Parenting is not an easy matter. It involves every aspect from the birth to the growth of a child. One of the things that I have to pay attention to now is the name.
In the previous era, everyone’s names were relatively random. With names like Gou Sheng, Cui Hua, and Ti Niu, I felt that the children would know how to name them. It's easier to make a living, but in this era if you don't choose a good name, you will definitely be laughed at by others. Choosing a child's name with culture and quality will also attract the envy of others. A good name is not only an art, but also a science.
Many parents also rack their brains to give their babies a good name. Because the name will accompany the child throughout his life, he must be careful when choosing it. The name I chose was intended to be loud but not vulgar. I hoped it would sound particularly cultured, preferably with a hint of ink.
There is a five-year-old child in our area who is constantly worried about his parents because of the name issue. He even cried and asked his parents to change his name to his mother’s surname. So what is the reason? Woolen cloth? What kind of name could make a five-year-old cry so much?
At the Luquan City Public Security Bureau. The household registration police officer had just arrived at work when he saw a couple hurriedly bringing their children to the Public Security Bureau. The child's eyes are red and swollen from crying.
Seeing this scene, the police quickly brought the family of three into the house. The mother of the child said that she hopes to change her child's surname. He said that the child has been in a daze these days. He often cries and makes trouble with his family. He doesn't want to take his father's surname, so he wants to change his surname. The parents were so troubled by him that they had no choice but to come to the police for help.
In the end, with the help of the police, the little boy got his mother's surname as he wished. So what is the surname of the child's father? What makes the boy so sad?
It turns out that the child's father's surname is "Gou" and the child's mother's surname is Li. The little boy also had the same gender as his father and was named Gou Jingcheng. When I was a child, I was ignorant and didn't show how much I disliked this profession. But now that my child is five years old, it's time to go to kindergarten. In the kindergarten, the children give him a nickname, and many people call him "puppy" , "Doucheng" and even some people imitate the sounds of animals to joke with him.
Although the childish words are innocent, this has left a deep shadow in the heart of the five-year-old child. She felt that the children in the kindergarten were scolding him, so she asked her parents to change his last name. Her father was anxious at that time: It's just a name, they can call it if they want, don't argue with them, if it doesn't work, just give it to you. "Gou Shaoli" means that the dog pays little attention to us. When my son heard this name, he could breathe a sigh of relief. But the mother did not agree. In order to avoid disputes, the son finally took his mother's surname and called him "Li Fengshun"
In fact, there are still many such weird surnames. For example, the surname is Hei. Is it possible to call him Black Cat Sheriff? ? Surnames such as poisonous, fat, strange, sticky, etc. all make parents scratch their heads. The surname that makes people laugh or cry the most is Cao. It really doesn't sound good no matter what name you give it.
You must know that a child's name will accompany the child throughout his life. Although it is indeed just a code name, such a code name still has a great impact on the child's future personality development.
When your children grow up and become sensible, they will definitely ask you why you chose such a name and whether there is any story in the name. Therefore, when choosing a name, we must pay attention to the impact of the name on the child. What does it mean to children, and why should these words be given to children?
Different words have different meanings. For example, the word "hui" expresses your desire to make your children smart, and the children will also feel that they are very smart. One of the more popular characters nowadays is the character Xuan. When you see this character, you will think of a handsome gentleman with a majestic appearance.
A good name is a huge asset for a child. If the name is chosen too hastily or if there is any ambiguity, it will become a basis for others to give nicknames, which may even cause psychological shadow to the child. , which may make you tired of school and life.