Modern people pay more and more attention to reading, and it has become a common knowledge that children need to cultivate reading habits from an early age. For those children who haven't read yet, picture books are the most suitable enlightenment books.
Every time I read, I open a window for my children, out of which is a magical unknown world. Children constantly explore in picture books, find new characters, understand new stories and learn new knowledge. It can be said that "a good picture book is a good teacher".
The Little Crow with Flower Socks is such a "good teacher". It comes from Esslinger Publishing House. It has been selling well for 24 years and has been translated into 31 languages, with a total sales volume of over 5 million copies worldwide.
This set of books is very suitable for children aged 3-8. "Flower Socks" is the little hero of this book. He lives a happy life with his friends in the forest. At the same time, he is also a child who is imaginative and loves to be naughty.
Badger's mother is one of the parents in the book. She is careful, wise, caring and patient. She can always handle all kinds of problems of children, and she is our ideal good mother.
First, it doesn't matter if you are sick. Love can cure you.
On this day, the little crow met a quarrel: because of a letter from the postman, the little mice got into a fight, because the letter said "Little mice accept", but there were five little mice, and no one could tell which one the letter was for, so the postman suggested that they all give themselves a name.
When the crow heard this, she wanted to give herself a name, but she didn't think about it for a day, and finally she came up with a disease. Badger's mother has been taking good care of the little crow by feeding medicine and applying towels. Little crow's friends often come to see him and help him do something.
The doctor came to check and asked the little crow where it hurts. The little crow actually said, "My name hurts the most" (it's a genius answer, the little crow's brain hole is so big), and finally the little crow bravely accepted the injection treatment.
Finally, the owl helped the little crow think of a name, which is called "flower socks", because the little crow wears a red and white flower sock on one foot every day, and the little crow likes the name very much, and finally held a "name celebration party".
Most of the children's names have placed their parents' hopes and blessings on them. Tell them about the origin of his name, and I think they will be very willing to listen.
Taking medicine and getting an injection to see a doctor is something that every child is afraid of, but it is unavoidable. At this time, the meticulous care of parents and the concern of friends can make children feel warm and happy.
In the process of getting sick, children not only learn to face bravely, but also learn love from their parents. It doesn't matter if they are sick. Learning to spend socks will definitely get better.
Second, learn to share, and you will be happier.
Flower socks have a bad habit, that is, they especially like to take things from their friends. Everyone has to guard against him every day, and flower socks have tried their best to "win the treasure".
Flower Socks deliberately lied to Pig Bao that "there are many acorns on the hillside". As a result, when Pig Bao went to look for them, the skates were taken away by Flower Socks.
He deliberately praised the owl's necklace again, pretending to fly away suddenly when trying it on, and cheated the necklace.
When he met the timid Lopunny, he deliberately put on a fierce look and scared Lopunny away. Naturally, the little pillow was taken by the flower socks.
When he saw the fox listening to the music box, he secretly loosened a screw to make the fox think that the music box was broken. When the fox threw away the music box, he immediately picked up the flower socks and took them home.
When he saw the curly sheep wearing a new hat, he pretended to be shivering with cold, and the curly sheep was soft-hearted and gave the hat to the flower socks.
Later, he managed to get the toy fire truck of the handsome wolf, the ball of the little squirrel, the book of the badger, and Eddie's tricycle. No child can escape the memory of the flower socks, so long as he likes the toys, he will try to get them.
But when the nest of flower socks is filled with toys, is he happy? No, he can only lie in his nest and watch these "babies", never leaving, and even his friends can't participate in playing on the lawn.
At last, Huasocks finally figured out that "having no friends is the worst thing", and he took all his toys to play with his friends.
Not sharing may be a common problem for many children. When children are relatively young, their awareness of property rights has just sprouted. At this time, they are all self-centered. This is a stage that children have to go through when they grow up. It is not necessary for our parents to regard this situation as "selfish".
What we need to do is to guide, not force. First of all, we need to respect children. They are independent individuals, and they also have their own rights. Deciding the ownership of their own toys is one of the rights.
When a relative's children take a fancy to their children's toys, our parents must not give the toys directly to others, but must ask their children's opinions. Even if they don't want to give them, we should fully respect their opinions.
At ordinary times, we can tell our children more about the benefits of sharing and deepen their impression. When they are a little older, they will naturally encounter things that need to be shared with a certain social circle, and with previous experience, I believe they will handle it well.
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Third, children can be polite without preaching.
Badger invited Flower Socks to have dinner with his friends. Flower Socks not only slurped when eating, but also occupied the ketchup. In order to prevent others from eating it, they even spit in it and finally sat directly in the sauce basin.
Badger's mother was very angry and warned Huasocks that "if you can't be a good boy, you'll never get a birthday present". Flower socks certainly want to get a birthday present, so they began the road of learning for good children.
Eddie Xiong taught him that "you must lick all the honey when you eat it, and take a bath once a year". Hua socks felt something was wrong and found another person.
Curly Sheep taught him to "do what his mother tells him to do". Hua Socks felt that no one would always be so obedient and kept looking for others.
Long ears taught him that "please and thank you are never wrong", and as a result, it became "Please help me, or I will beat you. Please-thank you "(it's so funny). Then they made a long list, "Wash your hands before meals! No spitting! Don't bite the rabbit's ear! Don't kick friends ... "(It seems that flower socks really do a lot of bad things at ordinary times).
Hua Pants took this list and began to recite it. In the process of reciting it, many friends came to see him or had something, and he used civilized terms such as "please" and "sorry". Badger's mother was very happy when she heard this, and decided to hold a birthday party for Hua socks. At the party, friends had a good time.
It is the nature of every child to be naughty, and the sense of rules has not been established in their hearts. At this time, the most critical task for parents is to help them establish a sense of rules and help them realize that only being polite will be more popular.
In the book, the badger's mother's method is to give Huasocks a goal and let him find the rules that everyone agrees with. Through communication with friends, Huasocks finally found some practical methods.
From here, we can learn that many things are useful without preaching. We can guide the children to find the answers by themselves when parents and children are reading, and we can discuss what is polite and popular with friends around us to help them become good children who are polite and obey the rules.
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Little Crow with Flower Socks, the pictures are rich in color and natural and bright, which can catch children's eyes at once. The dialogue in the book is humorous and interesting, and the story is concise but not monotonous, which can not only let children understand the meaning of the story itself, but also let them understand the meaning behind the story.
Badger's mother's education method is very worthy of our reference. For children aged 3-8, it is common to make mistakes and get into trouble. Growth is a process of "mistakes-learning-trying-correcting".
The book * * * has ten stories, including many common adversity scenes in life, such as illness, fear, rejection and competition. The contents in the book can help children learn to face setbacks and pressures directly, and finally break through adversity and grow up healthily.