However, some parents born in the 1990s have very creative ways of dealing with this issue. In addition to naming their babies, they will also give all the final choices to their children and let them draw lots. Choose yourself.
And by doing this, I hope that when they grow up, they will not be criticized for naming their children poorly.
Xiao Zhang is a mother born in the 1990s. When she was in school, she always felt that her name was a bit rustic, so she often complained to her parents about it. But now that she has become a mother, she will also have to face the issue of naming her child, so Xiao Zhang and her husband decided that they should all give their children a name and let the children draw lots to decide, so as not to blame their parents when they grow up.
My husband had no problem thinking about it. This was very fair, so he cooperated with Xiao Zhang and wrote down each other’s names and the names given by his grandparents on paper and let the children catch them. I have to say , this naming method for parents born in the 1990s is really novel. Not only that, my husband also recorded a video as a souvenir.
In fact, the child was still a baby and didn’t understand this at all. He looked at the notes in Xiao Zhang’s hand and grabbed one casually, but when Bao’s mother opened the note, she laughed out loud, and He said to the baby: "If you find this name difficult to write in the future, don't blame me. I can only blame you for being unlucky when you were a child."
It turns out that the child chose the name "Yu Yao" given by his grandfather. "In fact, my grandfather came up with this name after carefully reading the dictionary and felt that it had a very good meaning. He hoped that the child would be smart, good moral character, and cheerful and lively, but he accidentally didn't notice the difficulty of writing.
@ a touch of rainbow: This is a great method. My own name doesn’t sound good. If my parents had let me draw lots, it might be better than my current name.
@Hanshanjinghong: Drawing lots like this, if the mother hoped that her child would draw the name she chose, but failed in the end, wouldn’t the mother be very disappointed?
@ a touch of setting sun: Haha, this is all a time of luck. If you are dissatisfied with your name when you grow up, you can’t blame your parents.
This naming method that seems to give the child the right to choose a name is indeed very "fair", and parents don't have to worry about which name to choose, but if they are like the child above, Names that are difficult to write actually have certain disadvantages, which are mainly reflected in the following aspects:
For some names, the meaning may be very good, but if there are too many strokes, etc. When you start learning to write your own name, it will be very troublesome, and even if you learn how to write your name in the future, it will take a long time just to write your name, which will make the child very distressed.
When children are young, it is very important to cultivate their interest in reading and writing. Generally, parents may teach their children to write their names before they go to school. This may be the first time that children are exposed to writing and writing. , then if the name is too difficult, it will definitely make it difficult for the child to learn it, and even make it boring.
When children enter elementary school, everything is still in the adapting stage. In addition to studying, exams will also be involved. At this time, overly complicated names will inevitably bring tension to the children. After all, they need to write For a long time, it may even make the child feel anxious. It may even affect the overall exam.
Although the name does not play a decisive role in a child's life, old fathers and mothers also need to carefully give their children a good name when naming them. Of course, try not to give the child a good name. The child's name is too complicated, as long as it has a beautiful meaning and doesn't sound convoluted.