Today’s children are blessed with great blessings. From the beginning of pregnancy preparation, it takes the whole family to do everything. Prenatal check-ups, dietary supplements, prenatal education, and after birth should also be combined with scientific feeding methods and traditional customs. The elderly should take turns to take care of the baby, and there should be a professional confinement nanny to take care of the baby, for fear that something might happen to the baby.
It's a bit far, let's talk about the name. Choosing a name is even more important! Which family hasn't held several family meetings and family expansion meetings over the name of their child? Only after the unanimous vote is approved can the child be registered. The moment I put pen to paper, it seems that the child's life has been condensed.
Probably before the child is born, the family begins to consider how to give the child a good name that sounds good, is catchy, has a beautiful meaning, and will bring blessings to the child throughout his life.
For those who have chosen the name themselves, they also hope to be recognized by professionals, or to make it more perfect. After all, it is the most commonly used thing that children will wear for a lifetime and be called countless times every day.
East Asians worship names. Dream Pillow Tapir wrote in "Onmyoji", "The shortest curse in the world is the name." In Hayao Miyazaki's "Spirited Away", Granny Yu took Chihiro's name away, leaving only "Qian" The word is just to make Qianxun forget her name and become a slave forever. Different names represent different identities and destinies. When a person gets a name, he also gets connections and bonds with everything in the world.
A name is often the first impression a person gives. When you see a name that smiles sweetly and looks forward to it, you will feel a good impression in your heart without even meeting the person; He has a certain arrogant air about him, and it seems that he has an extraordinary background and a well-educated family background. It is best for the name to be consistent with the child's numerology, to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, to ensure the child's stability throughout his life, and to have a noble person to help him at critical moments.
When it comes to the knowledge and function of names, various schools in ancient and modern times, both at home and abroad, have complete theories, which cannot be explained in just a few words. Let’s use a short story to briefly describe it.
Miao Xiaopang, as the name suggests, has a red root and is white and plump. Two years ago, I was blessed with a son. He is smart and cute, and the whole family loves him very much. However, my son is two years old, but he has never spoken. There were no problems with vocalization and various body expressions. I went to the hospital for a half-day checkup and found everything was normal, but this naughty baby just refused to speak. The whole family is anxious, but it’s useless to be anxious. The adults are anxious and the children are not anxious. They still babbling, drawing, and playing the game of “I draw and you guess” with the adults.
One day, Little Compass was a guest at a friend's house. It happened that the host was also a good friend of Miao Xiaopang, so he specially asked Miao Xiaopang to accompany him.
People at the table were eating, drinking, and chatting happily. After three rounds of wine and five flavors of food, since Xiao Luopan is here, it is natural that there will be a lot of anecdotes, easy to understand and Taoism, and everyone is knowledgeable in both small and medium-sized situations. Everyone had a good time chatting, and also talked about anecdotes around them, hoping that the little compass could give a new interpretation from the perspective of Feng Shui. Miao Xiaopang listened with curiosity and admiration, and couldn't help but talk about his family affairs.
In fact, as soon as the child was born, Miao Xiaopang had the little compass check the eight characters, and there was no sign of speech lag. So what went wrong later? Little Compass asked Miao Xiaopang to write out the child's name carefully, "Miao Huanyu". When Little Compass saw the name, he had a plan in mind.
The Miao Huan language, Huan means, the wooden markers standing next to the official offices should have the image of a Chinese watch. In addition, the word "Huan" means wood plus Gen, which means an eternal tree, which means long-lasting. The speaker means speaking. Those who speak Huan speak on behalf of the officials and heaven. The long-lasting words must be expressed by things. The words of the eternal tree are long-lasting. However, the so-called great sound and the sound of the sound must be delayed.
Everyone has realized something, and Miao Xiaopang is even more convinced. I don’t want my children to be rich, I just want my children to live a peaceful life. Only after becoming parents can I know the true meaning of happiness.
Little Compass made some calculations, and a name flashed through his mind. The child should be called "Chen Yu". Chen is the imperial palace. Yu Zhe, beautiful jade. Taking advantage of the beautiful jade in the palace, I wish my son to enter the palace and live in the palace.
It is said that after the name was changed, the child suddenly became enlightened. He talked all day long and wanted to pour out all the words he had accumulated before.