Taboo of children's names
Taboo of children's names, everyone should pay close attention to things about names in life. Names have many functions and implications, and names also represent parents' wishes and expectations for their children, so everyone will know how to choose names. Here are some taboos of children's names. Taboos for naming children 1
1. Baby names should not use the same words as their parents
Parents should list the names of their elders (including parents, grandparents, grandparents) aside when naming, so that they can be perfectly avoided when applying words, which is also a kind of respect for elders.
Second, avoid using uncommon and complicated words when naming children
Many young and fashionable parents often choose some special uncommon or complicated words in order to pursue the same name and achieve unique and unique results. However, words like this are not only easy to be mispronounced and misspelled in the future, especially in kindergarten and primary school, and have certain difficulties in their interpersonal communication and later writing. Too many complicated characters have complicated structures and too many strokes, which is both troublesome and unsightly to write.
Not only do children feel troublesome and headache because of the difficulty in writing, but even adults also feel the inconvenience of writing. Moreover, words that are too obscure and complicated are not easy for others to know, and they are often easily called wrong, which does not play the proper role of names.
Third, the baby's name should not be homophonic. Words that sound indecent
Some people's names look elegant on the surface, but when they are read, they will have the same or similar pronunciation with other indecent or derogatory words, which will easily lead to ridicule and banter from others, and make children feel inferior and frustrated in the social process, which is not conducive to their future life development.
Fourth, children should not use the word around the mouth when naming
If the word around the mouth is used for naming, it will make people read and listen hard, and even read it wrong or hear it wrong. In this case, whether it is self-introduction or others calling, it will hinder the normal and good spread of names.
5. Don't use polyphonic words when naming a baby
If you use polyphonic words when naming a baby, it will make it difficult to pronounce the name accurately, and it will cause ambiguity and even misinterpretation. People don't know whether to pronounce this name or that one, which is especially easy to mispronounce, so it is not conducive to the spread of the name.
VI. Don't use ugly words, things or phenomena in naming
Don't use ugly words, things or phenomena in naming. It is disrespectful to people to use ugly words as names. For example, some animals such as pigs and dogs; Some unpleasant small animals such as rats and flies; Some unpleasant animals such as foxes; Some social phenomena, such as prisons and fences, cannot be used for naming.
seven, children should not use derogatory words in their names
The words used in naming must be beautiful in sound, meaning and form. Naming with derogatory words makes a positive symbol fail to play its due role in communication and does not meet the requirements of righteousness and beauty.
VIII. Avoid using male and female names when naming children
Avoid using male and female names when naming children, which means that boys' names are feminine and girls' names are masculine, and the sexes are often confused from the names. Boys' names should be strong in character and broad in temperament, while girls' names should be soft in character, elegant in temperament and delicate in style. Taboos for children's naming 2
First taboo, and "excessive" naming
Everything has its limits. It's also best not to go off the mark or overdo it. Naming is mostly to express ambition, desire, personality, etc., but many people in life have gone too far or gone too far in naming.
Usually there are two kinds of situations. One is "boasting" and exaggerating too much. Such as Li Weili, Guan Wanguo, He Neng, Wan Li Tiger, Yue Shanhe, etc. Second, excessive "self-modesty", even self-deprecating and self-abasing. Such as Wang Zhuo, Zhang Yu and Jiao Yu.
second taboo, the name should be gender-neutral
The name was originally used to facilitate people's communication, but many people in life have names that are neither fish nor fowl. No matter what the original intention is, this naming method of "no man or no woman" will objectively bring negative influence to interpersonal relations.
The natural attributes of both sexes are manifested in temperament and personality, so that women are mostly named with words that embody tenderness, beauty and virtue, while men are mostly named with words that embody vigor, broadmindedness and grandeur. But these do not mean denying the strong side of women and the weak side of men's hearts, but a general overall impression.
The name should be personalized, but moderate, and the gender difference should not be completely blurred, "neither male nor female", which is not realistic, harmful and useless, and should be suppressed and promoted.
the third taboo, when naming, avoid "following" great men and sages
Great men and sages are admirable, but this admiration does not have to be expressed by copying the names of celebrities. This kind of behavior itself is just a mechanical application, without creativity, and it also masks its original personality.
The fourth taboo, naming taboo "shallow" and "negative"
There are negative and languid words in the name, which may cause unexpected erosion and harm to the soul of the name owner, and will also affect others and society, so they should be avoided.
Names are superficial in meaning, lacking in self-restraint and artistic conception. When they first meet their names, they give people a very boring feeling, and then they lose the role they should play. For example, Wang Yi, Man Cang, Laixi, Dayou, Fugui, etc., such names are like unprocessed stones, and it is difficult to give people a sense of beauty. The name content is single and superficial, so it can't attract people's attention and gain people's favor, as dull as a glass of white water; Only by being rich in variety and increasing depth will the name not play its due role.
The fifth taboo and the naming taboo are old-fashioned.
Naming names according to "old conventions" and applying "common sayings" reflect backward values and aesthetic consciousness, which are all manifestations of "vulgarity". In real life, many people still name around Fushou Ankang, Yaozu Guangzong, Sangang Wuchang, such as Ma Jinbao, Chang Youde, Li Laifu, Zhang Zongli, Zhao Shouxian and so on. Taboos for children's naming 3
Avoid using obscure words and derogatory words
Names are tools for dealing with others. Try to choose words that everyone can recognize and read, not words that are too obscure. The so-called derogatory meaning is to say bad. Naming with derogatory words does not meet the requirements of the name "Yimei", for example, Xi Bei, Ji Que, Tang Shi Chi, Zhang Laiwo and so on.
Such names are all derogatory, so parents should never use such derogatory words when naming their children. However, from ancient times to the present, people named with derogatory words emerge in an endless stream, and we should pay attention to it.
Use vicious words
Whether it's vicious words such as vicious, evil, robbery, or vicious words such as despicable, cold, and abandonment, names with these words are often very unlucky, often lifeless, depressing, and then bring unnecessary mental stress, and even lead to some unnecessary disasters.
Using polyphonic homophonic words for naming
If you use polyphonic words, it will be difficult for strangers to learn the right name for the first time, and sometimes the name will even be ambiguous, causing others to misinterpret it, such as "Sissy" and "Long Line", which belong to polyphonic words, and different pronunciations will bring different meanings. Secondly, we also need to avoid using homophonic words when naming names. People are often sensitive and suspicious about these words, and that's how nicknames sometimes come from.
use simple negative words
if the meaning of a name is simple and lacks certain artistic conception and connotation, it often gives people a boring feeling and lacks aesthetic feeling. For example, Zhang San, Fugui, Wang Gang, Guodong, Li Jian and other names are all names that have not been processed and decorated. They are naturally like a cup of boiled water, simple, straightforward and tasteless, which cannot attract others' attention or gain people's favor.
It can be seen that parents should not choose a simple name for convenience. Secondly, parents should also pay attention to the fact that they should not use some negative and languid words, which will cause unexpected spiritual damage and corrosion to future life and bring all kinds of negative energy to people around them.