In real life, it is often encountered that improper naming of children by their elders has brought psychological pressure and burden to the children from elementary school to work, resulting in their withdrawn and lack of self-motivation, and they are often used as jokes by classmates and colleagues. .
There is a boy named: Yu Gang (bad homophone - fish tank). When the parent of this elementary school boy asked me to change his child's name, he said that his classmates often laughed at his child and said he wanted to buy it. He was called "Fish" when he was a child, and he was often the object of entertainment by his classmates. Gradually, the child's temper became a bit strange, and he was a little afraid of talking to his classmates, which was completely contrary to his wishes when he was named.
It’s common to use homophones to name names. For example: Wu Yue is a homologue of "Five Mountains"; Pan Feng is a homologue of "Pan Feng". It means climbing the peak. These words with the same pronunciation and different shapes make people naturally associate them with the same pronunciation of meaningful words in the language as soon as they hear these names, making the content of the names richer.
Under normal circumstances, the surname and the given name are together, not separate. We must consider the homophony of the first name together with the surname. It is common sense for people to name their children with a complimentary meaning, or at least with a neutral homophone. For example: "Gao Jian" is a homophony of "Gao Jian", "Cheng Gang" is a homophony of "Cheng Gang", etc., all of which are very successful. The advantage of homophonic names is that they are implicit but not explicit, and the meaning is implicit, making people feel implicit and not clumsy. conventional.
Another way to use homophonic names is to "elegance". Some people did not have a big name when they were young, only a nickname. When I grew up, I felt that the nickname was unsightly, but I didn't want to change it too much, so I used homophony to find one or two more elegant homophones to replace the original name. For example: the nickname is "Shadow", and when he grows up, he is called "Yingzi".
Therefore, a good homophonic name can help you establish a correct outlook on life and goals, and can also improve your luck.
1. The influence of good name homophony on one’s destiny.
The use of homophonic pronunciation to choose names actually existed in our country a long time ago. For example, in the Ming and Qing Dynasties, Zhang Biao's character Yueqian was later changed to "Yueqian" because of the homophony; Zhao Ji's character Yunsong was changed to "Yunsong" because of the homophony; in particular, the famous writer Cao Xueqin even used the homophony to name "Yunsong". Famous master. In his book "A Dream of Red Mansions", he fully displayed his talents in this area. For example, he believed that life was originally "originally meant to sigh", so he took out four names of Yuanchun, Yingchun, Tanchun and Xichun. The first character of the four names when combined is the homophony of the four characters "originally meant to sigh". In addition, the Yinglian he created was a girl with a rough fate, who was very "pitying", so he named her Yinglian with a homophonic sound; Baoyu's partner Qin Zhong was a sentimental young man, and his name was also "emotional". homophonic.
In recent and contemporary times, more and more people are using homophonic names. For example, Lu Xun's childhood name was Zhang Shou, which is a homophone of "longevity"; it was also called Yushan, because it was a homophony of "umbrella", so he was ridiculed by his friends, so he changed his name to Henan, where "cai" still sounds close to "mountain". Another example is the contemporary politician Dong Biwu, whose name is a homophony of his original nickname "Bi Wu". Although most of the above examples are names changed with homophonic sounds, they often make the names derived from homophonic sounds more meaningful than the original names. Therefore, there is no lack of reference.
2. When using homophony to choose a name, it is best to use homophony to give a name to a surname, so that the role of homophony can be more prominent.
For example, a person with the surname Peng can name his child "You", and the names together are the homophony of "friend"; a person with the surname Sheng can name his child "Li", and the names together are the homophony of "victory". ; People with the surname Su can be named "Ji", and the matching names are the homophony of "Book"; in addition, if you want to have a three-character name, you can add other characters in or after the homophony of the name to make it a three-character name. For example, a person whose original name is "Peng You" can add the words "Liang", "Shan", "Chang", "Yi" and other words between the names to become Peng Liangyou, Peng Shanyou, Peng Changyou, Peng Yiyou, etc., which not only retains It not only understands the original meaning of "friend" which comes from the homophonic pronunciation, but also adds new content to "friend". At the same time, it can avoid duplication of names caused by too simple names; it has the effect of killing two birds with one stone.
Auspicious names
In simple terms, an auspicious name must have the following five characteristics:
1. It must have an auspicious meaning.
2. It must have auspicious glyphs.
3. There must be auspicious mathematics.
4. There must be an auspicious preference.
5. The word must have an auspicious pronunciation.
The word meaning of auspiciousness: the word meaning should be auspicious, and when combined, it should have a good meaning, or to entrust certain ideals, bestow certain wishes, or commemorate certain festivals, etc. Most parents (including scholars with high cultural levels) choose names like this.
Auspicious side: It is to add the five elements characteristics of "metal, wood, water, fire, and earth" to the side of the name to remedy the birth owner's horoscope defects. For example, if the horoscope lacks fire, add the word "fire" to the name. For example, if the Chinese character is short of water, add the character for water to the name. This method has been used since ancient times, especially in rural areas. When a child is born, he first asks a fortune teller to tell his fortune and choose a name. It depends on what is missing in his destiny. This method is effective when it comes to filling in a name, but it is not all about filling in what is missing. Sometimes what is missing cannot be filled in but what is not missing must be filled in. The secret of this can only be understood by a master of numerology. In a word, the auspicious preference should be determined according to the destiny of the native.
The math of auspiciousness: the number of strokes and structures of the surname and first name should be auspicious. This method was introduced from Japan in the early 1990s. In fact, Japan purchased raw materials from China and processed them into products. Counter-selling to China must be Chinese raw materials. This method has a certain effect and value. Nowadays, most professional naming companies and professional naming professionals mainly use this method. This method is relatively simple to learn and calculate, and there are now ready-made computer software available. However, this method is incomplete and flawed, and the name given by this method alone is of little use.
Auspicious glyph: The glyph of the name must be auspicious. This method is ignored by many well-known contemporary prognostics experts, especially professional naming companies and professional naming experts. However, this method is the most important. This method can only be understood by those who have a deep study of both prediction and Chinese characters. This method accounts for more than 80% of the good and bad fortune of a name, while the other four methods only account for 20%.
Auspicious pronunciation: the name should be pronounced smoothly and loudly, and the homophonic pronunciation should be auspicious.
So will everything be fine if you choose an auspicious name? No, we cannot over exaggerate the role of names. Names cannot turn things around. The role of names in destiny only accounts for a small part, but sometimes a small part can have a great effect or cause great harm. We must Pay attention to the role of names. The relationship between name and destiny is as follows:
A good name paired with a good destiny is like the icing on the cake.
A good name goes with a bad fate like help in the snow.
A bad name paired with a good destiny is like a fly in the ointment.
A bad name goes hand in hand with a bad fate.