Because her mother-in-law once instigated her children to disown her, no matter how wrong she was, she would always be the mother of her two children. In addition, when she was pregnant, her mother-in
Because her mother-in-law once instigated her children to disown her, no matter how wrong she was, she would always be the mother of her two children. In addition, when she was pregnant, her mother-in-law not only refused to give her a bride price, but also encouraged Qin Ye to break up with her, forcing her to return to her hometown to marry someone she didn't like. What makes her even more angry is that her mother-in-law's attitude toward her changed 180 degrees after she gave birth to the child. In addition, her mother-in-law always picked on her after marriage, and her prejudice against her mother-in-law became more and more serious. As the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law escalated, she was even more angry. , she was already disheartened. After the mediator's persuasion, Zhan Meihong made concessions. Zhan Meihong said that she wanted to take care of the children by herself from Monday to Friday, and her mother-in-law could take care of the children on Saturdays and Sundays, or she and her mother-in-law could take care of one child each. But if her mother-in-law did not agree, there was nothing she could do. In the end, Qin's mother was helpless. I had no choice but to agree to Zhan Meihong’s suggestion. After watching this video, I felt mixed emotions. I couldn’t figure out why so many people were prejudiced against rural people. What happened to rural people? Are you inferior? I don’t think city people are that great. Because most of what city people eat and drink comes from the countryside, and many of the houses we live in in the city were built by us rural people, so the interests of urban and rural people exist and no one can leave. Don't open anyone. Then again, I think Zhan Meihong’s approach in the article not to let her mother-in-law help take care of the child is correct, because it is really uneasy for the child to be raised by a person with such evil views, and it may even harm the child. Just imagine, if a child looks down on his biological mother since he was a child, or even has a cold attitude towards his mother, will he be filial to his mother when he grows up? I think no matter how discordant the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is, the children should not be involved. After all, it is the adults' business and has nothing to do with the children. To be honest, Qin's mother dared to treat her daughter-in-law like this again and again. Most of the reasons were Qin Ye's incompetence and weakness, and Qin's mother's strength. When the Qin family learned that Zhan Meihong was pregnant, they were unwilling to give any gift money to Zhan Meihong's parents. Later, they were worried that their daughter would be ridiculed after being found out because she was pregnant before marriage, so she married without any gift money. When he entered Qin's house, he didn't know how to cherish each other. I am also a mother myself, so I would like to compare my feelings with others. How would you feel if your daughter was pregnant out of wedlock but faced various difficulties from the other party's family, and was even not allowed to receive a marriage certificate? Wouldn't it hurt? Or won't you feel angry? Your son is a human being, but someone else’s daughter is not a human being? The daughter-in-law is pregnant, but she forces her son to break up with her. I think only an extremely selfish person can do this kind of thing. You don’t know how to respect each other, so why should you ask others to respect you? Teach a child to disown his mother, encourage his son to beat his wife, and even clamor for his son to divorce his wife. In the end, he slaps her in the face, right? Because in the end, the wife was not happy, so she took the two children back to live with her parents without you even seeing them. Now you feel comfortable? Satisfied? If you ask me, I shouldn’t let this kind of person take care of my child, because they have incorrect outlook on life. To be honest, getting along between people depends on mutual understanding and respect. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult to get along with. If one of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is unreasonable and has all kinds of little tricks, then the family will be in trouble. You will definitely live a life of chaos. Everything thrives when a family is harmonious. Only when family members respect and understand each other can the family be harmonious and everything prosper.