Introduction: Every era has different ideas about naming. For example, our grandparents can just name whatever is easy to make a living on, so all kinds of dog eggs were born. The names of our parents' generation were influenced by the current society. At that time, the country was recovering and developing its economy, and patriotic slogans could be seen everywhere, so they felt that louder names were the best, so various military and national names appeared, hoping that Your own children can make great achievements.
Now that the post-90s generation has become parents, their names are really trendy compared to those of their parents’ generation. Nowadays, people’s lives are stable and their quality of life has improved. Therefore, they are influenced by the plots of idol dramas. Start leaning towards some romantic and refreshing angles. The name they came up with was really nice, but it made the teacher worried!
Choosing a name is really not an easy task. It is even more difficult to find one or two words that are nice to hear, easy to remember, and have good meanings from the words you know. But because everyone experiences and thinks about the same thing, there are a few high-frequency names that appear in every era. The era of "Zi Han" gathering together has passed, and the same name of "Tu Chuo Zhi" has come again. The teacher expressed helplessness
People born in the 1960s have a different feeling for the army and the country, while their parents born after the 90s have a different feeling for the army and the country. "Zihan" also aroused strong interest, so various "zihan" appeared, such as Zihan, Zihan, Zihan and Zihan. These "zihan" with the same homophony but different characters started from Kindergartens are pouring in from all directions, which makes kindergarten teachers very worried. During class, it was obviously this "Zihan" who was called, but it was that "Zihan" who stood up. Sometimes there would even be many "Zihan" standing up at the same time, causing the whole class to burst into laughter.
Teachers often joke that there are not many "zihan" in that class. Although it is difficult to find the exact same "zihan", you can't just write the name and ask the students to get up and answer questions during class. After finally waiting for the "zihans" to graduate, the teachers thought they had a chance to breathe, but other duplicate names appeared again, catching the teachers off guard. Although "zihan" has disappeared, the repeated name is still there!
Many parents also find out after parent-teacher conferences that there are more than three or two names that have the same name. How come the name they finally thought of is the same as someone else’s? Therefore, few people are called "Zihan" anymore, and "Zihan" has become a relatively rare name. The craze for "zihan" just faded away. This makes people wonder why there are so many repeated names in every era?
In fact, the reason is very simple. From a macro perspective, the education and living environment received by parents of each generation are the same. Take the post-90s generation for example. When they were young, young girls had a dream of marrying a domineering president. Every boy would imagine that he was a knight who traveled around the world, walking around the world with a sword, and even felt that he He is a superman sent by aliens to save the earth. So when they name their children, similar names often appear.
Most girls take a certain novel as a guide when choosing a name, hoping that their children will live happily like in the novel. Of course, a prince charming is a must. There are also parents who have a good relationship and just put their names together. Speaking of which, this way of naming is not impossible, but everyone needs to think clearly about the disadvantages behind it. Disadvantages of naming based on both parents' names.
The names are mostly the same. By pinching the names of both parents together, you must express your sincere feelings for each other. The words connected in the middle become Xin, Mu, Lian or Ai, with a hit rate of 1/4. Is it really advisable to simply turn a child's name into a sign of sustenance between two people?
Everything in the world is changing, and so are feelings. Once the relationship breaks down, will the child be embarrassed with such a name? Will the children be reminded all the time how beautiful their previous lives were, creating a contrast?
In the most serious case, it may increase the harm to children caused by the broken relationship between parents.
And some names are really lacking in quality. For example, Wang Ai Wu? My father's surname is Wang and my mother's surname is Wu. With such a name, I'm afraid the child will not be able to hold his head up in school. It not only seriously affects the social interaction between children but also exposes family information. Such a name is really not very good. Choosing a name is a big deal, so don’t be perfunctory!
Names accompany children throughout their lives, so naming them is a very serious matter. The first word a child must learn is his or her name, so names are extremely important to children!
A warm and catchy name that accompanies a child throughout his life can help the child build self-confidence and cultivate a sense of belonging to the family. So when naming your child, don't do it on a whim, but make long-term plans for your child.
Do you know why your parents gave you this name?