2. Children and grandchildren have their own blessings, so don't be a horse and cow for them.
3. Independent personality, diligence and thrift, patience in everything, continuous learning, integrity and dedication.
Take care of your own door and your family. Parents educate their children and wives to warn their husbands and guide their wives, and form a good moral trend of advocating clean government, being proud of honesty and being ashamed of greed.
4. Reading ancient books is exegetical; Poetry is based on tone; Raising relatives is based on winning the favor; Health care is based on less anger; Standing on the principle of not lying; Governing the family is based on not starting; The official is based on not asking for money; March is based on not disturbing the people.
5. The word "heirloom" means reading and ploughing, and the word "prosperity" means thrift and diligence.
Reading ancient books is based on exegesis; Poetry is based on tone; Raising relatives is based on winning the favor; Health care is based on less anger; Standing on the principle of not lying; Governing the family is based on not starting; The official is based on not asking for money; March is based on not disturbing the people.
6. Having a family, baking is like treasure, black sheep, money is like grass.
7. Always think about tomorrow, so don't wait to think about it all the time.
8. Don't look up to others, even though they are humble, they can do their best.
9. The first abstinence is (late); Second, abstain from laziness; Three precepts of luxury; Under the temptation is proud. It is necessary to observe under the temptation and observe four rules: one is to study hard; Second, it is appropriate to respect teachers; Sanyi loves the public; Four should eat carefully.
1. Students should be diligent in hand, brain and reading.
11. Don't be suspicious, don't listen to dissension, don't be selfish, and don't be selfish.
12. When marching and fighting, soldiers are most afraid of arrogance, and arrogant soldiers will fail; Children are also most afraid of being spoiled. If they are spoiled, there must be problems.
13. Honor the elderly and strictly teach future generations; Respect the old and love the young, and be kind to Mu.
14. filial piety should be done, and loyalty and courage show sincerity; Brothers help each other, and compassion knows no boundaries.
15. Don't act on the small evil, and don't act on the small good.
16. I see that there is love without teaching in the world. If you can't, you should eat and drink, do whatever you want, and you should refrain from turning over prizes. You should laugh and be knowledgeable, which is called the law.
Be honest in teaching, and don't take "ten prohibitions" as an example; Be open-minded and always think of the next generation. The following are the aphorisms of the party's work style and clean government collected for your reference only!
17. My family has been eating Song Lu for more than 3 years. Don't forget that my descendants are not officials.
18. Innocent jade can be a national instrument; The son of filial piety can be a national trust.
19. I'm only engaged in reading today, so don't lightly donate your youth.
2. Wei Zu knew how to move, and he was born in other provinces. If you want to repay the virtue, you will be very confused.
21. Advocate thrift, save glory and waste shame.
22. There are roads and diligence in Shushan, and learning the sea is endless.
Reading ancient books is based on exegesis; Poetry is based on tone; Raising relatives is based on winning the favor; Health care is based on less anger; Standing on the principle of not lying; Governing the family is based on not starting; The official is based on not asking for money; March is based on not disturbing the people.
23. Teenagers don't know how to study hard, and old people regret studying late.
24. Supporting parents is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, which has been passed down from generation to generation since I started.
Daughter-in-law should treat sex like water, and be contented with sex like water, which means to support the whole family and be pleasant. Being a happy star of a family, showing filial piety to parents, neutralizing sisters-in-law, and showing kindness to children can help a husband become virtuous. So that her husband can serve the society, stand on the street and make a name for himself. Not only running a family, but also working in society, you can also abide by your duties and make contributions. Only when you have a long family life can you enjoy a long life.
25. The deceased son Sun Yicai, my descendants are innocent.
26. There are no virtuous fathers and brothers in life, and no strict teachers and friends outside, but few people can succeed.
27. Everyone is rich because of Lu, and I am poor because of the official. The children left behind are innocent ears.
28. Those who are close to the sages are far from the villains; Pay attention to etiquette and honesty.
Good family style and good family training have a great influence on a person's good cultivation. Here are the aphorisms about good family style and good family training collected for everyone. I hope you like them!
29. Being mean, getting married, and being extravagant and dissolute is a disgrace.
3. Don't take ill-gotten gains when you see them, but take them when they are reasonable.
31. Every family has its own difficulties in chanting scriptures, and only happiness can make sense.
32. It's never too late to learn to lie in a coffin.
One abstinence is (late); Second, abstain from laziness; Three precepts of luxury; Under the temptation is proud. It is necessary to observe under the temptation and observe four rules: one is to study hard; Second, it is appropriate to respect teachers; Sanyi loves the public; Four should eat carefully.
33. Gold is not a treasure book, and everything is empty.
34. Yuan's World Loyalty Festival in the Han Dynasty, my heart is still good, so you should learn from it and admonish yourself from time to time.
35. Those who accumulate widely will leave their descendants with harm; Those who have a lot of debauchery will lose their lives with an axe.
36. Women who are extravagant are defeated; Children who are arrogant are defeated; Brothers who disagree are defeated; Those who insult the teacher and slow down the guests are defeated.
37. Be filial first, and be respectful next; Dedicate yourself to hard work in order to do good deeds.
38. If you are not indifferent, you will have no ambition, and if you are not quiet, you will not be far away.
39. When the descendants of Fang are named, the class generation should be in the middle and the word behind, and there should be no disorder.
4. Anyone who doesn't love himself really lacks the qualification to be a parent.
family style, family precepts and aphorisms
1. The old man is like the earth, bearing everything silently, embracing everything and educating everything. Old people are generous, and the family will be blessed.
2. If the elderly love things, the children and grandchildren of the family will prosper. If the old man is greedy, he will eat up all the blessings of his family.
3. Feeling love has no shelf (price): don't elevate your status and don't treat love as a business. Understand each other's benefits and admire each other's benefits; Understand each other's difficulties and forgive each other's mistakes. If the other party has, it can enlighten and guide the other party to change.
4. Five steps to educate children: nurture and teach leaders, but don't control them. The key is to cultivate morality and educate morality well.
5. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the family all come from foreign surnames and go to the same home, just like mother and daughter.
6. Different family roles have different ways of paying attention. Men have no ambition, and their families are not prosperous. Women are not soft, drive money away. Women's temperament should be soft as water, so that they can be prosperous and expensive, and money and luck will naturally follow; If a woman's temperament is tough and fierce, she will be stubborn and extreme, and she will be vindictive and resentful. If she gnashes her teeth and stares, she will only hurt others and waste herself, and her husband will lose her looks and lose her face.
Zhijie couples are grateful to each other and never complain. Italian couples are happy. The husband leads the wife to become a teacher, and the wife helps the husband to become a virtue. They will never be angry. The couple in the inner world are etiquette couples, so they will govern each other! Couples in the physical world are abusive couples who disturb their lives.
7. There are problems at home, first of all, there are loopholes in the behavior of the elderly. First, we don't keep our duty, and second, we go too far.
8. If there are problems at home, the old people should be ashamed: my old people didn't do well, and they were wicked and didn't educate their families well.
9. Sexual (natural) fit. Is the real harmony between husband and wife.
1. Whether a child is healthy or not has a great relationship with his mother, and whether he is wise or not has a great relationship with his father. Whether he is solemn or not depends on whether his parents always do things with happy love.
11. Children belong to themselves, society and the world. If a child can't teach well, it will affect his family, society and the world. It is a great responsibility to educate children well.
Reading ancient books is based on exegesis; Poetry is based on tone; Raising relatives is based on winning the favor; Health care is based on less anger; Standing on the principle of not lying; Governing the family is based on not starting; The official is based on not asking for money; March is based on not disturbing the people.
12. Promote the merits and demerits of the ancestors of the elderly to their children, set an example of filial piety by respecting the elderly, and enlighten future generations by thanking their ancestors for their kindness.
13. Daughter-in-law means to calm down the discord of a family, to be an auspicious messenger of a harmonious family, to be equal and kind to everyone, and to be blessed by the whole family.
14. Daughter-in-law should be like water. If she is like water, she should be contented and happy, which means taking root, supporting the whole family and being pleasant. Being a happy star of a family, showing filial piety to parents, neutralizing sisters-in-law, and showing kindness to children can help a husband become virtuous. So that her husband can serve the society, stand on the street and make a name for himself. Not only running a family, but also working in society, you can also abide by your duties and make contributions. Only when you have a long family life can you enjoy a long life.
15. To be a husband, we should settle down from the "three cardinal guides", which refer to the sexual guide, the mental guide and the physical guide; Immortality (not losing temper) is the key to sex; Can't afford selfish desires; No bad habits as the key link. Anger is sexual collapse; Swearing is the heart; Beating people is a body fall. "Gang" means leading, and women must be led on the road, showing filial piety to their parents-in-law, neutralizing sisters-in-law, and showing kindness to their children.
16. To be a wife, you must first settle down from the "three obedience" to help your husband become a virtue. "Three obedience" means that nature obeys heaven, mind obeys reason and body obeys reason. What is "obeying reason"? What should be done, do it yourself. It is my duty to be filial to my parents-in-law, to be gentle with my sister-in-law and to teach my children. Not afraid of hardships, not afraid of difficulties. Don't get angry, complain or regret after doing it. "follow the truth from the heart": it refers to getting rid of the selfishness of fighting for greed and disturbing. All I think about is how to repay the kindness of the elderly. How to live in harmony and how to teach children? With the benefits of the whole family in mind, everything you do will naturally be in harmony everywhere. "Nature follows nature": we should give priority to immobile nature, but also eliminate temperament and perfect nature, so as to carry things with virtue.
17. As the saying goes, everything prospers at home. As small as the prosperity of the country, the peace of society, the happiness of personal life, the prosperity of career and the health of the body all depend on a harmonious family.
18. Always talk about your daughter-in-law's strengths and appreciate her parents' education. If the daughter-in-law is at fault, the mother-in-law will come over quickly, be tolerant first, and then teach her behind her back. Never quarrel with her, and the daughter-in-law will naturally be grateful.
19. True love is open-minded: don't doubt each other.
2. Respect the old in the world and love the young in the world. Use gratitude to perfect everything and make the family harmonious.
Abide by the Party's discipline and national laws and regulations, and take the lead in implementing the relevant provisions on honesty and self-discipline of leading cadres. Manage the children of family members and the staff around them, and consciously accept the supervision of the masses.
21. A weak husband is also called a coward and cannot support his family. Only Nuo Nuo, who talks but doesn't act, dares not take responsibility, pushes women to the front and listens to women's instructions.
22. If it is out of line, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be at odds, which will lead to the separation of housework, the disintegration of the family and the stagnation of the family.
23. Like water, it follows the circle and is square, with five colors and five flavors, and the original substance is always the same. Happy-go-lucky, rich with poverty, can be high or low, such as water can raise all things, without competing with all things, in the lowest place, low down, often admit that it is not, is for women's duty.
24. Men belong to Yang, and Yang means selflessness. Selflessness means expressing love for a family.
25. Men should be "rigid". It wasn't just hitting and swearing, but the man who hit and swore was an incompetent man.
26. Men are the pillars of a family. They should be sensible and ambitious, and take care of their wives.
27. Men have three husbands: weak husbands and violent husbands.
28. Equality between men and women means equality in power and enjoyment. Etiquette can never be equal in duty.
29. Every family should imagine that its own daughter is married into this family, and the housewife should love her daughter-in-law as much as her own daughter. If not, the daughter-in-law will treat her future daughter-in-law in the same way, causing a vicious circle.
3. Virtue for the elderly is the best feng shui, the highest feng shui.
31. Old people should preach family style, parents should demonstrate family style, husband and wife should steer family style, children should inherit family style, grandchildren should follow family style, and brothers and sisters should compete with family style.
32. Old people are like dust, gentle and without anger. They talk less, don't nag, and don't talk about the length of their families. They must look after each other's benefits when they take the lead, and they have to travel all over the house.
33. The old man holds up the blessings of a family and creates a good fortune for a family. Fude is stronger from generation to generation, and Fuyao is prosperous from generation to generation; Children and grandchildren are stronger than you, which means you have virtue, otherwise you have no virtue.
34. The old man is the star of the family, with virtue as the root. "Virtue" is the responsibility of a family and the responsibility of a peaceful family.
35. How can the elderly make a family prosperous? Is to do more good deeds and accumulate more virtuous deeds. On the one hand, Xiu De can be exonerated; on the other hand, he can cultivate morality for his children and protect them.
36. Husband and wife are the lucky stars of the family, with love as the root.
37. Couples have conflicts. First, they violate the grace given by heaven and earth; The second is to violate the feelings given by parents; Third, it violates the karma of life's core monuments's duty to have more children and rob more people. If you violate the karma of life's duty, life will lose the dependence of positive reward. The division of husband and wife is the division of life.
38. There are three reasons for the combination of husband and wife: first, to take care of each other and care for each other in life; Second, it is to have children and carry on the family line, leaving a good root for the world; Third, it is to better care for and take care of both parents, so that the elderly can feel at ease.
39. Husband and wife's way, that is, Yin and Yang's way, is that a husband is righteous and a woman is obedient, and Yin and Yang are harmonious, and they can't resist each other. Not only do they not get sick, they don't die young. You can still have a good family, and your children will flourish. Therefore, men should understand women's ways, and women should understand men's ways, so that families can be happy together.
One abstinence is (late); Second, abstain from laziness; Three precepts of luxury; Under the temptation is proud. It is necessary to observe under the temptation and observe four rules: one is to study hard; Second, it is appropriate to respect teachers; Sanyi loves the public; Four should eat carefully.
4. Taoism is used in kindness and righteousness, and you can serve life if you get along with Taoism.
41. Morality is the law of heaven and earth, and duty is the law of individuals. If we violate the law, people will be in disaster.
42. As a daughter-in-law, be reasonable: in-laws are a real blessing. Don't want the old man, hate the old man, and refuse to be filial to the old man means that you don't want a blessing, and there will be no blessing.
43. A wife must love her in-laws if she loves her husband. Do you understand