Why did Lao Ding, who had a "cultural complex" in "Parents' Love", choose to marry Dehua in the end?

She is Jiang Dehua, also known as Jiang Dehua.

Because in most of the plot in the play, the character uses the name "Jiang Dehua", the following content is collectively referred to as Jiang Dehua. Dehua is a typical country woman with a simple and straightforward character. This role is played by Liu Lin.

From being silent at the beginning to becoming a "blockbuster" in the middle, she is a treasure and has contributed too much to the Jiang family and the Ding family. So, what did this carefree Jiang Dehua do, and why was he finally able to "accept a beautiful man" and let Lao Ding accept Dehua and become a member of Lao Ding's family?

With this question, we might as well understand Dehua’s character and narrative process, as well as the main reason why Dehua married Lao Ding. 01 What kind of person is Dehua?

In "Parental Love", the reason why Dehua appears is that the wife of her third brother Jiang Defu, also known as Anjie, needs someone to take care of her. The purpose of Dehua's appearance is very simple. She is the "adoptive mother" in this family and takes care of the children for her brother.

The relationship between Dehua and Anjie is not pleasant. When Dehua first appeared, Dehua was even afraid of Anjie because of his different attitude and knowledge. When Anjie spoke to Dehua, he used "Hey" to address Dehua. This move has proved that this "sister-in-law" relationship is destined to be full of twists and turns.

There is no doubt that for most of the rest of the story, Dehua and Anjie always had quarrels with each other.

Compared with Anjie, Dehua is better able to chat with Xiu'e, Lao Ding's sister-in-law. In the past, in the village, Tangfen could experience the harmonious coexistence between neighbors. No matter where the children went to eat, they would not go hungry. The relationship was like a family.

Sister-in-law Dehua and Xiu'e are no exception. In addition, the two have similar personalities. They are both straightforward and carefree. Therefore, Dehua can get along with Wang Xiu'e, even if they become sisters, they will not let them. People are so surprised.

Although the two are neighbors, Wang Xiu'e's affection for Dehua is not weak. In the process of getting along, Wang Xiu'e was able to help Dehua, comfort her and assist Dehua when she needed it. Although the two of them are very gossipy and love "looking for trouble," they are generally acceptable to the audience.

On the contrary, Anjie and Dehua often quarreled, but Anjie was at a disadvantage. It can be seen that although Dehua does not have much education, she is still very "handy" when it comes to disputes.

Judging from the early plot of "Parental Love", Dehua and Wang Xiu'e are more like sisters-in-law, but Anjie looks like an outsider. But in fact, the screenwriter set up the different personalities of Dehua and Anjie to create corresponding impacts, which is more in line with real life and highlights the uneven relationship between "aunt and sister-in-law". This is particularly brilliant and does not feel inconsistent. .

Based on the entire early plot of the drama, the audience can see that Dehua is a carefree person who believes in the image of "I will be good to others when others are good to me". Although there is an element of "likes gossip", it does not cross the line or go too far. This kind of character definitely makes the audience feel too honest.

Simple, kind, and understanding of certain principles, this is the Jiang Dehua we are familiar with. 02 Most of De Hua’s Life

Most of De Hua’s life was not peaceful. In the original setting, De Hua was a widowed woman, and her life in her hometown was not satisfactory.

When she came to her brother's side, she became an important person in taking care of the Jiang family's children. Her hard-working and uncomplaining appearance made everyone admire Liu Lin's acting skills. In the process of getting along with Anjie, Dehua inevitably had conflicts with Anjie, and even had a serious quarrel at one time. But the two of them have the same goal, which is to take care of the children, so no matter how much they argue, they can still get by.

In the process of taking care of his children, Dehua did not put "lifelong events" first. It wasn't until Lao Ding came to the island and Dehua learned that Xiu'e's sister-in-law passed away that her life changed drastically.

You must know that the "love line" between Dehua and Lao Ding was entangled in various ways, and they came together after many twists and turns.

After gaining a place in Lao Ding’s family, Dehua continued to contribute to Lao Ding’s children even though she was a stepmother. It can be said that although Dehua married Lao Ding, she still continued to serve as the "adoptive mother". Not only did she take care of Lao Ding's children, but Dehua also took good care of Lao Ding's grandchildren. .

How seriously does Dehua take care of his grandchildren? We can see it through Yafei’s lines.

When Jiang Yafei reprimanded the sons of Lao Ding’s family, she mentioned Dehua’s bitter history of taking care of his grandchildren. Dehua once broke his arm, but because there was no one to take care of Lao Ding's grandchildren, he forced himself to take care of the children with bandages on them.

Basically, all the grandchildren of Lao Ding’s family were brought up by Dehua, just like Dehua took care of the children of his third brother and sister-in-law. Even though they are not his biological children, Dehua takes better care of his children than his biological children.

Jiang Dehua is not a "child-rearing machine", but he has no complaints in the process of taking care of these children. It can be said that there is merit and hard work.

This is most of Jiang Dehua's life. 03 The "main reason" for being able to marry Lao Ding

Let's talk about the process of Dehua marrying Lao Ding and "getting a beautiful man back".

When Lao Ding came to the island with his young son, Dehua's inner feelings for Lao Ding had already sprouted and even grown into a towering tree. This is why, although Dehua has little relationship with Lao Ding, he works hard for Lao Ding's family on the grounds that "Sister-in-law Xiu'e is good to him and he has to take care of Lao Ding's family."

In Dehua's heart, Lao Ding has become his favorite.

But Lao Ding has a "cultural complex". He hopes to find a cultured and knowledgeable woman to be his wife, not someone like Dehua. Therefore, Dehua is not Lao Ding’s “first choice” for his wife. But Lao Ding's emotional line was full of twists and turns. First, Ge Meixia became a teacher, but failed because she was "the daughter of a fisherman".

The two were assisted by Dr. Wu, and even Lao Ding did not expect that this woman had concealed a secret. When this secret was revealed, Dr. Wu's attitude towards Lao Ding's family had already made Lao Ding shy away.

The main reason why De Hua was able to marry Lao Ding was, first, De Hua's silent devotion to Lao Ding without asking for anything in return. After Lao Ding came to the island, Dehua helped Lao Ding in various ways, including doing all the laundry and cooking. Even when Lao Ding has a "partner", Dehua still uses various excuses to continue to help Lao Ding's house.

No matter who you are, this kind of dedication without asking for anything in return will be impressed. After all, human hearts are made of flesh.

So what is the second one? There is no doubt that Lao Ding wants to find an educated woman like "Anjie", but the successive blows have made Lao Ding "unbearable to be frightened." Especially Dr. Wu's attitude and actions, as well as the scratches on Old Ding's face, made him understand what was best.

Jiang Dehua is the best person.

Both of these reasons made Lao Ding have the idea of ??"marrying" Jiang Dehua. At the same time, Jiang Dehua's efforts got her the blessings she deserved. When Lao Ding said it himself, he asked her to marry him. Entering Lao Ding's house, he finally "went home with a beautiful man." 04 Switching between carelessness and emotional entanglements

In the early days, Jiang Dehua was a carefree country woman, but she conquered the audience with her simplicity and kindness.

Yes, in the early plots, Jiang Dehua had various bad flaws, such as "loving to eavesdrop on people's speech", "arguing with his sister-in-law", etc., but this character is taking care of For the sake of the children, there is a great contribution.