In our lives, there will be many, many passers-by, and passers-by are people who happen to pass through our lives. Perhaps, some passers-by are just passers-by, while some passers-by, even if they last only a short time, leave a profound mark in your life. If I were asked to talk about an unforgettable passer-by in my life, I would think of a name, a person who maybe you also know - Jiang Fangzhou.
The first time I learned about Jiang Fangzhou was when I accidentally saw his name in an Yilin magazine. At that time, she was already a new star in the writing world, waiting to rise. At first, I didn’t know much about her, I only knew that she was a young writer with a small reputation. I really got to know her when she published a collection of essays in 2013 - "I Admit I Have Never Experienced Vicissitudes of Life". This book is her first collection of essays after the age of 20. She also reflects on her growth in the book. Gains and losses on the road. In fact, Ark has been controversial since its debut, and was once the target of ridicule.
The "Round Table Party" some time ago brought Jiang Fangzhou and Xu Jinglei to the forefront. Some people thought that the 28-year-old Jiang Fangzhou was not as good as the 40-year-old Xu Jinglei. Some people complained that she was too weak. , not as elegant and calm as Xu. It even promotes Xu Jinglei as the new contemporary woman. In fact, there is nothing wrong with this. Different people have different ways of living. Some people yearn for freedom and advocate light. In fact, it is because she once lived in darkness, such as Jiang Fangzhou. Fangzhou has been controversial since her debut. In fact, she is just a child, but she has already endured what a child cannot bear. She must bear the troubles that fame brings to her, which is also something that an ordinary child has never endured, but she Still persisted. Father Jiang and mother Jiang once said that Ark’s ability to resist interference is very strong. In fact, how could this ability be innate? It usually comes from training the day after tomorrow! And a child needs to face these controversies alone, how strong her heart must be!
Some netizens said that "Jiang Fangzhou is a work created by her mother." This is actually the mildest criticism, but Fangzhou has long been calm about these criticisms. She is open-minded and optimistic, and has long ignored these controversies. She just wants to live the way she wants. When she was young, she couldn't tell the difference between good and evil in human nature, so she became invulnerable to all kinds of poison. But when she grew up, because she had seen too much right and wrong, she matured prematurely, and her mind was already open-minded. .
I used to be autistic and didn’t want to talk or communicate, even with the people closest to me. I thought I had an illness, a serious illness, but then I found the answer in Jiang Fangzhou's book. It turns out that she had a similar experience, and the handling of interpersonal relationships has always been Jiang Fangzhou's biggest obstacle. She didn't know how to get along with everyone, so his loneliness also made her mentally precocious. . Every time after school, other children would gather in groups to do homework and play together, but Jiang Fangzhou didn't. She preferred to be alone, or go to the library to read two or three books alone, or Go home alone.
Later, she once said that Tokyo saved her. In 2016, she lived alone in Tokyo for a year, and it was Tokyo that saved her. In the same way, she also saved me...