could not move the Cui family, so they could only prepare to go back. At this time, Cui Gaihong's mother secretly gave two big roosters to the village chief, saying that she would give one to the village chief to thank the village chief and the others for helping their daughter. One chicken was stewed for his daughter to replenish her health. The honest village chief took the chicken back and was reluctant to eat it himself. He asked his wife to stew the chicken and sent it to Cui Gaihong, saying that no matter what, Cui Gaihong was also the teacher of his Murakami students. , what should be taken care of still needs to be taken care of. In this way, Cui Gaihong continued to take her daughter to teach in the village, and took her daughter Tangtang with her at the same time.
In the blink of an eye, it’s 2015. Cui Gaihong’s daughter Tangtang has grown from a baby waiting to be fed to a tall and graceful girl. She is loved by everyone. However, because she has lived with her mother since she was a child, her mother has no feelings for her. She was very doting on her and had no discipline from her father, so Tangtang had always been rebellious and liked to play with boys. When she was about 20 years old, Tangtang had not studied for several years and followed the gangsters in the county all day long. Wandering around.
How can a girl who wanders around not have a boyfriend, and Tangtang is no exception. She has a boyfriend for herself, so that’s fine, but the boyfriend Tangtang is talking about is People from the Liu family, this Liu family is Cui Gaihong’s fiancé’s family. This is definitely not a good thing. After Cui Gaihong found out that her daughter’s boyfriend was from the Liu family, she was reluctant and resolutely wanted Tangtang. When she broke up with her boyfriend, she said that she would never agree to it either.
At first, Tangtang thought that her mother might be against her falling in love with the Liu family because of what happened back then, so she told her mother in nice words that it was a new era now, and it had long been gone. You already care about what happened back then, and said that your grandfather also allowed you to go back to Cui's house. Why do you still care about this matter? However, Tangtang's mother did not relent, but firmly stated that you and that family can get along with each other, but not the Cui family. Seeing her mother's strong opposition, Tangtang got angry and said that she would identify with the Cui family for the rest of her life. She said she would not marry someone who was not a member of the Cui family. She turned around and left with a harsh word, leaving her mother Cui Gaihong crying alone at home.
After going out, Tangtang continued to hang out with her boyfriend. By the way, she told her boyfriend that her mother did not agree with their marriage, but she would insist on it to the end. The two of them were tired of each other, but they didn't Knowing that Cui Gaihong did not agree with his two sexual partners has spread all over the country, and by the way, it also reached the ears of Tangtang’s boyfriend’s mother. Tangtang’s boyfriend’s mother heard that Cui Gaihong did not agree with her son’s sexual intercourse with her daughter. , everyone said sourly that it was Cui Gaihong's blessing that his son could like Cui Gaihong's daughter, and it was also her daughter's blessing. Otherwise, with Cui Gaihong's family style, it would still be a question whether anyone would want her. Although she said this, Tangtang's boyfriend's mother still wanted Tangtang to marry into her family. After all, it was not easy to get a wife these days.
However, no one expected that things would develop beyond everyone’s expectations. After Tangtang’s boyfriend’s father found out about the incident, he generously stated that as long as the children were willing, there would be no children at home. problem, and asked his son to go to Tangtang's house to visit his future mother-in-law in advance, but no one expected that Cui Gaihong, who has always been gentle and kind, changed his past temper and kicked Tangtang's boyfriend out of the house, saying that as long as The day he married Tangtang was the day he died. This frightened the two children and they ran out in despair. Tangtang's boyfriend went home and told his parents, and the parents persuaded Tangtang's boyfriend to let him go. Let go, a boy in his twenties and twenties is the time when his feelings are the most sincere. How could he let go like that? He immediately expressed his unwillingness. The parents had no choice but to let their children go and take it one step at a time.
However, no one expected that on a sunny Sunday, Cui Gaihong went shopping in a supermarket in the county town and happened to run into the mother of Tangtang’s boyfriend who came to do some shopping. The two women met. , Cui Gaihong pretended not to see him, and was about to turn around and leave, but Tangtang’s boyfriend’s mother came up to him, and smiled and wanted to talk to Cui Gaihong about family affairs. Fortunately, Cui Gaihong immediately got angry when he pulled her, and threw him a sentence. Your son wants to marry my son and daughter. That is a daydream. It is impossible in this life. Moreover, these words were said so loudly. It made Tangtang’s boyfriend’s mother blush and started to say something to Cui Gaihong. She got angry and cursed wildly. After scolding the two women, they started to make a fuss. More and more people were watching the excitement. Tangtang’s boyfriend’s mother became more and more fierce in scolding. Cui Gaihong finally couldn’t help but said something that made everyone The sentence that shocked everyone was "My daughter and your man are brother and sister. If you think they can get along, then let's get along."
This sentence was like a shocking sentence, which surprised everyone. Those who knew Cui Gaihong immediately realized what it meant, while those who didn't know him were still asking, and Tangtang's boyfriend's mother was still confused. What did he mean when he didn't react? He kept asking Cui Gaihong to explain clearly. Cui Gaihong said, "Don't you always say that I steal people? The person I stole is your husband and his father. My daughter and your husband are brothers." , you are satisfied." How could this be satisfactory? How could such a good daughter-in-law turn into a sister-in-law? This made Tangtang’s boyfriend’s mother so angry that she rushed towards her and was about to beat her. Fortunately, someone on the side pulled her away.
The matter spread like this, causing an uproar. I heard that that night, the Liu family detained Tangtang’s boyfriend at home and refused to let him go out, while Tangtang was detained at home by the Cui family. Not allowed to go out, the two children were like crazy and refused to accept the reality. The Cui family and the Liu family almost broke the threshold of Cui Gaihong's family that night. They walked away one after another and walked away one after another. After a while, it took several days before things came to an end. Since then, Tangtang and her boyfriend have not been in contact, and the Cui and Liu families also dislike each other.
But the matter still spread. It turned out that when Cui Gaihong was still fifteen or sixteen, he was attracted by the old man of the Liu family, Cui Gaihong, and Cui Gaihong didn't know what he thought. The man was together, so the two of them spent time together. As time went by, Old Man Liu fell more and more in love with Cui Gaihong, so he came up with a bad idea and promised Cui Gaihong to one of his nephews. In this way, the two of them It was more convenient to be together, so Old Man Liu acted as a matchmaker and told Cui Gaihong to his nephew. However, before Cui Gaihong got married, Old Man Liu made Cui Gaihong pregnant. Now Cui Gaihong was afraid, and Old Man Liu was unsure for the moment. After thinking about it for a while, he came up with another bad idea, asking Cui Gaihong to find his fiancé. The two of them would get closer, and then they would say that the child belonged to the fiancé.
But when Cui Gaihong asked her fiancé out, she didn’t want to be intimate with her fiancé, so she told the truth, but she didn’t tell Old Man Liu. She only said that she was pregnant with someone else’s child and wanted her fiancé to marry him. After agreeing, who would have thought that her fiancé agreed at the time, but later regretted it. Cui Gaihong had no choice but to betray his lover, so he could only carry it to death, thinking about the future of the two of them, but who knew that Old Man Liu would change from this After the incident broke out, he did not dare to meet Cui Gaihong anymore, and he did not want the child. This made Cui Gaihong angry and wanted to tell Old Man Liu, but Old Man Liu hurriedly knelt down and begged her. Women are always soft-hearted, so Cui Gaihong Old Man Liu was never told.
Old man Liu passed away when Tangtang was about seven or eight years old. Cui Gaihong knew that there was no point in speaking out, so she could only carry it silently. Who would have thought that it would involve the next generation? Now that I don't have the other party to scold and force me, I have no choice but to just reveal the matter. After hearing about this incident, the Cui family and the Liu family took Tangtang and Old Man Liu's son for a paternity test. The results were unknown to outsiders, but from then on, the two children were prohibited from all contact with each other.
This incident is absolutely true, but the names of the people in the incident are pseudonyms and should not be taken seriously.
Before he died, the old man said that he would leave all his family property to his "granddaughter". Later, under repeated questioning from his family, he said that it was her daughter.
There is a family in the village who raised pigs and cattle in the early 1990s. On market days, they killed the cattle and sold them on the streets. On other days, they killed pigs and used motorcycles to go to the village to sell them.
The village still starts work at three or four in the morning because cattle are slaughtered on market days, and pig killing starts at five or six in the morning, which often affects the work and rest time of the villagers. In addition, many pigs and cows are raised by oneself to be killed and sold.
There is also a bit of superstition in the village. You should not kill the animals if you raise them yourself. This will gradually deplete your merits and cause bad things to happen to your family.
When the family gave birth to their second child in 1992 (the first was born in 1886, a normal person, a son), she did give birth to a mentally retarded and imbecile daughter who had no ability to discern life. .
In 1994, another son was born who was mentally retarded and imbecile. People in the village said that this was a situation in which his merits were exhausted.
In 2002, the two of them started attending elementary school because their home was close to the school. After every class, the two of them would walk back home to play instead of going to school. This was basically the case every day. There was only one class in the morning and afternoon, because my family had to sell pork and beef, and my mother had to herd cattle, so every time the two of us came back from get out of class, no one else knew about it, and the neighbors would not remind them or the family.
When they were in the second grade of elementary school, the two of them stopped studying and went home to help herd the cows. Their mother went to herd the cows with them. When they got older, they gradually stopped caring about the cow herding. Now, let them go out and herd the cattle.
In 2010, his daughter was sold by her father to some old bachelors as their wives for 30,000 yuan.
In 2013, his youngest son was kicked down the mountain by a cow and died while herding cattle. This is also what the villagers say is retribution for the family.
In 2001, his eldest son also started raising pigs and killing cattle and selling meat with his father. At that time, people in the village said that this kind of work should not be inherited from the father, after all, such a family would be in trouble, but his father would not believe this at the time. He insisted on letting his son do these things.
In 2005, his eldest son got married to a relatively beautiful wife. As time went by, he learned that his wife had worked as a "massage girl" in Guangdong for a period of time. ", unable to have children, this became a "favorite story" in the village.
In 2008, the two people divorced.
I remarried in 2010, this time to a wife who is fertile. The first child was born in 2011, and the second child was born in 2013. They are both daughters, but no sons. Moreover, both daughters have There is a little problem, there is something wrong with the brain. When I was 5.6 years old, I saw the hair of his two daughters, which seemed to be unconventional. Afros were the kind that didn’t wash their hair and exploded on their own. But no matter what, it was not like him. The two younger siblings are so bad, but they still have some ability to distinguish.
By 2015, his eldest son no longer had the job of killing pigs and cattle and selling pork and beef. He bought a van and went out to sell medicated oil and medicated wine with others. He learned a little more. Technical means are no longer available in our own cities.
In 2017, I went out to Hainan to sell medicated oil and medicinal wine. I hooked up with a divorced woman from the next village. In 2018, I gave birth to another daughter. This daughter is a normal person.
In 2018, his wife at home found out about this, and then filed for divorce. His eldest son also wanted the result very much.
Later, the people in the village told his original wife that the two daughters you have now are divorced. No one will be willing to accept such a person. If the town behind cannot find anyone to start a family, this will become your own. The burden also allows others to enter this home legitimately. It's better to live like this, letting his family take care of the children, and you can go out to work to subsidize your own pocket. Later, she also felt that it made sense and obeyed such an environment.
Up to now, his eldest son and the divorced woman have been living in Hainan, and they will not come back during the New Year and the holidays, and their family does not recognize his and the divorced woman's child.
And his first wife went out to work and had an old sweetheart. She often went out for half a year and came back for a while, so that she kept declaring her sovereignty in this family.
And his father is now over 60 years old. He no longer sells beef, but only sells pork. Because his eldest son does not provide money to the family, he has only himself as a labor force, so he can only work hard to make money to support the family. .
These things are well known in the village. His mother also feels shameless. Every time she finishes farm work, she always takes the path home instead of going to the neighbors’ houses to gather. Occasionally I would see her taking the two children to do farm work on weekends.
I feel that such a family has a very abnormal relationship. Home is not like home, people live very hard, and there is no normal activity environment and social relations.