Nowadays, the number of children in a family is much smaller than before, but even so, many families have already begun to think about how to name their children before their babies are born. Moreover, many families will fall into an irritable mood because it is too difficult to choose a name. Why is it difficult to choose a name?
Now, with the improvement of national cultural level, people are becoming more and more confused about choosing names. Parents always want to give their children a unique and meaningful name. Often the more you think about it, the more difficult it becomes to choose a name. In addition, there are these four points that have been troubling people.
1. The rate of duplicate names is high
The problem of duplicate names is naturally unavoidable, but families don’t want their baby to have the same name as another child, so they choose the same name. It's very confusing. There have been many jokes on the Internet complaining about the same names, such as Chen Jiayi, Li Jiayi, and Zhao Jiayi. Although they have different characters, the pronunciation is still the same. It can be seen that the problem of duplicate names is indeed a headache for parents.
2. Don’t use genealogy
In the past, including the generation of parents born in the 1990s, they still used genealogy to choose names. It's easier to choose a name that way because one character is already fixed. Now that those restrictions have been put aside, parents have more concerns and thoughts, so it is even more difficult to choose a name.
3. There are too many people with certain surnames.
There are too many people with certain surnames. According to incomplete statistics, the largest surname in the country is now "Wang". It is quite difficult to choose a name for this surname. If you are not careful, you will have the same name. It is quite difficult to choose a name.
4. Family members have different opinions
Nowadays, most of the people who have children are the generation of only children. When a couple gives birth to a child, both families will spoil him. The same goes for the name. On par. Sometimes the woman’s parents want their children to have the woman’s surname. As a result, the family members have different opinions, which also brings great difficulty to the couple when it comes to naming the baby. Name? Big?, Blessing? Small?
There are also some parents who have high hopes for their children in their names, or want to bring blessings to their children through grand names. But sometimes a big name may not be a good thing.
There once was a classmate whose surname was Qi. The parents named their child "Qi Tianfu" in order to bring good luck to their child. But the child was not as blessed as the name suggested. Qi Tianfu was not only weak, but also not so smooth. Later, the family listened to the old man's advice that the child should not be given a name that is too big as it would be bad for the child, so they changed the child's name. However, most of this statement is based on superstition, and superstition is not advisable. However, despite this point, a name that is too big is still not good for children. ?Big? names should not be given, and there are these reasons
1. Problem of matching with the person
If parents put their high hopes for their children in their children's names, the children will be better fine. If the child is not so outstanding, there will be a gap with the name. If the gap is too big, it will attract people's attention, and the child will also live in this kind of pointing. I once heard someone say that there was a man named "Wang Zhe", but he had mediocre qualifications, weak character, and was always bullied. Later, he changed his name to "Wang Xuan".
2. Children’s stress problem
When children become sensible and know the meaning of their names, they will invisibly put some pressure on them. Children may worry that they are not that good and will be laughed at. There once was a child who was named "Li Chenglong" by his parents. The parents always told the child that with his name, he would achieve great things, and the child always felt stressed.
3. First impression
If the name is very big, it will give people a very arrogant first impression when they introduce each other at the first meeting. Whether it is social or work, etc., the first impression is very important. If the child is known as "arrogant" because of his name, it will obviously cause certain obstacles to the child's subsequent interpersonal interactions.
Therefore, parents should think carefully when naming their children. It is recommended not to make the name too big. Firstly, don’t put too much pressure on the child because of the name, and secondly, let the name give people a humble attitude.
It is recommended that parents try not to search online when naming their children, because others will also search online, and the rate of duplicate names will increase. You can search it from the Book of Songs, Songs of Chu and other literature, and you will definitely be able to come up with a good name that is full of literary talent and does not have the same name.