Introduction: Giving a child a loud and impressive name must be the desire of many parents, but there are also many considerations in naming a child. After all, the name will follow the child for a lifetime.
Why shouldn’t you name your child “too big”? It's not superstitious, it's scientific. We analyze and answer this question from the following points.
As a mother, I naturally have the experience of naming my baby. At that time, I began to think about the name when the baby was still in the belly, but I was not satisfied with it. Later, when the baby was born, the name had to be chosen. But I really didn’t expect that there are so many things to pay attention to when choosing a name. It depends on the five elements of the birth date, what is missing, and the baby’s zodiac sign. At that time, I just had a big head, but later I couldn’t help it, so I paid someone to give me a name. .
When I was naming my baby, the elders in my family always emphasized that the name should not be too big.
First, the name is too big, too conspicuous, and easy to attract excessive attention
There was news a few days ago that the child’s name was the same as that of the star Chow Yun-fat, so that the child was called "" Fa Ge, even the mother of the child is embarrassed to introduce her child. A colleague’s child is in the first grade of junior high school this year. Because the child’s name is exactly the same as that of a certain emperor, he has attracted much attention in school. However, this attention has not brought confidence to the child, but has made the child feel inferior. The child's academic performance was originally above average, but once the teacher asked him to answer a question and he failed to answer it, the teacher joked, "Hey, even the emperor can't do it!" Since then, his grades have plummeted, and he even became tired of studying.
Therefore, giving a name that is too big can easily attract others’ attention, and excessive attention is not a good thing for children. You must know that the child’s psychology is not yet sound, and it may be because of the small size. Jokes or otherwise cause harm.
Second, it’s embarrassing if the name doesn’t match the reality.
My neighbor’s child in my hometown is about the same age as me. His name places the hopes of the whole family on him, and his name is Smart. But in fact, the neighbor's child dropped out of school before even finishing junior high school. The reason for dropping out of school was because he was stupid and could only understand a little bit in a week. There was no one in the village who knew who. Later, Clever went out to work and came back not long after that. All the money he earned while working was defrauded. Later, when people in the village saw him, they took the initiative to call him by his name. He was smart and clever, but what came out of his words was all ridicule.
Personally, I think that compared to names like smart and strong, names that directly describe appearance would be more embarrassing if the appearance does not match the name.
For example, if a girl’s name is Beautiful and a boy’s name is Handsome, if his appearance is ordinary, he will indeed be ridiculed. My colleague Wang Shuai is an example. He was average-looking, so he was often ridiculed when he was in school. It was not until he started working that he started to feel better because he was an adult, especially when work was judged on ability rather than looks.
Third, I am afraid that the child will not be able to control himself
Although this statement is a bit weird, it has to be said that there are more or less such examples in real life.
My junior high school teacher’s child’s name is Yongxi, Yong from Yongzheng, and Xi from Kangxi. One person has the names of two emperors. Maybe it’s because the name is too big, and the teacher’s child has not been in good health since he was a child. Well, I was sick all day long and had no energy. Later I heard that the child was gone and died before he reached adulthood.
Important reminder: A child’s name is a business card to the outside world. Avoid names that are too big and unrealistic. Rather than the good expectations in a name that is too big, good education and parents’ precepts and deeds are the key.