My colleague’s daughter-in-law gave birth to twin grandsons named Qianhe and Qianmu. I originally wanted to call them Tianhe and Tianmu, but later I felt that the word "天" was too big and I was worried that I wouldn't be able to hold it, so I changed it.
When my daughter was born, the aunt across from my house asked me if I had chosen a name. I said not yet! She just said: Call me Xian! She looks like a little fairy. At that time, I didn’t know about the particularity of men not using the word “天” (天) and women not using the word “仙” (仙). I felt that the word "immortal" was a bit vulgar [laughing]
Later I heard about this idea. I don’t know if it makes sense.
My colleague’s son was named one day after he was born. When the child grew up and entered junior high school, he didn't study well and loved to surf the Internet. So his mother went to see the name changer and said he was too old, so he changed his name. After the name was changed, the child's faults didn't change much. Once he changed his name, he went to join the army! There are also several female colleagues of mine who all have the word "fairy" in their names. I've seen some of them that are pretty good.
In the traditional concept, some old people think that people with the word "fairy" in their names Children may not be able to bear the word "tian" or "fairy", and only those with a very hard destiny can bear it. Therefore, when naming your child, try to avoid these two words. With the development of society, we modern people are no longer taboo about these two words. , many people with the word "天" (天之字仙) in their names are no different from ordinary people, it is just a matter of everyone's ideological concepts, and they cannot leave ideological baggage because of something happening.
Recently, due to the accident of the well-known actor Yu Yuexian, there have been a lot of comments on the Internet that men don’t have heaven and women don’t have immortals. In fact, in real life, there are many people whose names contain the two characters "celestial being." People, it’s just that they are all unknown people, we don’t know it. There is a man named Tian’en there. He is now over sixty years old and has retired at home. He worked as a cadre before. No, he is not famous because of his name. Did anything go wrong because of the confusion?
When it comes to naming, don’t be too serious. Just be polite and reasonable. Nowadays, many people name their children with some strange words, which are really important. The reputation is less, but the people I know are also less, and I don’t know them at all. I don’t think it is necessary. I don’t know what everyone thinks?