Now is an era with relatively developed communications. Both the Internet and communications have provided great convenience for communication in our daily lives. Everyone is no stranger to nicknames, nicknames, pen names, stage names, etc. Moreover, many people in life will give themselves a name that is more in line with their own personality and unique and personalized, such as online names, nicknames, pen names, stage names, etc.
People are just like their names. If someone says what kind of name you give yourself, you can simply judge what personality and hobbies you have. Because when many people choose names, they don't do it hastily, but mostly after careful consideration before they come up with the name they want. Therefore, it is not entirely unreasonable to use these names to judge whether a person is positive, optimistic, free and generous, or whether he is reserved, reserved, negative and sad.
Occasionally I saw one of my essays posted on Meiwen.com, and a literary friend asked me: Why do you use the word Liu Yu as your pen name? Literally explained: Liu is a kind of glaze fired with silicic acid compounds of aluminum and sodium. It is mostly green or golden yellow. The original meaning of Yu is that young seedlings and young grasses are growing everywhere, growing vegetation. It doesn't even add up to a word. I didn't know how to reply to him at the time. Later I told him that in fact, this pen name was just my own life direction. Some people name them after their favorite scenery, such as starry sky, winter snow, and rain. Some people also give names that represent their own personalities, such as: the lonely tourist, the man who falls in love with cigarettes, and the strong drinker. Those with names have special commemorative meaning in his heart. For example, the agreement between three and seven, and the rainy season in July. When I was eighteen years old, I used to wait. Therefore, every name must have its own meaning. As for whether others understand it or not, only the person who named it knows clearly.
At that time, I thought of the name Liu Yu to tell myself that due to many factors including IQ, personality, knowledge, and value orientation, the position I gave myself was not just a wall jade. At best it's just a rock. There is no priceless gemstone, the purity of a pearl, the dazzling brilliance of an emerald, or the distinct color of agate. But I am still crystal clear, round and shiny. Although not many people know about it, I should maintain my original innocence and nature in life and not envy those jade stones that everyone wants to covet. A common man is not guilty of having a jade in his possession. In fact, it is a kind of wisdom to be a quiet and ordinary person in life.
Since I am usually very interested in Chinese literature with Chinese characters, and I also like Zhouyi, I used some characters for divination. It is impossible to measure calligraphy without certain literary skills. Besides, I don’t really believe in numerology in my life. Relatively speaking, I believe that destiny is created by oneself and images are born from the heart.
I remember last year, a friend asked me to help her name her newborn child. In my opinion, as soon as a person is born, his or her name is a symbol that accompanies him or her throughout his or her life. However, some names often make us regretful due to certain circumstances in later life. So in life, we often see situations where we give ourselves another name in the form of a stage name, a pen name, or a self-title, etc. We often see that the new name is louder than the one given by our parents. For example, Lu Xun, Bing Xin, Lao She, etc. Most of the pen names and so on are limited to a certain circle and are not known to more people.
Now that we have entered the Internet age, this situation has not only changed, but also has a great degree of freedom. The Internet gives us the space to give ourselves a new name, which not only allows us to travel conveniently on the Internet, but also makes our lives more fulfilling and colorful. In the online name we give ourselves, we can cultivate a portion of our own thoughts into a small seedling. As life goes on, this seedling will continue to grow, and finally grow into a towering tree. .
I remember that I once had an online name: Jingyi Xingyu, which means that I am a person who likes quietness and peace and is full of longing for the future. I have always thought that I and Poetic and picturesque, tranquil and far away.
This stubbornness will always be ridiculed by some of the friends I make around me: They will tell me that you should have been born in ancient times and become a pastoral hermit like Zhuangzi, Tao Yuanming, and Ji Kang. I sometimes regard myself as a very stupid and dull person, because emotionally there are some things that I don’t understand and I have a strong scholarly atmosphere.
I remember a friend named himself Han Yusheng. Later, my friend asked me: What does his online name look like? After listening to this, I burst out laughing and said: Do you want to say that you are as wise as a fool? But I just like his naivety. As long as you don't harm others with your stupidity, stupidity is actually a kind of kindness. Wouldn't it be nice to have the cuteness of stupidity in your life?
In life, we all hope to have a beautiful emotion in our interactions with friends. Who doesn’t hope that he can get one or a few people who treat him sincerely in his life? What about close friends? From then on, we can resolve each other's depression or troubles in life and share each other's happiness and joy in life. The ancient Greek philosopher Socrates said: "Don't rely on gifts to gain friends, you must give your sincere love." Then, like you, I am willing to meet your sincerity with my sincerity on the Internet and in life.
I also remember that a friend around me gave myself an online name: Colorful Xiangyun. This is such a romantic and sad name. Because when we see the colorful auspicious clouds, we will think of a very popular movie: Journey to the West. When Zixia is dying, she says to Sun Wukong: My beloved is a peerless hero. One day he will step on the colorful auspicious clouds to marry me. Me, I guessed the beginning but I couldn't guess the ending. Many true loves in the world are so helpless.
Sometimes the love for a person is a kind of helplessness that goes deep into the bone marrow. There are many people in real life, facing true feelings, they are like a supreme treasure, in the vagueness. Between the time and the hesitant self, thinking about how to choose. Whether facing Bai Jingjing or Zixia. I can't protect them if I don't wear a tight band, and I can't love them if I wear one. Sometimes, for the sake of the person you love and seeing her have a good ending, I would rather become a dog that she looks down upon. So humble yet so free and easy. A friend once told me that people of the same sex do not need to care about the distance between them, but the same is not true for people of the opposite sex. You don't set boundaries and distance from her because you don't care. But you understand that she does not belong to you. Sometimes in life, the order of appearance is really important. For many people, if the time were changed, it would have a different ending. Time, some love can only stop at the teeth and be covered by the years. Some people you meet are always not far from you, but even if you want to appear in front of her and meet her, even if you have ten thousand reasons to meet her, you will not go again. Because you are the only one who sees her identity. Bai Jingjing fell in love with Sun Wukong, but it was the Supreme Treasure that fell in love with Bai Jingjing. Zixia fell in love with the Supreme Treasure, but it was Sun Wukong who finally fell in love with Zixia. However, there is a gap of five hundred years between Wukong and the Supreme Treasure. They have the Moonlight Box in their hands, and no matter how they travel through time, their fate cannot be changed.
Of course, this is what I understood when I saw my friend’s online name, but my friend told me that her online name was not as poignant as I said. Her meaning is: the sunset clouds on the horizon are floating leisurely against the pure sky, free and easy, the sky will not be lonely, the auspicious clouds have become more colorful, and it can also become a beautiful picture for people to eliminate fatigue and cheer up their spirits. The condensed rainwater is the milk that nourishes the earth. Xiangyun spent her selfless life silently dedicating her all to the evolution of heaven and earth. It’s really good to be a cloud.
Life has worries as well as joys. Giving yourself a favorite online name is to add a subtitle to your life experience and add an extra dimension to ordinary days. Very poetic. It connects our current life with our past and future very well, using childish notes to write into the melody of our own lives, adding a joyful scenery to our lives.