On 20 14, a female guest said this to the program group on Zhejiang Satellite TV's blind date program "Blind Date Must Win". When this statement came out, it immediately caused a sensation in public opinion and discussion among netizens.
The female guest who said this sentence was named Zhou Lanjun, just a sophomore. What no one expected was that this girl was so "simple" and harsh on her mate selection criteria!
When the program was broadcast, some netizens said that she was maliciously speculating and wanted to imitate Xifeng or Mano a few years ago. These two people are also "people who can't stop talking".
Some netizens think that it is a social phenomenon for girls to worship money. Zhou Lanjun is just a microcosm of these girls. She represents such a person that it is difficult to change.
Anyway, after Zhou Lanjun made this remark, he really came to the forefront of public opinion and gained a lot of attention. Eight years later, what about Zhou Lanjun's marriage and career? Why did she risk being scolded for saying such a thing? Will she regret mentioning her past words?
Someone said after listening to Zhou Lanjun's words, since this girl has the courage to make such harsh demands, she must have something extraordinary! Maybe her family is particularly superior, or maybe her ability is quite outstanding.
In fact, on the contrary, Zhou Lanjun is just an ordinary girl. 1992 was born in Xiamen, and his appearance is not outstanding. Her family can only say that she is a little better than the average person, but not much taller.
Her father is an employee of a state-owned enterprise, and her mother is an aunt in a dormitory in a university. On the contrary, her grandparents are quite powerful, both of whom have college degrees.
Grandparents are high-level people with high academic qualifications and are very strict with their children. Therefore, under the influence of grandparents, Zhou Lanjun did learn a lot of etiquette lessons when he was a child, how to get along with people, and also learned piano, chess, calligraphy and painting.
However, these are far from enough for marrying into a rich family. Our traditional concept of choosing a spouse in China holds that the principle of "matching the right family" should be followed, and the two families should not be too different, otherwise there may be many contradictory views after being together.
Zhou Lanjun obviously didn't consider these. As a student, she was probably protected by her parents and only focused on learning, so she knew little about this society. However, after entering the university, Zhou Lanjun's mate selection criteria began to change.
Zhou Lanjun was only 20 12 when he was a freshman, studying at Zhejiang Gongshang University. There was once a very popular program called "If You Are the One", which was a blind date program to solve the problem of marriage and love between older men and women.
Although the program wants to solve the marriage problem of young people, it still causes great controversy. One is the dispute and disapproval of the concept of marriage, and the other is to encourage the trend of money worship.
For example, 20 10, there is a female guest named Mano in the program group. She said to the male guests at that time: "I would rather cry on the BMW than laugh on the bike." So he refused the invitation of the male guest.
Once this program was broadcast, it caused overwhelming criticism in the society. Everyone hated this money worship and made a verbal attack on the female guest Mano.
However, this obviously did not have much impact on the program and the female guest Mano, because in this program, "If You Are the One" quickly spread all over the country and became a favorite program of many elders and young people. Mano also transformed into the entertainment circle and made a lot of money.
Although this program is very successful, the money worship concept conveyed in it has influenced many people, and Zhou Lanjun is a microcosm of it.
After entering the university, Zhou Lanjun realized that it was absolutely impossible without money. Especially seeing that her friends and roommates are looking for a good boyfriend, and the conditions are also very good, she feels a little unbalanced and wants to find such a boyfriend for herself.
In fact, if Zhou Lanjun is down-to-earth and has a good talk with boys about campus love, her later life will not change, but she has chosen another way: to find a rich second generation.
Although she was only a sophomore at that time, she just wanted to get married and marry into a rich family! She put all her thoughts into marrying into a rich family, and her studies were once abandoned.
Every day, Zhou Lanjun has a computer in her dormitory. She neither browses knowledge websites nor plays games. What she watches every day is all kinds of dating websites and dating programs. The values output by these programs and websites have deeply influenced her.
Zhou Lanjun spread his message everywhere, which finally caught the attention of a media. This is Zhejiang Satellite TV's "Blind Date Will Win" column.
The column group found that the little girl who went to school in Zhejiang wrote a very interesting mate selection standard for herself, just four characters, "Marry into a rich family". They want to see what kind of female guest this is, so they invite Zhou Lanjun to participate in this program.
Zhou Lanjun didn't expect that she would become popular because of this program, so how did she perform in the program?
On 20 14, Zhou Lanjun, who is just a sophomore, was invited to participate in the program "Blind Date Will Win" and started recording soon.
The staff's first job is to ask Zhou Lanjun the criteria for choosing a spouse, so that the program group can choose the right person for her.
So a female directors then asked, "What do you think is a rich second generation? How can you be sure that you can marry a rich second generation? "
Zhou Lanjun said confidently, "I did the math on the dating site. People say that I can at least marry a rich second generation worth 20 million, so the 50 million I set is not strict at all! "
Female directors asked again: "How did the website give you this score?"
Zhou Lanjun calmly replied: "My height, weight, family conditions, and plans for the future!"
Out of kindness, the female director didn't want this girl to delay her marriage and love, so she quickly advised her, "Do you know? Many rich second generation parents are very picky! People don't like your poor background! "
Zhou Lanjun said, "Many ordinary people's mothers-in-law are also very picky. My mother also relies on the background of the other party, and most people don't like it! "
The director was still unwilling and continued to persuade her: "The rich second generation are all playboys. If your appearance is not very prominent, you may not be able to control each other! "
As a result, Zhou Lanjun said: "Ordinary people also spend money, so at least the rich second generation has money!" Have to say, Zhou Lanjun's answer is very logical, let the director was speechless. The director will say, "What will you do if you can't find someone who meets the requirements?"
Zhou Lanjun replied, "I am determined to find a rich second generation who loves me before I am 30. If I can't find it, I won't marry! I'm going to be admitted to graduate school at the age of 27 and go to work in a big company after graduation! This is my plan for the future. "
Later, Zhou Lanjun went on to say that she would definitely find a rich second generation. Therefore, Guo Jingjing is not outstanding, but she can marry a giant in Hong Kong. Why can't she?
Several male directors nearby said with a smile, "But Guo Jingjing is a world champion!" "
The words of the male director are very heartfelt, but she is a fact. If you just close your eyes and don't look at yourself, it is definitely unsuccessful to find a rich second generation.
However, in the face of many opposing voices, Zhou Lanjun still went its own way. She told the program group, "I won't give up this idea easily. I won't listen to anything you say!" Because your words will help my career, no matter what you think of me, I won't change my mind! "
In this way, the program group began to choose a blind date for Zhou Lanjun according to her conditions, and soon a man named "Liu Shao" came into everyone's sight.
Liu Shao is four years older than Zhou Lanjun. His family is in business, and his net worth is already hundreds of millions. When Zhou Lanjun heard about this man, he immediately offered to see him.
Under the arrangement of the program group, Zhou Lanjun was going to meet the rich second generation, and she specially dressed up for it. As a result, on the day of meeting, Liu Shao suddenly said that something was not coming!
Zhou Lanjun was very disappointed, but she didn't give up and kept looking for the next rich second generation. Soon, a male guest code-named "Cpaing" came to participate in the program.
After they met, the male guest was very polite and chatted with Zhou Lanjun generously. As a result, Zhou Lanjun's words changed the male guest's face. What's going on here?
As soon as Zhou Lanjun saw him, he said to him, "I hope your parents can distinguish right from wrong and have a pragmatic attitude! Also, the quality must be good! "
After listening to "Cpaing", I feel a little rude. After all, it's a bit too much for you to ask each other's parents what to do when two people just met!
Then Cpaing also discussed with her how to live in the future. Zhou Lanjun said that after he got married, he would help the boy's family make money and give the child to a nanny or mother.
But "Cpaing" obviously can't agree. He thinks that although he is a rich second generation, he must consider the future of his children. The best way is to make money by yourself, and the wife will take care of the children, outdoors for men and indoors for women.
Because of the great difference in values, the conversation broke up in discord! However, Zhou Lanjun thinks this is not her problem, because "Cpaing" can only give him money, and she has no real skill except obtaining a lawyer's license, and she can't be allowed to do business. She was very disappointed.
Even so, Zhou Lanjun said, "I will not give up the idea of pursuing the rich second generation. Even if I can't find the right person on the show, I can get to know him in other channels! "
The host of the program is particularly helpless because the girl is still too naive. Maybe she watched too many TV plays, or maybe she was influenced by the concept of money worship in society. In short, it's not that she doesn't want a rich second generation, but that her own conditions are far from meeting the standards of a rich second generation. In the end, she just failed.
Although Zhou Lanjun couldn't find a blind date in the program, the program was unexpectedly popular!
Many netizens criticized this girl for being too stupid and naive after watching the program, as long as she has money, she doesn't care about anything! He also criticized the malicious hype of the program, arranged such actors and arranged scripts to attract attention.
In order to avoid being criticized, the program quickly came out to clarify that there was no script and rehearsal, and before the broadcast, they were actually very entangled in this issue. Will there be such adverse effects? But they also wanted to expose the mentality of some girls in society through this program.
As soon as the words of the program group came out, all the pots fell on Zhou Lanjun in an instant. It was really her own fault.
Moreover, what Zhou Lanjun said in the program also caught the criticism of netizens, because she said, "I don't have a famous brand now. After I marry into a rich family, I will use each other's money to buy myself a famous brand! "
Zhou Lanjun didn't feel anything wrong in the face of everyone's doubts at first, but her money worship will bring bad influence to many people, which will make those young strugglers who work hard very disgusted. A woman who just wants to enjoy success will not be easily accepted by anyone.
These malice from everyone didn't make Zhou Lanjun popular, but she ran into a wall everywhere! At school, she was laughed at by many classmates, and even the teachers looked at her differently. After graduating from school, it even affected her job search. People call her a "gold digger". Zhou Lanjun endured it for three years, and finally he couldn't help it.
On 20 17, Zhou Lanjun appeared on this program again, and came out to apologize to everyone, saying that she was too young and said a lot of inappropriate things, so she apologized to everyone, but she didn't think there was anything wrong with what she did, because everyone had different ideas.
Her apology was really dispensable and didn't attract much attention. In everyone's eyes, she is still the "gold digger" who only marries the rich second generation.
But in any case, she has clarified this matter and her life has gradually returned to the right track.
So, how will Zhou Lanjun, who is returning to normal life, live? Is she married now?
Zhou Lanjun once said that she would take the postgraduate entrance examination after graduation and then work in a foreign company. In fact, she didn't do this, but went to work directly after graduation.
At one time, she really wanted to take the postgraduate entrance examination and further study, but after attending the program, her mood was almost exhausted, because the reality has been telling her that it is not easy to marry a rich second generation empty-handed!
Zhou Lanjun has no spare energy to settle down and study. After graduation, she can only work in a local company in Zhejiang.
At that time, she suffered many setbacks and complained a lot, but in the final analysis, it was all because of what she said. Why are there so many rich second generation waiting for you? It is very wrong to think that you have no excellent conditions but want to get something for nothing.
After hearing about Zhou Lanjun's past, many employers will reconsider this matter and choose not to hire her.
Zhou Lanjun hit a wall everywhere and finally realized that she might really be wrong. She went home and calmed down for half a year, rethinking her life and future. Maybe her past view of marriage was really wrong!
Realizing her mistake, she turned over a new leaf and went to Shanghai to develop her career. Although Zhou Lanjun's concept of marriage and love is abnormal, her serious attitude towards her career is really unparalleled.
Zhou Lanjun is very concerned about the affairs of the company. She is a strong woman. She took many certificates in English and finance and worked in a company in Shanghai for several years.
In Shanghai, she also signed up for many etiquette classes and flower arranging classes to cultivate her specialty. 20 18 she also took a group of photo photos, which shows that she has come out of the haze and is ready to welcome a new life!
Later, Zhou Lanjun accumulated several years of work experience and returned to his hometown in Xiamen to work as a legal representative in an Internet company. Now his life is not bad.
Some people also questioned that Zhou Lanjun was using her reputation to make malicious hype about the company. She clarified this and hoped that netizens would never harass her again.
However, she is not so simple now. After being honed by netizens' public opinion and society, she also realized that it is wrong to get something for nothing, and real happiness depends on her own efforts.
She wrote a Weibo: "Only when a person's education and income match his intelligence can he have a clear conscience!"
It can be said that Zhou Lanjun finally realized her mistake and gradually changed her mind, but her marriage is still uncertain.
Today, Zhou Lanjun is 30 years old, but she hasn't married or even been in love. Maybe the suitor will flinch at the thought of what she said in those years!
Although her career is very successful, her family is still unhappy. This is Zhou Lanjun's life now, but she thinks that a person's life is free and there is nothing wrong with it.
In 2020, Zhou Lanjun updated her Weibo. She said that she had already regretted it. I hope you don't mention the past again. On the road of life, there is one road that everyone has to take, and that is the detour when he is young. How can you grow up without tripping, hitting the wall or breaking your head?
Maybe she also realized her naivety and frivolity. We believe that if Zhou Lanjun can work hard, there will be some scenery waiting for her.
But the concept of money worship is really wrong, and getting something for nothing is even more undesirable. Only by making yourself strong can we make life more successful! Love will come naturally!