The first half of the sentence "A good man is afraid of others" has two versions of interpretation in rural areas. The first version means that men are afraid of turning 30, because turning 30 is a new stage in life. At this time, the immaturity of youth is gone and it begins to become clearer and clearer.
But the age of 30 is also a time when men are more tested, because they have reached an age where there are seniors and juniors. Maybe many people realize that they have accomplished nothing until they are 30 because they were young and frivolous.
There are fewer and fewer friends around me, and there is almost no one I can talk to. You need to work harder to make your life better, otherwise you will have a lot of regrets when you are 40 years old.
There is also a version that says that men are afraid of celebrating their 30th birthday, because three means "breakup", which has a particularly bad connotation. And folk people are particularly concerned about homophonic sounds, so 30th birthdays are usually just a simple meal with family.
"Without Heaven" means that you should be particularly careful when naming your name and do not include Heaven in your name. Because the emperor is regarded as the destined emperor, if he mentions "tian" in his name, he will be as famous as the emperor, which will lead to death.
Raising a child is not an easy task. Everyone would like to give their child a relatively earthy name, which would make it easier to raise. If you name your child Tian, ??he will stand too high and it may be difficult for the child to support him in the future.
"Good girls are afraid of the fourth" means that when women reach the age of 40, they will be afraid that their appearance will no longer be there. It is the nature of every woman to love beauty. After the age of 40, her appearance ages. Although she becomes more and more mature, her mood is still very complicated when she celebrates her birthday.
"Not bringing fairy" means not to bring the word "fairy" when naming, because the emperor is the destined emperor, and the queen is a fairy descended to earth. If you bring a fairy, you will have the same name as the queen, and you will also bring it to yourself. Come a lot of trouble. Moreover, Dai Xian's words are too famous for ordinary people to suppress, and it is not good for themselves.