Good afternoon everyone! Today, this is my second time to attend a family gathering in Shanghai. Very proud
Fortunately, I am also very happy to have this opportunity to communicate with my friends. The last family reunion in Shanghai was due to some objective reasons.
Sue and others were less than ten people present because of SARS and bad weather. I saw so many new friends today.
Recently, I am really happy for my family from the bottom of my heart.
I didn't bring my computer today, and I didn't make PPT files. Because I know I'm afraid you're not interested.
Some very theoretical things, so I'm not going to talk about them today. Then I'll only do one thing here today:
Just bring some of my personal experiences to you, communicate with you and exchange some views with each other-I hope you can.
Do some serious thinking in this regard. My purpose has been achieved.
Tell a story first.
It is said that two brothers live together in an apartment building. One day, they went out to climb mountains in the suburbs together.
On the evening of the mountain, when they came back from climbing the mountain to the apartment building, they found one thing: there was a power outage in the building! This is really
Is a depressing thing. Why? Because unfortunately, these two brothers live on the top floor of the building. So,
What floor is the top floor? That's even more unfortunate. The top floor is the eightieth floor. It's terrible, isn't it? Although both brothers are carrying big ones.
Climb the mountain, but there seems to be no choice. My brother said to his younger brother, "Let's climb the stairs."
So they began to climb up with a big bag of luggage on their backs. When they reached the twentieth floor, they felt tired.
So the younger brother suggested, "Brother, the luggage is too heavy. Let's put it on the twentieth floor. Let's go first. "
Come on, let's take the elevator down to get it when the power supply is restored in the building. "When my brother heard this, he thought it was a good idea:" Good.
Ah. Dude, you're so smart. "So they put their luggage on the twentieth floor and continued to climb. Unload a heavy object
After packing, they felt much more relaxed. They crawled all the way talking and laughing. But it didn't last long, and by four o'clock.
On the tenth floor, they felt tired again. I thought I was only halfway up. When I looked up, there were still 40 floors to climb. Two people can drive.
Start blaming each other, accusing each other of not paying attention to the power outage announcement, and it will end up like this. They climb up and down, that's all.
The road climbed to the sixtieth floor.
By the sixtieth floor, they were exhausted, so tired that they didn't even have the strength to quarrel. The elder brother said to the younger brother, "All right.
Well, there are only the last twenty floors left, so let's not argue. "So, they were silent all the way, quietly continue to go up.
Climb up. Finally, the eightieth floor is here. At the door, my brother sighed long and made a cool gesture: "Brother!" "
Brother, get the key! "Brother said," are you kidding? Don't you have a key? " .。 . . . .
Okay, guess what happened? Correct, the key is still in the mountaineering bag on the twentieth floor!
Some people say that this story actually reflects our life. Before the age of twenty, we lived with our family and teachers.
Under the expectation, I am burdened with great pressure, and I keep studying, taking exams and going to school, just like climbing a mountain with a heavy burden.
Bag, plus I'm not mature enough and my ability is not enough, so it's hard to walk. After twenty years old, I graduated from school and stepped on it.
Go to work, start a career, do what you like and do what you want. as soon as...
It's like unloading a heavy burden. Therefore, from the age of twenty to forty, it is the most enjoyable twenty years in my life.
At the age of forty, when people reach middle age, they find that youth has long passed away, but there are many regrets, so they begin.
Compain, blame the boss for not knowing the goods, blame the family for being unsympathetic, blame the government, blame the country and blame the society. . . That's it?
It's been 20 years since I complained and regretted.
At the age of 60, I found that my life was running out, so I told myself to stop complaining and cherish the rest.
Dating. So, I walked silently through the last years. At the end of my life, I suddenly remembered: I seem to have forgotten something.
I remember. What is this? This is your key, your key, the key to your life. You put your ideals, ambitions, customs
The key was left at the age of twenty, and I didn't finish it.
Think about it, do you have to wait until 40 years later, 60 years later to regret it? Let's think about it, we
What do you care about most? Think about it. What do you wish you were different now? Can you do something?
In order to prevent this regret from happening? So, what are we going to do？
Yes, we should make a good career plan.
In the United States, a group of psychologists went to Harvard University's MBA graduating class to do a survey. They asked this.
Some students: You are about to graduate and enter the workplace. So, what will you choose your job based on? knot
Results 70% people answered that they chose their major according to their major. Another 30% said they would.
Choose a career according to your interests. Five years later, this group of psychologists followed up and found that
Successful and outstanding people are those who say that they should choose jobs according to their interests. So, what does this mean?
And then what? I think this shows that your interest is more important than your major in the direction of finding a job!
We know a very famous scientist and Nobel Prize winner in physics: Mr. Ding Zhaozhong from China. These two
Mr. Tian Ding is studying a new refrigeration technology for spacecraft at the Institute of Cryogenic Research of Shanghai Jiaotong University. this
A spaceship will be launched into space to look for antimatter. Mr. Ding is certainly a clever man. Mr. Ding himself
He admits that he is clever, but he even admits that his achievements stem from his natural interest in this field.
Fun. He said, "Interest is more important than genius". This is the first point I want to share with you today: Xing.
The importance of interest in career choice.
So, besides interest, what else plays a vital role in your career choice?
?
Here, I want to mention someone. He is the originator of career theory, American scholar John.
the Netherlands
. He has long studied the relationship between personality and career matching, and has done a lot of research in this field, which has been used in many large enterprises.
Some laws were found in the industry investigation, and a monograph was published in 197 1. I think these laws, right?
It is very helpful for friends here to think about their future. So, what are his rules? He said that people are born.
There are four kinds of people: ABCD. The first kind of people: cautious and conservative, sensitive to numbers and suitable.
I am good at finance, accounting, administration and general affairs. The second kind of people, they pay attention to discipline, rules and control.
Some personnel, leaders, such people are suitable for professional managers. The third kind of people, they are more flexible, ditch
Strong communication skills, no matter what kind of people you communicate with, there is no obstacle. They are more suitable for marketing, public relations and the like.
Class assignments. The last kind of people, they prefer innovation, love adventure, and constantly have new ideas. There are more people like this.
Suitable for being an artist as well as an entrepreneur. Wait a minute, let's talk about entrepreneurs and managers.
Different points.
Therefore, the first step in your career is to fully understand yourself. Know your interests, personality and price.
Values. Only when we have a clear understanding of ourselves can we do the next work well and make a good career plan.
However, sometimes, we also find that sometimes, we don't know ourselves, and we can't really know ourselves.
Yao, what should I do at this time? I suggest that at this time, put yourself in a big environment, a relaxed environment, and go.
Discover your potential. In other words, sometimes, you might as well give yourself more opportunities, jump some slots and let the environment verify.
Your personality, abilities, interests, etc. Of course, this kind of behavior also has disadvantages, which will be discussed later. Why?
To jump ship, how to jump ship, the cost of jumping ship, the shortest time limit of jumping ship and so on.
Well, we know now that the first step and foundation of a career is to "know yourself completely". take over
Come on, the second step, the core of career planning, is to "do a good job of investigation"
Here, I have a personal opinion that I want to discuss with you: everyone can't have only one job.
It suits you. What suits you must be a job, or more, several jobs. For example, it seems that you have arrived.
If you want to find a boyfriend or girlfriend, you must not find a certain person, but a certain kind of person. This view
Do you agree? For example, if you want to find a girlfriend, you want to find a big eye in your heart.
Girls with eyes, long hair, cheerful personality, slim figure, love sports and small animals. you want
Yes, there are actually many. Right, everyone? Therefore, in the choice of work, you will.
Encountered many choices. If you sometimes lose your job for objective reasons, please don't take it too seriously.
Sometimes, I have some lovelorn children who come to talk to me. One thing I often say to them is
The sentence is: Remember the "Three Grass Classics". What is the Three Grass Sutra? Some friends may know that rabbits don't eat grass beside their nests.
; A good horse doesn't eat grass back; There are many fish in the sea. I think this three grass classics can also be used in our industry.
In terms of choice. First, rabbits don't eat grass beside their nests. Personally, I suggest that our young friends don't have to go to friends to introduce them.
Introduced by relatives, or friends and relatives who work in the company. I hope they can use their own strength.
To develop your career. Second. A good horse never looks back. I also make a personal suggestion. At first, the two of us
However, if we choose to leave, there is no need for us to go back. You can certainly find some similar ones, even more worthy of your visit.
Occupation So, third, there are many fish in the sea. Why don't men have wives? We are not worried about not having a good job.
Work.
So, how many career surveys have you done? My suggestion is: three. According to one's personality, interests, etc.
After establishing the career direction, you need to investigate the market situation of the three occupations you are interested in. I know
Tao, some friends, he is ambitious, thoughtful, capable and eager to succeed, but he has not succeeded. Duoduoyuan
Because, there is a key problem: not doing the right thing.
I will give you three words. Let's think about the difference between these three words: doing things, doing things correctly, and doing things correctly.
Things. Doing things, just working, can make it possible for us to have plenty of food and clothing; Doing things correctly, we understand that he is doing things according to the rules.
According to certain norms, it may effectively solve some problems and make your work have certain value; But only in the right way
It is possible to succeed. Right? We want to do professional market research in order to know what is positive.
Indeed, it is worth doing. Only on the basis of this direction can we see the other side of success.
This is the second key point to share with you today, and it is also a core of career planning: "Do a good job.
Industry survey. "
The last point, which is also the most crucial point, I think it is "making a phased plan". China people * * * and
Since the establishment of China in 1949,1five-year plans have been formulated. National development needs planning, how can it not be done?
Huh? The country has a five-year development plan, so how long will it take us to make a career plan? My advice
There must be two plans, one is short-term and the other is long-term. The two plans are interrelated.
Next, I would like to ask you, please raise your hand if you have plans at ordinary times. Well, I saw almost one.
Half the people raised their hands. Next, I'll give you the microphone and let you talk about your own practice.
1. Phased plan
Family 1: three to six months. For example, something must be done during this time. Including going
I will take some certificates and some books that must be completed and finish them in stages.
Family 2: My short-term plan is three years, and I will take the postgraduate entrance examination after three years. As for the long-term plan, I will temporarily
Sometimes I don't do it, because I think there may be many changes in three years, and I can't see that far for the time being.
Family 3: My short-term plan is two years, and my long-term plan is six years. My ultimate goal is to make a composite.
Talent type. Because I think, no matter where you go, no matter when, you need compound talents. I
Prepare to jump three times in six years. (Laughter and applause) Learn as much as possible about the work processes of different companies.
Family 4: My short-term plan is weekly, and my long-term plan is fifteen to twenty years (sigh). for
Why do you want to make a weekly plan? For example, I stipulate that I will finish reading this book this week, and I will refine it to finish reading this book this week.
Books, how many pages are read every day, a fraction. I can control the daily work schedule. Then why?
Why do you want to make such a long-term plan? Because, I know, without these years, my plan cannot be realized. I have loved it since I was a child.
Sleeping late, I don't like nine to five, so whether I go to work or study in an enterprise, the purpose is to
Be a freelancer, be a freelance lecturer and accumulate a foundation.
2. About the relationship between work and company?
Personal opinion: there are only indiscriminate companies, and there are no indiscriminate jobs. The company itself is good or bad, and the work content itself is not good.
Let's go So, in any case, once you choose to enter a company, you have to do it for at least half a year. If you don't do it for six months,
Doing it for a month or two is a waste of time.
3. What is the relationship between job-hopping and persistence?
Personal opinion: Job-hopping certainly has its costs and losses. Before the age of 25-30, it doesn't hurt for Yuan to pick more slots.
Qi can help you understand yourself. But after the age of 30, it must be precipitated and accumulated. The purpose of job-hopping is not entirely
In order to get income, we should see the ability development opportunities behind it.
4. About the relationship between potential and behavior?
Personal opinion: The 5 million experiment is a small case. The problem is that people believe they have potential,
But they are too lazy to develop their potential. Explain the importance of execution. "People who have no ambitions often yearn for it, and those who have ambitions grow up.
Chi ".
5. Career crisis and bottleneck?
Personal opinion: Occupational crisis generally happens to people with certain work experience. When you find the bottleneck
Wait, in fact, you have risen to a certain extent, but your ability is not enough to open the bottleneck. If you can add a little more to yourself.
Knowledge level, ability and other values can break through the bottleneck.
6. The question of values.
Personal opinion: pursue a career that conforms to your own values.
Time relationship, so much for today's discussion. Finally, a word to the friends present: "When you!
You are over 30 years old, but you will never get old.
Be wise. That is to say, when you
After 30 years old, you will never be old again, but you will only get smarter and smarter. I want to give this sentence to everyone here.
No friends over 30 years old, I wish you all find your own satisfaction in your career.
Location, find true happiness! Thank you all.