A name is a symbol, and it is also full of parents’ longing and expectations for their children, so it must withstand careful consideration in terms of semantics. Below I have compiled for you what to pay attention to when naming your child. Welcome to read. The importance of naming your child
Traditional theory
My baby’s grandmother said that the baby was born in October and lacked wood in the five elements, so he must choose a name with “wood” in it. After her daughter was born, grandma calculated based on the time. It was not enough to have wooden characters, and there had to be a limit on the number of strokes. So all the things I had thought about before were cancelled, and I had to start over.
The word "ying" was chosen because her father and I thought it sounded good, so we decided on the word "ying" first. Since the character in the middle has a limited number of strokes, the character "Ke" was chosen with no choice.
Pay attention to the real meaning
The baby’s name contains the word “Hao” because his father thinks this word is more majestic and suitable for a man. It turned out that we wanted to give Ran Ran a single name? Chen Hao, but this name was too common and there were too many duplications. Later, I opened the dictionary and suddenly saw the word "Ran". I thought this word was very good. We hope that Ran Ran's childhood will be as prosperous as the rising sun, and his career will be as prosperous as the noon sun in adulthood, even in old age. It can also be as peaceful and carefree as the sunset. Therefore, we added another word "Ran".
Family lineage
Xiangguang’s mother: Because our family has a strict upbringing and the elders make the decision, my baby’s name was given by my grandfather. Before the baby was born, the baby's father and I also thought of a few names. But after the baby was born, seeing grandpa's happy face, we felt embarrassed to deprive him of his elders' privileges. So we asked grandpa to name it, and he named it based on seniority. "Guang" is arranged according to seniority, and the last character in the baby's generation is "Guang".
When some people choose a name for their baby, they have to give it to others for testing. I still don’t believe this. The child's personality should be related to prenatal education and family atmosphere. How could it be related to the name?
All things considered
My baby's name was calculated by someone, and the middle character should be 9 Drawing, the last word requires 16 drawings, it’s all done after calculation. The influence of the name is potential and cannot be explained clearly, but it is correct to consider it all, and maybe there is some truth to it?
There is a reason for the name "Yue". My surname is Wang, and my nickname is Xingxing. My father’s name contains the character “yu”, so I gave my daughter the character “yue”, so that the whole family of three hangs in the sky.
The child’s father picked up the word “曈曈”” with great difficulty after flipping through the collection of poems every day. The child's father asked me: "Hey, is this character "戈" made of 16 strokes? I counted exactly 16 strokes, so I decided to do it. But because very few people recognize the character "曈" next to the character "日", and I only recognized this character when I named my daughter this name, I often have to emphasize to others: "?" comes next to the character "日", not the character "目". ?
? People are just like their names? Unscientific
The reason why people attach so much importance to names is because names are codes that accompany their lives. In the history of our country, there are many anecdotes about how names have soared into the sky, were triumphant or were not reused, and suffered repeated setbacks. Some are even close to absurd, but this also reflects the importance of names to a certain extent.
Let me tell you a story first. In the 22nd year of Yongle, Sun Rigong ranked first in the palace examination, and Xing Kuan ranked second. However, when the results were released, Xing Kuan became the top pick and Sun Rigong ranked third. It turned out that the two characters "Ri" and "Gong" together happened to be the character "Bao". Emperor Yongle thought it was ominous, so he ranked third. Xing Kuan's name can be regarded as "penalty and peace", which will win the hearts of the people, so Xing Kuan replaced Sun Rigong as the number one scholar.
However, it is not absolute that a person lives up to his name. Although the homophonic meanings of some people's names are unknown, there are also "successful people" in the eyes of the world.
How much influence does a person’s name have on his life? Due to the existence of many potential and accidental factors, it is estimated that no one can give an exact answer to this question. So how much influence does a name have on the development of a child's personality? There is currently no relevant research that can prove that a person's name affects his or her personality. Personality is related to genetic factors, growth environment and education. The growing environment and education are the most important factors in determining a child's personality, and have little to do with the name. For example, a child named Jing may have a lively and active personality.
What should I choose when choosing a name? Rhythm?
Although the quality of the name cannot directly determine the success of the child in life, no matter which method is used to name the baby, you should pay attention to it when naming it. The meaning is auspicious and the pronunciation is loud, making people think of it with jingle rings and lingering sounds.
The cadence means that when the name is read in succession, the tones are richer. For example, "Zhang Xiaohang" the first character is a flat tone, the second character is a turning tone, and the third character is rising. This way, it will sound louder to people. With a sense of ups and downs. Tips for naming children
(1) Parents expect their children to be moral people
The beauty of the soul is more important than the handsome appearance. Parents often understand this truth. Many Chinese characters contain moral requirements, such as amiable, benevolent, rong, de, xuan, virtuous, good, ethical, upright, pure, righteous, sincere, straightforward, and 道. But this does not mean that just adding a word to the surname will make it a good name. Parents must consider how the surname and first name match.
(2) Expect your children to be knowledgeable and knowledgeable
As parents, of course, you also hope that your children will excel academically. It is best to have a university education, have food and clothing, and have a stable job. . So they may be interested in these beautiful words that represent intelligence, wisdom, and talent, such as: Ying, Ling, Rui, Rui, Zhe, Hui, Dun, Di, Ming, Xiao, Xian, Xi, Xi, Wei, Xue, Si , enlightenment, analysis, writing, calligraphy, diligence, etc.
(3) I hope that my child will be healthy and handsome.
If you are a father or mother, you will want your child to be healthy and handsome. The following words mean health and beauty such as: handsome, majestic, British, strong, strong, brilliant, tall, handsome, beautiful, Wei, Wu, Xiong, Wei, pine, cypress, mountain, stone, Chan, Juan, Jiao , sister-in-law, Ting, Zi, Mei, Wan, Li, Wu, Mei, Qian, Lan, etc.
(4) Expecting children to live a prosperous life and have a successful career
It is human nature to pursue fame and fortune, and this will also be reflected when parents name their children. In daily life, we will meet many people with such names. The following words in the name can express this hope: Da, Yao, Xing, Rong, Hua, Wang, Ying, Feng, Yu, Chang, Sheng, etc.
(5) Hope that their children will live a prosperous and peaceful life
Some parents hope that their children will live a peaceful and peaceful life. Plain nature is not mediocrity or ordinary. Some parents will choose some of the most common words to express their hearts, such as, peaceful, quiet, smooth, connected, calm, peaceful, natural, peaceful, calm, harmonious, healthy, etc.
(6) Expect their children to be self-reliant, self-reliant, and successful
Many parents hope that their children will be self-reliant, hard-working, perseverant, and strong-willed in the future, so they like to use Some masculine names are given to children, such as Yi, Du, Gang, Qiang, Heng, Tough, Constant, Firm, Power, Decision, Determination, Li, Zhu, Zhi, Yi, Zi, etc. Although some parents also name girls Such names, but basically these names are exclusive to boys. Taboos in naming children
1. Naming your baby? Too much?
? Over the top? Refers to over the top? The proportion is too large and exceeds the appropriate degree. There are two common situations in which babies are over-named:
First, they are over-exaggerated and brag, which results in poor results. For example, Chen Wance, Bu Wanke, Guan Wandi, Wan Guoquan, Li Wanshou, etc.
These "ten thousand" words obviously over-exaggerate one's own deeds and power, and regard oneself as so magical and powerful.
The second is excessive self-effacement, resulting in self-abasement and self-deprecation. For example, Mo Wo Yu, the name sounds like competing with others to be stupid. No one can catch up with others who are stupid. They pretend to be stupid when they are not stupid. This results in excessive self-effacement. Therefore, whether it is boasting or deprecating oneself, Self-deprecation is abnormal and excessive behavior is not advisable.
2. Don’t give your baby tongue twister names
Some names are difficult to pronounce and sound. If you don’t do it well, you may mispronounce or hear them incorrectly. The reason is that the wording used in the name is difficult to pronounce, almost becoming a "tongue twister". Such as Sun Zhouqiu, Jin Jingqing, Zhang Changshang, Jiang Jiaqiang, Fu Zhufu, Shen Jiji, etc. This kind of name is difficult to pronounce. There are mainly the following situations. Some use two letters with the same rhyme, such as Jinjing, and some use two letters with the same rhyme, such as Zhouqiu. There are also three characters with the same rhyme, such as Zhang Changshang. Therefore, the double tones and overlapping rhymes are called Cuiji.
3. Don’t name your baby in traditional Chinese characters
Traditional Chinese characters refer to characters with multiple strokes and complex structures. Such characters are troublesome to write and look ugly. Therefore, too many complex characters in a name will cause an imbalance between black and white, making people feel depressed. ?Difficult? characters refer to characters that are difficult to recognize and read, and are also characters that are not commonly used. Most people neither recognize nor pronounce such words, nor do they understand their meaning.
There are two situations in naming the word "Fan Nan":
One is because the word has a narrow meaning and is not used by civilians. It is not common or commonly used, so it became Traditional Chinese characters that most people don’t recognize. For example, Wang Geyi, "簃" is often used as the name of a study; Xu Baoluan, "娄" is a kind of horse in ancient times; Wu Tingqiu, "璆" is a kind of beautiful jade. Naming someone with such a character is likely to show that one is literate.