It is true that it is often counterproductive for both boys and girls to hide their feelings too deeply. If the other person doesn't feel that you have a good impression on him, he will instinctively retreat, because he will deny himself and suspect that he has a good impression on him. In fact, in real life, such a situation is never uncommon. Many people like to be afraid of rejection. But in fact, the more you avoid and retreat, the easier it is to miss and lose. If you like someone, you will unconsciously beautify the other person in your heart and think that the other person is very good and you don't deserve it at all. But you can think about whether there are really perfect people in the world. We like each other not necessarily because they are perfect, but because they are special and unique, so we don't need to deny ourselves, express ourselves bravely and win more opportunities for ourselves. If someone secretly hides you in their hearts, some traces will be exposed. As long as you look closely, you will find that you are completely different from ordinary people in his eyes. ?
if you don't know where to start, you can check some details on wechat. Now you might as well open your WeChat to see who you are at the top. It may be your family, your most important friend, or someone you secretly love. If you are in love or married, you can also put your partner's WeChat at the top, so you can click on WeChat to chat with him at any time. Otherwise, there is too much information and it is easy to sink to the bottom. After a long time, only search can find it. If it is a really important person, how can you let it sink? Only those who are dispensable will not attract our attention. Therefore, the person who secretly puts your WeChat on the top really puts you in his heart. He will pay attention to you at any time, reply to your information in time, and share it with you as soon as possible. Such people really put you at the top of their minds and put you in the most important position. ?
People who reply to your messages at any time may not really love you, but people who don't reply to your messages for a long time and don't explain why don't love you. If you really love someone, you won't make them worry, misunderstand or feel insecure, so even if you don't reply immediately, you will definitely explain the reason afterwards, because he is afraid that you will miss it. Only you really care about it, otherwise, it will not care about you anyway. The person who answers your message at any time is the one who really cares about you. He didn't even bother to return it. It just shows that you are not so important anymore. People who keep you in their hearts will always think of you and want to know how you are doing and how you are feeling. If your circle of friends is updated, he will know your dynamics and will naturally pay attention to it for the first time. If the circle of friends is not updated, or the setting is only displayed for three days, he will click on your circle of friends from time to time and give a thumbs-up to the picture on your cover, as if to say that I am coming to see you. In fact, these are obvious hints.
where a person's time and energy are, his heart is there. Those self-evident likes are hidden in some details. Careful observation can always find clues. No one can fail. Fall in love with any encouragement. This sentence tells us that love is not a person's performance. If you find someone secretly loves you, you must respond in time. If you act too cold and distant, the other person will easily shrink back. Just like Mr. Bingley in the novel, he didn't notice Jane Neijbert's concern and gave up. I don't love you enough, but I want to give myself dignity. Unresponsive love won't last long, even if the other person loves you again, he will love himself. I took the first ninety-nine steps to you. If you don't take the last step, it's for yourself. So, if you find someone paying attention to you and secretly admiring you, you might as well give him some response on your own initiative. Tell him if you like him, and let him give up as soon as possible if you don't like him. Being ambiguous will only hurt others and yourself.