“To marry a girl, you must be better than my family, and to marry a woman, you must be inferior to my family.” According to traditional Chinese logic, if a man marries a woman with better economic conditions than himself, he is considered a “son-in-law.” The son-in-law who comes to the door is a bride-in-law, a man is ashamed to talk about it, and the world looks down upon him. As evidenced by the ancient saying: "If a boy is incompetent, he should change his name."
The words of the ancients are meant to subvert.
Nowadays, there are more and more "incompetent" "boys", and they are not ashamed of it, but proud of it.
A Beetle drove up, and the man got out of the passenger seat. The prospective couple looked at the house, and it was the woman who made the final decision to pay.
Relatives and friends arrange blind dates, but men all refuse because: "The conditions of women are too poor, they have no house or car!"
Society calls on women to be self-respecting, self-reliant, and self-reliant, but men are allowed to do so. The man's eyebrows are bowed and the hero is short of breath.
While men educate women to regard money as dirt, they are also obsessed with money.
Women think about whether men are qualified to be their "golden husbands", while men also openly judge women's economic strength and overall value.
The criteria for choosing a wife are no longer an angel’s face and a devil’s figure – that’s too superficial. As long as she has a house, a car, or a capable father, even if she has the figure of an angel and the face of a devil, she will marry her.
For men, marriage is no longer the result of a momentary emotional impulse, but a carefully planned strategy.