The child's five elements are strong in water and lack of wood and metal; the sun's celestial stem is water, and he was born in winter; he must have wood to help him, but avoid too much fire. The Five Elements pay attention to balance, and it is better to have neither deviation nor lack. The character Meng belongs to wood, and the child belongs to water. The horoscope of the child likes earth. Earth is the god of joy for the child, and the child's horoscope is excellent. Children are the water of winter. Water in winter is the time when it is strong. When it meets fire, it can remove its own coldness. When it meets earth, it has a destination. Too much gold means that water has no meaning. Too much wood means that water has feelings. At this time, if the water is too small, people like to stand next to the same kind to help. If the water is too strong, they like to build earth for defense. Since the character Mongolia belongs to wood, it is better to supplement metal and earth.
Name: Meng Siyi
The strokes are: 16 (wood) 9 (gold) 6 (earth)
Heaven grid. Personality. Ground grid. The total number of squares and the number of outer squares are: 17 (gold) 25 (earth) 15 (earth) 31 (wood) 7 (gold)
Total mathematical score: 94 points (auspicious)
Detailed explanation is as follows:
Tiange Mathematics 17 (Gold) [also known as Xiange, which is left by ancestors and has little impact on life], implies:
(Strong) The authority is strong and can overcome all difficulties. If you can tolerate it, you will succeed. (Banji)
Personality Mathematics 25 (Earth) [also known as the nominative case, which is the center point of the name and is in charge of the person's life destiny], suggesting:
(Rong Jun) has a wise and intelligent nature , has unique talents, overcomes arrogance, and can still succeed. (Banji)
He has a gentle temperament but a stubborn personality. He loves face and thinks too much about his own identity and behavior when doing things. They pay more attention to scheming and strive for perfection in everything. Note: Don’t be dissatisfied when you fail to meet your aspirations and ideals. People with this personality should be safe in everything they do and should not be too ambitious.
Digit Mathematics 15 (Earth) [also known as Qian Luck, which is the fate of the first half of life and will affect before middle age], implying:
(Luxury) Full happiness and longevity, wealth and honor , cultivate magnanimity, have high moral character and respect. (Ji)
Zongge Mathematics 31 (Wood) [Also known as later luck, it is the fate of the second half of life, affecting middle age to old age], implying:
(Spring flowers bloom) Wisdom and courage lead to fame and fortune, command of people, prosperity and wealth. (Ji)
External formula numerology 7 (gold) [also known as Ling Yun, the spiritual power, social ability and wisdom in charge of destiny], implying:
(The number of the seven political affairs) seven The number of political affairs is strong and rigorous, the power of talent is shining, and the auspicious stars shine. (Ji)
The three talents of heaven, man and earth, 7 5 5 (gold, earth and earth), imply health and smooth life:
You can achieve unexpected success and development, and gain both fame and fortune. Luck, a solid foundation, peace and health, freedom from all kinds of disasters, happiness and longevity. (Ji)
1. Summary: A safe and stable configuration for life, more suitable for some light jobs, smooth small and medium-sized development in the early years. When expanding your business, you must pay attention to doing what you can and budgeting carefully.
2. Personality: Be strong, refuse to admit defeat, and have lofty ideals. The appearance is kind and peaceful, giving people a feeling of being easy to get along with. The overall economic ability is good. If you can seize the opportunity, you can become wealthy. Pay attention to starting from small things to avoid the shortcomings of being too ambitious and too weak-minded. If you seize the opportunity, you will definitely succeed.
3. Will: Be firm in will, work steadily and steadily, and guard against lack of patience and the tendency to start but end.
4. Career: More suitable for salary class or stable job, life and work are relatively stable.
5. Family: The family is relatively complete, and the father and wife have relatively strong personalities. Pay attention to mutual respect between husband and wife and avoid quarreling.
6. Marriage: If a man marries a wife who is virtuous and good at running the house, the couple will be harmonious after marriage; if a woman marries a talented and gentle husband, the family will be happy after marriage.
7. Children: There are more girls than boys. They have a sense of responsibility, can be filial to their parents when they grow up, and are well received by society.
8. Social: Very popular, courteous and courteous, and sincere in dealing with others, but sometimes it is embarrassing because of missing the point.
9. Spirit: Strong ambition and high thirst for knowledge, giving people a feeling of striving for progress.
But when you fail, you must adjust your mood, maintain a happy mood, and don't be dissatisfied with reality.
10. Financial luck: Financial luck is relatively stable, and income is stable and long-term. You should be more frugal to reduce unexpected losses.
11. Health: To live a healthy and long life, pay attention to gastrointestinal, kidney, and bladder diseases.
12. Old luck: You will be more diligent and peaceful in your later years. Don’t expect too much gains, and pay attention to adjusting your mood.
The combination of personality and appearance (57) implies interpersonal relationships, social skills, career and other information:
Does not compromise easily and can accept criticism from others, but in the future It remains the same in action and cannot be changed. Strong mobility. Those who can work in a harmonious manner can achieve great development. (Good luck)
More information:
Personality Mathematics 25 suggests the personality:
Careful and refined, easy to get close to, gentle and calm, magnanimous, and kind to others Compassionate and honorable. Belong to the destiny of enjoying family happiness. He has a strong heart inside, but it doesn't show on the outside. He has an approachable side, but also has the disadvantage of being easily distant and cold, and his jealousy is slightly stronger.
The combination of personality and nature (57) implies successful luck:
Success is smooth and the goal can be achieved safely. (Part 1)
The combination of personality and geography (55) suggests basic luck:
Stable personality, slow success, overall success and happiness. (Part 1)
There are 15, 16, 23, 24, 32, 33, 41, 42 and other wealth-inducing numbers in the personality or geography (more money, wealth).
The ground numbers are 5, 6, 11, 13, 15, 16, 24, 32, and 35. If you are a woman, you will have good moral character and help your husband and love your children.
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Name: Meng Shian
The strokes are: 16 (wood) 9 (gold) 6 (earth)
Heaven grid. Personality. Ground grid. Total grid. Number of external grids respectively: 17 (gold) 25 (earth) 15 (earth) 31 (wood) 7 (gold)
Overall mathematical score : 94 points (auspicious)
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Name: Meng Xingyu
The strokes are: 16 (wood) 9 (gold) 6 (Earth)
Heaven grid, personality, ground grid, total grid, and the number of external grids respectively: 17 (gold) 25 (earth) 15 (earth) 31 (wood) 7 (gold)
Overall math score: 94 points (Ji)
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Name: Meng Shiyi
The strokes are: 16 (wood ) 9 (gold) 6 (earth)
Heaven grid. Personality. Ground grid. Total grid. Number of external grids respectively: 17 (gold) 25 (earth) 15 (earth) 31 (wood) 7( Gold)
Overall math score: 94 points (Ji)
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Name: Meng Yongcheng
Strokes They are: 16 (wood) 9 (earth) 6 (gold)
Heaven grid. Personality. Ground grid. Total grid. The number of outer grids are: 17 (gold) 25 (earth) 15 (earth) 31 (wood) 7 (gold)
Overall math score: 94 points (lucky)
The detailed explanation is as follows:
Tiange math 17 (gold) [ Also known as Xiange, it is left by ancestors and has little impact on life], implying:
(Strong) Authority is strong and can break through all difficulties. If you can tolerate it, you will succeed. (Banji)
Personality Mathematics 25 (Earth) [also known as the nominative case, which is the center point of the name and is in charge of the person's life destiny], suggesting:
(Rong Jun) has a wise and intelligent nature , has unique talents, overcomes arrogance, and can still succeed. (Banji)
He has a gentle temperament but a stubborn personality. He loves face and thinks too much about his own identity and behavior when doing things. They pay more attention to scheming and strive for perfection in everything. Note: Don’t be dissatisfied when you fail to meet your aspirations and ideals. People with this personality should be safe in everything they do and should not be too ambitious.
Digit Mathematics 15 (Earth) [also known as Qian Luck, which is the fate of the first half of life and will affect before middle age], implying:
(Luxury) Full happiness and longevity, wealth and honor , cultivate magnanimity, have high moral character and respect. (Ji)
Zongge Mathematics 31 (Wood) [Also known as later luck, it is the fate of the second half of life, affecting middle age to old age], implying:
(Spring flowers bloom) Wisdom and courage lead to fame and fortune, command of people, prosperity and wealth. (Ji)
External formula numerology 7 (gold) [also known as Ling Yun, the spiritual power, social ability and wisdom in charge of destiny], implying:
(The number of the seven political affairs) seven The number of political affairs is strong and rigorous, the power of talent is shining, and the auspicious stars shine. (Ji)
The three talents of heaven, man and earth, 7 5 5 (gold, earth and earth), imply health and smooth life:
You can achieve unexpected success and development, and gain both fame and fortune. Luck, a solid foundation, peace and health, freedom from all kinds of disasters, happiness and longevity. (Ji)
1. Summary: A safe and stable configuration for life, more suitable for some light jobs, smooth small and medium-sized development in the early years. When expanding your business, you must pay attention to doing what you can and budgeting carefully.
2. Personality: Be strong, refuse to admit defeat, and have lofty ideals. The appearance is kind and peaceful, giving people a feeling of being easy to get along with. The overall economic ability is good. If you can seize the opportunity, you can become wealthy. Pay attention to starting from small things to avoid the shortcomings of being too ambitious and too weak-minded. If you seize the opportunity, you will definitely succeed.
3. Will: Be firm in will, work steadily and steadily, and guard against lack of patience and the tendency to start but end.
4. Career: More suitable for salary class or stable job, life and work are relatively stable.
5. Family: The family is relatively complete, and the father and wife have relatively strong personalities. Pay attention to mutual respect between husband and wife and avoid quarreling.
6. Marriage: If a man marries a wife who is virtuous and good at running the house, the couple will be harmonious after marriage; if a woman marries a talented and gentle husband, the family will be happy after marriage.
7. Children: There are more girls than boys. They have a sense of responsibility, can be filial to their parents when they grow up, and are well received by society.
8. Social: Very popular, courteous and courteous, and sincere in dealing with others, but sometimes it is embarrassing because of missing the point.
9. Spirit: Strong ambition and high thirst for knowledge, giving people a feeling of striving for progress. But when you fail, you must adjust your mood, maintain a happy mood, and don't be dissatisfied with reality.
10. Financial luck: Financial luck is relatively stable, and income is stable and long-term. You should be more frugal to reduce unexpected losses.
11. Health: To live a healthy and long life, pay attention to gastrointestinal, kidney, and bladder diseases.
12. Old luck: You will be more diligent and peaceful in your later years. Don’t expect too much gains, and pay attention to adjusting your mood.
The combination of personality and appearance (57) implies interpersonal relationships, social skills, career and other information:
Does not compromise easily and can accept criticism from others, but in the future It remains the same in action and cannot be changed. Strong mobility. Those who can work in a harmonious manner can achieve great development. (Good luck)
More information:
Personality Mathematics 25 suggests the personality:
Careful and refined, easy to get close to, gentle and calm, magnanimous, and kind to others Compassionate and honorable. Belong to the destiny of enjoying family happiness. He has a strong heart inside, but it doesn't show on the outside. He has an approachable side, but also has the disadvantage of being easily distant and cold, and his jealousy is slightly stronger.
The combination of personality and nature (57) implies successful luck:
Success is smooth and the goal can be achieved safely. (Part 1)
The combination of personality and geography (55) suggests basic luck:
Stable personality, slow success, overall success and happiness. (Part 1)
There are 15, 16, 23, 24, 32, 33, 41, 42 and other wealth-inducing numbers in the personality or geography (more money, wealth).
The ground numbers are 5, 6, 11, 13, 15, 16, 24, 32, and 35. If you are a woman, you will have good moral character and help your husband and love your children.
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Name: Mengkuixi
The strokes are: 16 (wood) 9 (earth) 6 (gold)
Heaven grid. Personality. Ground grid. Total grid. Number of external grids respectively: 17 (gold) 25 (earth) 15 (earth) 31 (wood) 7 (gold)
Overall mathematical score : 94 points (auspicious)
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Name: Meng Weizhou
The strokes are: 16 (wood) 9 (earth) 6 (Gold)
The sky grid, personality, ground grid, total grid, and number of outer grids are: 17 (gold) 25 (earth) 15 (earth) 31 (wood) 7 (gold)
Overall math score: 94 points (Ji)
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Name: Meng Yuzhou
The strokes are: 16 (wood ) 9 (earth) 6 (gold)
Heaven grid. Personality. Ground grid. Total grid. Number of external grids respectively: 17 (gold) 25 (earth) 15 (earth) 31 (wood) 7( Gold)
Overall math score: 94 points (Ji)
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"Blessing the adoptive father" is to recognize the adoptive father and adoptive mother. It is a popular childcare custom across the country. In the north, it is called "recognizing the godfather and godmother"; in the south, it is called "recognizing the foster father and foster mother", commonly known as "paying homage to the godfather and the godmother".
The godmother recognized in infancy may be permanent and maintain this relationship for life, or it may be temporary, ranging from three to five years at most, or a quick meeting and nothing to do with each other from then on. Some of the objects of "gangqin" are people and some are objects. The first purpose is to fear that the child will be delicate and difficult to give birth to, or that the child will die in infancy, and that he will be childless, so he can avoid disasters and save the child by praying to his godmother. Use "Blessings to the Goddess" to change the fortune, so as to achieve harmony between the upper and lower levels and a prosperous family. In order to make their children easier to raise, "gangqin" generally likes to adopt families with many children or poor families as adoptive fathers and mothers, because in families with many children, the children are like groups of small animals and are easy to grow up; in addition, , poor families generally have more children, and they are not delicate, but are easy to feed and grow up. Of course, there are also families that are willing to recognize each other's children as adopted sons or daughters in order to enhance their relationship. As for those wealthy dignitaries who take Kun Ling and dancers as their goddaughters, that has ulterior motives and is no longer within the scope of our discussion.
The custom of "seeking relatives" has great differences in etiquette and customs due to different regions, ethnic groups and cultural backgrounds.
In Beijing, people generally believe that recognizing a godfather or godmother will be detrimental to the father and godmother’s biological children. Therefore, people who are not close relatives and friends generally do not dare to ask them to be the godfather of their children. For the godson and goddaughter, both parties must send gifts to each other and hold banquets. From now on, every year on three birthdays and two birthdays, the godson and goddaughter families must give gifts to the godfather and godmother, and the godfather and godmother must also give gifts to the godfather and godmother. Gifts are given in return, so even if you don’t come from a wealthy family, it is difficult to socialize.
Since you want to "go to God", you have to choose an auspicious day to hold the ceremony. At that time, in addition to preparing a sumptuous banquet, parents must also prepare gifts for their children to honor their godfather and godmother. The most important gifts in this gift are the hat for the godfather and the shoes for the godmother. In addition, there are also items such as clothing. Of course, the godfather and godmother are not just in and out. The things that the godfather and godmother give to their godson and goddaughter must include a rice bowl, chopsticks and a longevity lock. In addition, they must also have a set of small clothes, shoes and socks, a hat, a bib and a bib. In the past, for these gifts, wealthy families would go to jewelry stores to order silver bowls and chopsticks, or go to the lamas of Huguo Temple and Baita Temple to buy wooden bowls to prevent children from breaking them if they accidentally dropped them. It is considered very unlucky if the bowl is broken.
In some places in Henan and Shaanxi, "gangqin" is completed by "touching". In areas such as Zhengzhou and Kaifeng, Henan, on the first morning after a baby is born, the baby's father has to go out to "touch" the surname.
The first person he "touches", whether he is male or female, old or young, the father of the baby will kneel down and kowtow, then explain to him or her that a child has been born in the family, and ask the other person to name the child. In the past, most of the people who got up early in the countryside were old men who picked up dung. Some of them were not mentally prepared, but due to customs, they could not refuse, so they had to make nonsense. As a result, names such as "dung basket", "luotou", "dog baby" and "cat baby" came out. Although these names are a bit inelegant, fortunately they are just nicknames, people's pet names for children. They are only called when they were young, so it doesn't matter much. In some places, in addition to naming the baby, the person who is "touched" also gives the baby a gift and is recognized as a godmother. In some places in Shaanxi, "recognition of godmother" is usually carried out by the child's grandmother or grandfather on the day when the child is "full moon". The first adult he meets after going out is regarded as godmother or godfather. Of course, in addition to the randomness of this kind of "bumping", most occasions are often arranged in advance. The first person you "bump" to meet either has a good relationship with his family or someone with status and status. people.
In Hangzhou, there is a different custom for children to "see their godmother". The godmother they worship is not a living person, but the "impermanent ghost" often mentioned in Mr. Lu Xun's articles. There, "parents were afraid that their son would not live long, and they were also afraid that it would be expensive to worship Godfather, so they did not send it to anyone but to the ghosts of impermanence." This is commonly known as "Worshiping Godfather Hu". According to local legend, the Impermanent Ghost is a ghost specially sent by King Yama to capture the souls of the deceased. The purpose of sending children to the Impermanent Ghost is to hope that it will not capture the souls of the children, so as to ensure longevity. In the past, people in the world did not know the name of the Impermanent Ghost, so they mistook it for the surname Hu, hence the title "Hu Qianye". The method of paying homage to Mr. Hu is as follows: the child’s parents first make a brand new white shirt, then bring it to the temple, exchange it for the old clothes on the idol of Mr. Hu, and exchange them with soju, sesame cakes, and incense candles. , silver ingots were offered and burned. Finally, the monks in the temple named Dezhi's son. From then on, every July, the child's parents would take the child to the temple to congratulate Mr. Hu on his birthday until the child reaches 16 years old.
In addition to the Han people, some ethnic minorities in my country also have the custom of "worshiping relatives", such as the Tujia people, who are very representative. In addition to sending their children to people with other surnames as "godsons" and "goddaughters", some families also send their children to trees, rocks, wells, pigs, dogs, chickens and other objects, and use them as gifts. Name the child after the object of worship. If it is a boy, it is usually called "Yanbao", "Shuibao", "Zhubao", "Chickenbao", etc.; if it is a girl, it is usually named "Yanmei", "Shuimei", "Goubao" "Sister", "Chicken Sister", etc. Because in the view of Tujia people, only by sending children to others or things can the disaster stars be eliminated and the children grow up smoothly.
However, the ordinary "recognition of godfather" ceremony is completed as long as the child formally kowtows three times to godfather and godmother, and changes his name to godfather and godmother. If the child is young and particularly delicate, the godmother will wear a pair of particularly baggy red trousers, sit on the bed, and someone else will hold the child out of her crotch to show that the child is her biological child. Then the godmother puts a longevity lock on him or her and gives him or her a nickname, which he or she will use to eat with the bowls and chopsticks given by his or her father and godmother. This means that the children will become their children from now on, eat their food, and have nothing to do with their biological parents. From then on, the child can take advantage of the blessings of his godfather and godmother to grow up smoothly and live a long and healthy life.
Although the conservation custom of "worshiping relatives" has different manifestations in different regions and different ethnic groups, we can still find some similarities among them, that is: ( 1) The purpose is the same, both for children to be raised well and grow up smoothly; (2) The causes are similar, and both have a strong superstitious color; (3) The emotions are the same, and they are both full of strong human feelings.
■Recognition of relatives
Recognition of relatives is a popular folk custom in Shanxi countryside in the old days. Most of the interactions after recognizing relatives are more frequent, and they all imitate the way of communication between relatives, forming a relatively fixed relationship.
Although there is no fixed procedure for recognizing a godmother in the countryside, it is generally recognized as a godfather, godmother, godbrother, godsister, etc.
The reasons for recognizing relatives are roughly as follows. The two families are friends and have good relations with each other. In order to make this interaction relatively stable, the method of letting the next generation recognize relatives is used to deepen the interaction. Such as recognizing adoptive father and adoptive mother. Sometimes it is because one party has shown great kindness to the other party's family, and one party wants to repay the other's kindness, so he or she adopts the method of recognizing relatives and becoming adopted children, forming a long-term relationship in a relatively fixed procedure, in order to achieve the purpose of repaying the kindness. Purpose. Others, because the child is delicate and afraid of dying in the middle, adopt the method of recognizing the godfather, godbrother, and godsister to keep the child, so that the child can avoid misfortune and grow up. There are also some families who do this for the sake of becoming rich and noble, so that their children may consider rich people as their godfathers, or they may benefit from it in the future. In some cases, the child is sent to the wet nurse's house for breastfeeding since childhood, thus forming a new relationship between the child and the wet nurse. In the countryside, they are called wet nurse, wet nurse, or wet nurse. In fact, this is also a kind of godly relationship. There are various reasons for recognizing godly relatives, but the emergence of this kind of godly relationship makes the relationship between the two families naturally enter a sequence of kinship interactions.
The recognition of relatives can be found in all parts of Shanxi, and it is more common in Yanbei, Xinzhou, Jinzhong and southern Shanxi.
In rural customs, once you recognize your godfather, everything must be carried out according to the general procedures of rural interactions. All children who recognize their godfather and godmother must follow the country's etiquette and customs procedures during the New Year, festivals, birthdays and birthdays. Do it. As a godson, you have to take care of your godfather and godmother as they age, fulfill your duties as a godson, and provide certain financial support; while your godfather and godmother are responsible for your son’s marriage and childbirth. We must take care of major activities such as building and building houses and provide necessary support and funding.
With the development of society, the number of recognized relatives in rural Shanxi has become less and less, but it still exists in the countryside. This is a special kind of kinship that exists in society and has become a social network. one of the sides.
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