Naming a child is a headache for many parents, but in the past, many girls’ names were not taken seriously.
There are even some girls' names that emphasize boys over girls, such as Zhaodi, Pandi, Yingdi, Daidi, Qiudi, Nian'er, Shaoting, etc.
In the past, many parents longed to have a boy, but could not, so some parents worked hard on naming their daughters.
So many names like Zhaodi and Pandi appeared. And these girls named Zhaodi have known the meaning of their names since they were young.
There are a lot of girls named Zhaodi on certain websites. Most of them will change their name to Zhaodi when they show that they are capable.
Because this name is like a nightmare, always reminding these girls that their birth is not expected.
Moreover, some girls named Zhaodi will also be discriminated against by their elders when they go on a blind date when they grow up.
Some people think that the name Zhaodi is synonymous with supporting the devil, so the male elders may have a bad impression of the girl.
A child’s name is originally a blessing from parents to their child. It is chilling to think that some girls’ names have been marked by the preference for boys over girls since childhood.
There is a classmate named Zhaodi in my hometown. Because her parents favor boys over girls, this girl has been fostered with her grandparents since her younger brother was born. Every time there is delicious food at home, it is her younger brother who Eat first.
When she was in school, her living expenses were only half of her younger brother's. Later, she was admitted to college and finally graduated. At the request of her parents, Zhaodi had to pay back most of her salary every month.
Finally, with Zhaodi’s efforts, her parents used the girl’s hard-earned money to buy a house for her younger brother in a fourth-tier city.
Later, despite her parents' objections, Zhaodi married a husband with average financial conditions, and she did not escape the fate of supporting her younger brother.
After Zhao Di got married, the whole family stopped working and focused on nibbling girls.
There are also some girls named Zhaodi who choose to marry far away and directly cut off contact with their parents. But it is actually difficult for most people to escape the fate of supporting their younger brother.
In addition, there are also obscure names like Nian'er and Shaoting. Behind these gentle names, there is actually the stench of parents who favor sons over daughters.
Even today, there are still many rural parents who will not give up until they have a son. The most chilling thing is that some women are more patriarchal than men.
These women are accustomed to relying on men for survival in order to please their husbands.
In some backward rural areas, it is not only men who favor sons over daughters, but even more women.
The reason why women tend to favor sons over daughters is because these women have low family status and are not financially independent, so they can only rely on their husbands to survive and please them in everything.
These women do not have the courage to resist their husbands, so they can only blame the girls for their grievances.
As a result, some women have been assimilated by some men. In order not to be targeted, some women can only use the idea of ????preferring boys over girls to protect themselves.
Some women do not have the right to speak and have strong traditional concepts.
Some women themselves live in an environment that favors sons over daughters, and many have adapted to the disadvantages brought about by favoring sons over daughters. Influence.
Having been brainwashed, the concept of incense is too strong, which leads many women to have the concept of favoring boys over girls.
Inferiority of women
If women have low self-esteem, it is easy for them to have a herd mentality. Nowadays, many women have no independent opinions. In order to protect their own interests, they have to unite with their families to target their daughters.
Children tend to have low self-esteem
There are thousands of nice names in the world. Even the simplest names like Ping An, Ru Yi, Le Le, etc. are better than Zhao Di or Pan Di for parents to marry their children. .
Parents giving their children these ambiguous names can easily make their children feel inferior and think that they are not loved by their parents.
Therefore, in order to protect their children, parents should try their best not to give their children such names that favor boys over girls.
It is easy to deepen family conflicts
Parents who are too partial will naturally cause their children to be dissatisfied with the status quo. There are many children who are grudges against their parents because of their names.
There are very few girls named Zhaodi who don’t hate their parents and complain about their younger brothers.
If parents name their children Zhaodi, it will only deepen the conflict between the two children.
It will only increase family conflicts.
As parents, we can treat them equally. Having your own children is a basic requirement of being a parent. If parents cannot guarantee equal love to both children, there is really no need to have a second child.
Without a correct concept of fertility, having a second child can easily become the source of family misfortune.
Today’s topic discussion:
Moms here, are there any girls named Zhaodi, Pandi, or Yingdi around you? How are they doing? Welcome to leave a message at the bottom of the screen for discussion.