9 Ways to Precipitate Yourself
1. Review your goals
Don’t forget why you set out just because you have gone too far
In the desert , people often get lost.
Because there are no landmarks in the desert, the terrain will change when there is strong wind. Without a target, people will often be trapped in the desert and unable to get out. When sailing on the sea, if there is no lighthouse, it will be difficult for the ship to dock.
The same is true in life.
Only by never forgetting your original intention can you achieve success.
Always take a look at your goals and ask if your original intention is still there. Only in this way can a person remain consistent and walk firmly on his own path after experiencing temptations and hardships
2. Accept inadequacy
No gold is pure and no one is perfect. people.
Everyone has shortcomings, and this is not a bad thing.
The ancients said: If you hear it, you will be happy. The ancients were very happy when they heard about shortcomings. Zeng Guofan even named his study "Qiuque Zhai". Because this is the way to perfect yourself and cultivate yourself.
Only when people have shortcomings can they make progress. Only by accepting shortcomings can we make up for them.
4. Digest emotions
Everyone is unhappy in the turmoil of the world. We've all become less like ourselves when our emotions get the better of us. Controlling emotions is difficult. This is a lifelong practice. Emotions are useless, no matter how angry a person is, they cannot change what has happened. The only thing we can do is change our perceptions. Use your emotions as a reminder to get to know your deeper self. Only in this way can a person slowly take control of himself and digest bad emotions.
5. Stay focused
Writer Wang Meng once lamented: His studies were too complicated and he could not make any decent achievements in one aspect. In the general direction, only by focusing on one area can you become better.
On small things, only by focusing without distraction can one thing be perfected.
Concentration is both ability and practice.
Abandon distracting thoughts and focus on the present, only then can a person have a bright future.
6. Sow kindness
Kindness is not something done deliberately, it is a pleasant and natural thing. Sometimes, kindness is just for peace of mind.
The ancients said: "Those who love going out love to return, and those who have gone have good luck."
Sowing kindness and benefiting the world is to accumulate virtue and blessing for yourself.
Looking at the world with your eyes will inevitably blind you; looking at the world with your heart, you can see everything in sight; touching the world with a kind heart, everything will become vibrant and dazzling.
Life is full of mixed flavors and disturbances. A kind heart will be able to properly place all the flavors and tastes and live a life that makes you happy in your heart.
7. Cultivate hobbies
In the late Ming Dynasty, Zhang Dai said: "You can't make friends with people without hobbies, because they don't have deep affection." Only by having hobbies can a person's true nature be revealed. temperament. People who have hobbies are happier.
When a person is immersed in his hobbies and devotes himself wholeheartedly, he temporarily
gets rid of the trivialities of life and radiates light all over his body, and this light will also
Infect those around you.
The ancients said that "from art to Taoism", beneficial interests and hobbies can nourish life and make a person spiritually rich.
8. Learn to endure
Some people always shout for quiet times, but the real world is full of rivers. You must keep running in order to stay where you are: you must learn to endure grievances in order to withstand the wind and rain of life.
A mature person can not only endure hardships, but also endure grievances. Who doesn’t move forward while crying? Don’t expose your inner vulnerability easily, learn to bear everything you should bear; don’t easily talk about the embarrassment of life, Learn to face the messy and disorderly reality; don't compromise easily with the world, it makes you cry, you have to make yourself laugh while persisting.
As long as we can bear it, don’t escape, cherish it, and have a strong heart, life will not be too pale.
9. Keep reading
The ancients said: "If you don't study for one day, you will be born in dust; if you don't study for two days, your speech will be boring; if you don't study for three days, your appearance will be disgusting." Yang Jiang Said: "Studying is not to get a diploma or to get rich, but to become a person who has warmth, understanding and taste and can think."