Pay attention to the seven taboos in naming your baby.
The first thing to avoid naming treasures is to avoid "excess"
Everything has its mode. It's also best not to go out of your way or go too far. Most of them are named to express their ambitions, wishes, personality, etc. But in life, many people go too far or go too far when naming them.
There are usually two situations: one is "bragging" and exaggerating. Such as Li Weili, Guan, He Neng, Wan Lihu, Yue, etc. The second is excessive self-effacement, even self-deprecation and inferiority. Such as Wang Zhuo, Zhang Yu, Jiao Yu, etc.
The second taboo in baby naming should be gender-neutral.
Names are meant to facilitate people’s communication, but many people in life have names that are neither fish nor fowl, neither male nor female. No matter what the original intention is, this kind of "neutral" naming method will objectively have a negative impact on interpersonal relationships. The expression of the natural attributes of both sexes in temperament and character makes women use words that reflect gentleness, beauty, and gentleness, while men use words that reflect vitality, broad-mindedness, grandeur, etc. But this does not mean denying the strong side of women and the fragile side of men. It is just a general impression.
The name should have personality, but it should be moderate, and gender differences should not be completely condensed. "Gender-neutral" is unrealistic, harmful, and unhelpful, and should be restricted and promoted.
When naming your baby, avoid "imitating" great men and sages.
Great men and sages are respected by others, but this admiration does not necessarily have to be expressed by copying the names of famous people. This behavior itself is just a mechanical application, without creativity, and it disguises one's original personality.
The fourth taboo in baby naming is "shallow" and "negative"
Negative and depressing words in names may cause unexpected erosion to the mind of the name owner. and harm can also have an impact on others and society and should be avoided.
The meaning of the name is superficial and lacks self-cultivation and artistic conception. When you first see its name, it gives you a very boring feeling, so you lose the role the name should play. For example, Wang Yi, Mancang, Lacey, Judah, Fu Gui, etc. Such a name is like an unprocessed stone, which hardly gives people a sense of beauty. The single meaning of the name is superficial and naturally cannot attract people's attention and win people's favor. As tasteless as a glass of water. Only when a name is full of changes and deepens can it play its due role.
The fifth taboo in naming babies is that the meaning of the name is outdated.
Naming according to "old conventions" and applying "common sayings" reflect backward values ??and aesthetic consciousness, which are all vulgar expressions. In real life, there are still many people who criticize people around blessings, longevity, health, honoring ancestors, and the three cardinal principles and five constant principles, such as Ma Jinbao, Chang Changde, Li, Zhang, Zhao Shouxian, etc.
The sixth way to name your baby is to avoid naming it with uncommon words.
Uncommonly used words in names can easily be mispronounced or written incorrectly, distorting the meaning of the name itself; and can cause unnecessary trouble in many situations, such as computer input, bank account opening, etc.
Seven taboos for baby names are vulgar names.
Choosing a vulgar name is like a handsome and beautiful person wearing dirty clothes, which will be a lifelong regret.
If you have an elegant and educated name, even if the person is not very elegant, he will be more elegant in the eyes of people who don't know him well. An elegant name is not only evocative, but also like a breath, unknowingly cultivating the mind of the name owner and improving his behavior, subtly.