Why is "naming according to seniority" not popular now in rural areas?

Part of the family is that the traditional concepts are indifferent, and the young people nowadays are more knowledgeable and fashionable. They tend to name their children younger and in line with the times. Small, cute, whatever, Xuan, Zi, Yi, Han, etc., I think it is best to name your child something grand and mature. After all, the child will be in the mature stage for most of his life, and he is already in his fifties and sixties. Return to Zixuan, Yixuan.

Many of the traditional generations have killed people for a lifetime, causing things such as infidelity, unfilial piety, infertility, and disunity among uncles, brothers and sisters, so literate people know it. The traditional spirit can only be taken from its essence!

Since the Korean drama "Invasion", children are no longer named according to their generation. Furthermore, nowadays, the pace of life is fast, and basically every family has one child (boy or girl), or at most two children, so everyone wants to choose a unique name. Most people go to a "professional" naming agency to choose a name. , compared to the "word generation", it is more "foreign style" and "generous".

My youngest son was born in 2014. He lives in the countryside of my hometown and has been living in the city. Or give your son a name based on his seniority. I am a native of Heze, Shandong, and I still have a very deep concept of my ancestors. Every time I go back to my hometown, I go to visit the tombs of my ancestors, not for anything else but to feel at ease. My ancestors, my grandparents, my uncles, and members of my clan sleep in the mausoleum. I was born in 1985, and I don’t know why I feel so strongly about my hometown.

My son’s name is Jijia, which is homophonic to Jia. I want him to remember his home no matter where he goes when he becomes an adult. Basically, all the families in the village have the surname Wang. Loyalty is passed down from generation to generation, and poems and books are passed down from generation to generation. I am a scholar, but my ID card is not from this generation. My name with seniority is only on the stone tablet of my clan. Yes, I used it when I got married. I really hope that seniority will be passed on. Today’s world and society really lack a strong concept of seniority!

Our family will continue to revise the genealogy this year, and the clan members have agreed: ①, the characters for generation will be according to "Zai Zheng Tong Guang Chang Sheng Xiu", and the seven characters will be rotated to the eight characters. For those with a single name, some generational order will be automatically added when the name is written on the genealogy and the stele, and there must be no objection. ② Genealogy is rebuilt every 30 years; family gatherings/grand relatives (grave sweeping during the Qingming Festival) are held every 5 years; ③ Family genealogy (additional records of the progress/death of clan members and various information data in the past five years).

If all surnames in a large village are uniformly arranged, many people will have the same name. Branches should be reorganized every five generations. This can avoid too many duplicate names and make it easier to find roots.

All kinds of things exist. Some of today’s young parents don’t know their own generation, but they think it is not noble to name their children according to their generation. They name their children according to their own ideas. , deviating from the genealogy over and over again.

In many places, names are based on family trees, and there are certain benefits to naming according to seniority. Even if you go to a far away place, as long as you have the same surname, you can ask what generation you are from. If you meet people of similar seniority, you will feel more cordial! Dear relatives. Usually, families with this kind of surname have an older and prestigious person who calls on a representative from each family to hold a meeting to discuss the renewal of the family tree of this surname. After approval, it is printed into a book, and the family members abide by it. Even if they are far away from home, they will know about the continuation of their family tree through various communication methods. This is also the great cultural inheritance of the Chinese nation!